Healthy lifestyle
A healthy lifestyle is one which helps to keep and improve people's health and well-being.Many governments and non-governmental organizations have made big efforts in healthy lifestyle and health promotion.
Mental Health
Mental health can be considered a very important factor of physical health for the effects it produces on bodily functions. This type of health concerns emotional and cognitive well-being or an absence of mental disorder.
Public health
Public health can be defined in a variety of ways. It can be presented as "the study of the physical, psychosocial and socio-cultural determinants of population health and actions to improve the health of the population.
Reproductive Health
For the UN, reproductive health is a right, like other human rights. This recent concept evokes the good transmission of the genetic heritage from one generation to the next.
Health
Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.
dimanche 17 juin 2018
How Young, LGBTQ+ People Can Make Aging Less Lonely For Their Elders
The author and DJ during a recent visit together. Photos courtesy the author.
Every Saturday for the past year, DJ and I have spent our mornings together. "I look forward to it," he says. "It's the highlight of my week."
DJ, as he prefers to be called, is larger than life. He's a white-haired and white-bearded septuagenarian living in Echo Park who was, once upon a time, a theater actor and director, a poet and writer, and a music critic and music buyer. Where DJ is an artsy elderly eccentric, I am a young weirdo: a 30-something with neon hair in short shorts who likes painting his nails and experimenting with shapely earrings. We may appear like the oddest of couples when I take him grocery shopping, but a close eye would discern kindred spirits, simply separated by a few decades.
DJ and I have a unique relationship. We spend our handful of hours together chatting about life, as he recounts stories of his youth in Northern California and explains whatever malady of the week has him down. Then there's the subject of young men and young women, specifically those he ran into during the week - the types of people he imagines he could have spent a life with if he were born in a different era.
"I'm still 23 in my head," DJ says. "I always look for mental stimulation in the sense that I can learn something or share something with someone or we have a mutual enthusiasm." That's what he likes about me, he says: that I am open and receptive, and ready to listen and talk back – and I help him combat creeping loneliness. That makes DJ most comfortable, as if he has switched into another language to tell me something no one else in the world could understand.
For me, I love that being in DJ's presence comes with constant learning, experiencing, as if I'm a sort of intellectual apprentice. I also love learning about sexual otherness in mid-century America which, truly, is our deepest bond: DJ is a lifelong, avowed bisexual and I am a very outwardly gay, man-ish individual who has lived a queer life for literally a seventh of DJ's. When he speaks about a tiny crush or a former flame, it's less of a recounting with me and more of a a sneezing out of information that seems to have been stored away - something that would be misunderstood by any case worker or doctor he encountered outside of our visits.
"While I wanted to 'give back' to the aging queer community by volunteering, the cliché of my getting back more in return is true: DJ has taught me that there are no limits to speaking up for yourself, of asking for help, of expressing your needs as bluntly as possible."
DJ often looks at his own past relationships in comparison to my same-sex partnered gay world as a window into an imagined other life. "You've got things," he says, things like a relationship that make him think it "would have been nice" if he had that for himself. "Then I have to swat myself in the rear and say, well, honey, if you had perhaps behaved better..." he trails off with a laugh.
Our relationship is volunteer happenstance, a byproduct of two people looking for each other, only to find each other in the most unlikely of ways. As strange as it seems, I spent years searching and searching for ways to connect with queer elders as a young queer person. I found dead ends with local LA organizations that, it turns out, don't have any easy paths to connect the two groups. For a long time, and to this day, I thought about starting my own organization to fill this gap - something I'd love to call "Daddy's Boys" - a volunteer organization to activate both young and old queers in a tongue-in-cheek way. Sadly, time is too luxurious and too many hashtag millennial financial stresses prevent me from pursuing such a dream. Perhaps in my other life.
DJ, at home. Photo courtesy the author.
In the meantime, I found a dedicated senior care organization that, through queer magic, connected me with DJ. DJ was looking for someone to think with; an intellectual and energetic equal. He was looking for companionship to help quell loneliness, but, he's since told me, he didn't want someone who was "bedraggled of the mind" or "whose energy level is blotto." My volunteer coordinator didn't know DJ was queer, but it was quickly revealed to me and, truly, was one of the best surprises of my adult life. His knowledge, his history, his life fills so many voids and wants as far as connecting with a different era of queerness. I see myself in LGBTQ+ elders like DJ and have found it absolutely invaluable to learn the importance of safe sex and the need to embrace your single queer friends as middle age approaches from someone who has already lived that life. But the biggest difference between DJ and I is that he does have a son while I do not plan on having any children.
We millennials are in high time for parenting. We live in an advanced world where queer adults like myself can become parents myriad ways. Sometimes I think about fatherhood, but always end up more curious about those who have come before me - my queer elders - who didn't have the parenting options that me and my peers have. What is their life like? What are their needs? How can I adopt them? That's what I'm interested and excited by. I could be a parent, but my boyfriend and I have have chosen not to since, really, it's hard enough for us hashtag millennials to make life work the way we want. (And, coupled with some major world problems, we feel the pressure to just survive. We're seemingly not alone given the low birth rates.)
It's scary though, considering my golden, idle years without children of my own, without a person to lean on when I cannot figure out technology or literally cannot stand. I would be lying if I said I didn't think about that constantly, in fear not only of the loneliness of aging, but of facing end-of-life markers without anyone who loves you; who spent a bulk of their life with you. The biggest lesson I've learned during my time with DJ is that he reached out when he recognized that the quality of his life wasn't to his preference, and he made a change. While I wanted to "give back" to the aging queer community by volunteering, the cliché of my getting back more in return is true: DJ has taught me that there are no limits to speaking up for yourself, of asking for help, of expressing your needs as bluntly as possible. I can do that, too, when I am his age.
DJ also gives me hope in my peers and in the world. My age group (and younger and, occasionally, older folks) impress DJ constantly given their extreme openness. "There's gotta be a senior center for older gay folks to hang out or watch movies or just get to know somebody," he projects before lamenting the reality of queer aging. "When you get older, especially if you're LGBTQ+, you have to think about some kind of support system, some kind of way of managing the money you will have and the space you want to occupy." This he attributes to a unique type of queer loneliness that, while in many ways universal, is something to consider at all ages by turning to our friends and queer family of choice. "Try and find a friend or a confidant or social buddy who you can say whatever on your mind and expect to get a reasoned reply," he says. "You have to somehow find a mutual vibe there."
DJ sometimes talks candidly about how hard getting older can be. "The thing about aging is..." he trails, softening his speech. "...you get a little bit of deference but not much. Mostly society seems to want to put people away in nursing homes, which is counter productive in my mind." This is exactly why he reached out for help and turned to a social worker who, in turn, connected me with him. It's a sad American truth – and definitely something that we who are young, parentless, and queer can take the charge in righting.
We can hope for a better future, we can hope that the DJs in our lives and in the world have a me, but we also have to make that world. That is my charge and it's your charge, not only for queer elders but for all of our elders. In working with DJ, in seeing his life, aging is made real. I live thousands of miles from any of my grandparents and a similar distance from my parents: seeing people "get old" firsthand is out of my reach. The concept becomes a phantom limb, something you intellectually know but do not have experience of firsthand. My Saturdays with DJ make me want more: to share more, to give more, in the hopes that we can all experience and honor late life as we do young life.
Perhaps I need to start "Daddy's Boys." Perhaps I need to be more wide-eyed and receptive to any elderly person I come across in the world. It's a simple, obvious lesson. It just took a person like DJ to teach me.
If you're interested in helping or advocating for LGBTQ+ seniors, consider the work of Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) along with regional organizations like Lavender Seniors and OutReach.
An Expert Reveals Whether or Not Shower Sex Is Actually Safe
When it comes to sex, pretty much any place seems fun, and it's totally encouraged to get it on in adventurous spots to shake things up. However, before jumping right in, you'll need to know if your desired location is actually safe. That's when sex can really go wrong, resulting in a sex injury even. Plus, the shower is pretty slippery, so when it comes to shower sex, those chances might be even greater. Here's what you should know before having shower sex, as well as whether or not it's a good idea in general.
Is It Safe?
Yup, it sure is - and fun. Yet you still need to be careful not to slip and fall because you are in the shower, it's a wet environment, and you can get carried away during sex and lose balance, especially if you're trying some more advanced positions. First tip? Avoid supercomplex positions that can cause you to feel unstable. Stick with good positions that are grounding, explains Lanae St.John, DHS, ACS, a certified sexologist and professor of human sexuality, to POPSUGAR.
How to Improve Stability
"One of the risks of having sex in the shower is the possibility of slipping," she says. "To reduce the risk, you can pick up inexpensive antislip stickers for the floor of your tub at your local hardware store. There are a couple of companies that sell suction-cup devices that make playing in the shower safer," she explains. She also offered some other helpful suggestions.
"One of the products is the Sex in the Shower Single Locking Foot Rest," she says. It looks like a ledge and is dual-purpose, so you can put your foot on it to shave your legs before getting frisky. "The other is the Sportsheets Dual Locking Suction Handle that attaches to the wall in your shower and gives a firm place to hold onto," she says. These items, when applied to a dry wall ahead of time, provide a fantastic secure base and can prevent accidents, she advises.
Use Lube
The shower is fantastic, but it can reduce natural lubrication. Though, FYI, if you have your period, you'll be a bit more wet down there, and the shower might just be the perfect position for your monthly flow.
A lube that is silicone-based is a much better choice for the shower than a water-based lube because it allows you to stay wet and not dry out, she notes. "Hold off on the soap, though, because that's what you use to wash off the silicone lube afterwards," she says. Remember to be extra careful, as lube can make the floor slippery - don't apply too much or make a mess without being aware of what's around you.
Types of Positions
Any positions that offer stability on both ends are advisable. "An easy position is one where [they] put [their] leg up on the tub edge. If you are in a larger shower or tub/shower combo, another choice position is a rear-entry position, where [one person] is bent over forward, perhaps with [their] hands on the end of the tub. Then [the person behind] can hold [their partner's] hips and get some power for thrusting," she says.
Either way, go into it being mindful of balance, and if a position seems hard or uncomfortable, ditch it. Better to be safe than sorry, and you can still have a ton of fun in the shower together.
The 12 Best Rides at Disney World Are More Than Worth the Wait Times
Getting to go to Disney World is a magical experience filled with special treats, unique accessories, and enchanting fireworks. Beyond all of these things, what makes the park so special is the rides. While you might want to see them all, it's best to know which ones should be your go-to experiences. In this list are 12 the best attractions at Disney World; some are classics and some are new, but all of the ones featured on this list simply can't be missed.
The Royal Family's Nurseries Have Been Over-the-Top Dreamy For Years
With the news of baby number three on its way for the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, what better time to look back at that very unique childhood environment: the royal nursery! It is where the next generation of the family forge their earliest memories and is often the liveliest, most informal, and creative heart of any royal household. It is usually comprised of a whole suite of rooms that take up a whole floor and include a kitchen, playroom, and bedrooms for the little princes and princesses, their nannies, and protection officers. Over the years, it's been offset by some very special al fresco additions, including the queen's most glamorous Wendy House ever, William and Harry's tree house, and George and Charlotte's shepherd's hut. It's time to take a tour . . .
6 Fun Things You Can Do With Ice Cube Trays This Summer
Looking for some variety when it comes to your cold beverages and smoothies this Summer? One of the most overlooked kitchen utensils is hanging out on the top shelf of your freezer as we speak. Ice cube trays come in a variety of shapes and sizes, plus are inexpensive, and most recipes using them take less than five minutes to complete! Check out six unique and fun things you can do using only your ice cube tray and any size freezer.
10 Dump Cake Recipes You Can Practically Bake in Your Sleep
Funny to say and even easier to make: a dump cake. This is the ultimate semi-homemade dessert, and anyone - seriously, anyone - can bake a perfect one with minimal effort. Made by dumping boxed cake mix and fruit into a dish, dump cakes are quite possibly the easiest baking project you'll ever attempt, but no one has to know your secret to such a flavorful and moist cake! You'll soon discover why this fast and easy dessert is so popular after you try any of these 10 crowd-pleasing recipes, from blueberry dump cake to chocolaty banana split dump cake.
10 Cool Pet Beds You'll Want to Buy ASAP - All From 1 Major Store
Instead of having your pet snuggle up on the end of your bed or curl up on the floor, spoil them with a cozy new bed. We looked to Walmart because the megastore has a giant pet section to shop. To make your life easier, we did the hard work for you and unearthed some its comfiest and funniest choices. From a hot-dog-shaped dog bed to a window hanging lounge for cats, we have you covered. Take a look at our favorites ahead.
25 Filling Vegetarian Dinners to Make During the Workweek
Time is of the essence when you want to cook dinner after a long day, and these vegetarian recipes are here to help you out. From comforting soups to hearty slow-cooker meals and more, these 25 easy recipes prove that meat-free eating isn't boring.
You Won't Believe This Gorgeous House Is Only 362 Square Feet
"At under 400 square feet, our Craftsman cottage is indeed tiny, but in the five years we've been here, we've never needed more space," says Whitney Leigh Morris, small-space living aficionado, designer, and blogger behind The Tiny Canal Cottage. So what's her secret to making everything fit? "Nearly everything about the cottage - from the built-ins to the decor - was deliberately chosen to maximize the space. I selected furniture and accessories over time as we learned how to best navigate this particular layout with one another." Whitney recently refreshed her Venice Beach, CA, home for Spring, and the pictures were so stylish and full of small-space living inspiration that we had to share them with you. Take a look at Whitney's gorgeous digs and tiny-space living tips here, and then shop the look on Joss & Main.
100+ Cheap or Free Things to Do This Summer
When we think of childhood Summers, we think of balmy nights chasing fireflies, walking barefoot on hot sand, and hours of fun that didn't cost a thing. Just because we're adults doesn't mean we have to drop a ton of money to celebrate our favorite season! There are endless activities you can do this Summer, and we've rounded up ones that you'll love when you're feeling lazy, when you're ready to get a workout, or when you're in search of an adventure. The best part is they will barely cost you a thing!
10 Female Travel Bloggers of Color You Should Be Following
Everybody deserves to have a chance to see a person who looks like them out there in the world killing it in their field of passion. And sometimes it's easy to feel that with the lack of diversity and representation among influencers in the travel industry, a dreamer can ultimately be disheartened when someone doesn't have a positive role model to show them that it's OK to be who they are and to look the way they do in a foreign place.
Thankfully, there's a movement within the travel influencer community where women of color are making their way to the top and creating names for themselves within this space. These 10 blogs are run by incredible ladies who are doing their thing in the travel world and inspiring other women of color to follow in their footsteps.
No Research Required! These Are the 5 Highest Rated Vacuums on Amazon
In the market for a new vacuum? The hard part is picking the right one and making sure it has all the features for just the right price. Not to fuss - we did the hard work for you and looked to Amazon. The mega site is filled with helpful and unbiased customer reviews. We picked out some of the highest rated choices so all you have to do is shop. Whether you need to clean up pet hair or want a hand-held choice, it's all here. Take a look.
18 Books to Fuel Your Wanderlust
If you suffer from acute wanderlust, and you're constantly trying to find ways to fit another trip into your schedule, then you might be addicted to traveling. No matter where the wind blows you, it's good to bring a good book along for the ride - one that will inspire you, challenge you, and make you even more excited about every new adventure. Here are 18 books, both fiction and nonfiction, that will get you in the mood to jet off to another new place, as if you needed any more convincing!
16 Essentials For a Long Car Ride
Going on road trips is one of the best parts of Summer. An abundance of travelers on the road could mean a longer car ride, so if you're going to embark on a lengthy road trip, then remember to bring these essential items with you.
100+ of the Best DIY Gifts Ever
Don't settle for store-bought gifts when you can give your loved ones these one-of-a-kind DIY presents. No matter the occasion, giving someone a gift you made yourself makes it much more meaningful. Show how special the receiver is to you by putting in some time, effort, and love on something handmade. Read on to see more than 100 different types of DIY gifts for every person in your life!
- Additional reporting by Emily Co
40+ Life-Changing Books to Read This Year
Knowledge is king. The first step to creating change in your life is to know what you're doing wrong or why you need to change. We've picked out 41 books that will better your life in a dramatic way. Whether it's figuring out how to get out of debt, learning how to be happier, or trying to find ways to get a job, reading just one of these books this year is guaranteed to change your life for good.
The 12 Best Rides at Disney World Are More Than Worth the Wait Times
Getting to go to Disney World is a magical experience filled with special treats, unique accessories, and enchanting fireworks. Beyond all of these things, what makes the park so special is the rides. While you might want to see them all, it's best to know which ones should be your go-to experiences. In this list are 12 the best attractions at Disney World; some are classics and some are new, but all of the ones featured on this list simply can't be missed.
4 Times NOT to Save Money While Traveling
I was bitten by the infamous travel bug about a decade ago, and since then, I've been scratching at the relentless itch of wanderlust. Of course, with the deep-rooted desire to explore every inch of this world, I've had to become quite the mastermind of budgeting. Whether it's scoping out accommodations, activities, or places to eat, nine times out of 10, you can find me deep in the dark internet trenches seeking out the best deals. Because why spend more than you have to, right? Especially when you've got a whole globe to wander. Yet then there's that other 10 percent.
See, throughout my travels over the years, I've uncovered quite a few instances where splurging was worth the extra money. While it's so easy to get wrapped up in the tangle of how much something costs, sometimes the value of forking over a bit more cash is worth a more meaningful experience. What it all comes down to, though, is balance. Well, that and budgeting. Ahead are four times you should not save money while traveling.
- When you're paying for an experience you can only have in that particular place. One of the items on my bucket list when visiting Venice was - as you can probably guess - taking a ride on a gondola. Yet my giddiness quickly fizzled when I realized how expensive these rides can be. You want me to pay how much . . . for how many minutes? Because I had an extremely tight budget during that trip, I immediately turned away.
But then I got to thinking and my mind started shouting, "YOU'RE IN VENICE . . . FORK OVER THAT CASH AND GET ON THE DAMN BOAT!" Of course, gliding through the narrow canals with an Italian gondolier softly singing in the background turned out to be even more dreamy than I could have imagined. For me, that experience was priceless.
So if it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience, I say suck up any guilt and pay. You'll not only be glad you did, but I promise those PB&Js you'll probably have to feast on for the next few days to save money will taste even more delicious knowing you have extraordinary memories to forever reminisce about.
- When the extra price is supporting ethical tourism. One of the greatest benefits of traveling is how you are time and time again reminded to put others before yourself. You learn to put aside your own agenda for a while and focus on the bigger picture: how will my actions affect those around me? For instance, while I've always dreamed of riding an elephant - mostly due to watching Disney's The Jungle Book one too many times - I have since realized how harmful this is to these precious creatures. So for me, paying the extra hundred bucks to spend time with (and not ride!) rescued elephants is absolutely worth the steeper price tag.
While we all have different comfort levels when it comes ethical tourism, it is extremely important that we do our part in creating a better world for not only ourselves and others - including the elephants - but also for future generations. If purchasing handmade artwork created by local artisans costs more than what you would spend at a larger store with mass-manufactured replicas, I say bite the bullet and splurge! Knowing the thinness of your wallet went toward bettering a community is better than knowing you got the best deal.
- When the higher cost will expand your mind. When you travel with an open mind, the world quickly becomes a classroom. New faces and places continuously bring forth new opportunities to grow and learn. And sometimes, splurging on a guided tour can be the gateway to a more meaningful experience. While these knowledgeable guides can provide you with a local's perspective, oftentimes they can also provide entry into places you wouldn't be able to visit otherwise. Plus, when you're a part of a tour group, chances are you'll be able to skip huge lines and save time.
Yet depending on where you're visiting, free walking tours might be available, too. So by all means, definitely do your research to see if you can save money by joining one of these cheaper opportunities. If so, you can tip your guide accordingly and then spend the rest of the money you saved by chowing down on a tasty traditional meal. Whether it's paying more for a crayfish party in Sweden or eating whitebait in New Zealand, you're not simply purchasing an expensive lunch or dinner - you're sampling local flavors and taking part in an authentic sensual experience.
- When time is money. For the longest time, I battled with the same question: will the long, tiresome layover be worth the cheaper cost? Simply put, probably not. Although most people's first instinct - myself included - is to book the cheapest flight possible, over time I've finally learned the importance of weighing the opportunity cost. Nowadays, I focus on the duration of the flights first. If I can find a flight that will get me to my destination faster and only cost a couple hundred dollars more, I am happily willing to reallocate my budget accordingly to lock in that ticket.
Think about it this way: the fewer connections you have, the fewer delays you'll encounter, the less chance your bags have of getting lost, and the fewer hours you'll spend aimlessly roaming terminals trying to kill time.
When it comes to travel time, the goal shouldn't always be to save the most money. Instead, I recommend focusing on efficiency. If you can use your time as wisely as your vacation dollar, you'll have a much more enjoyable experience overall!
10 Secrets All Successful Couples Know About Money
Money. It's a topic so personal we have trouble talking about it with our significant others.
One study from the University of Wisconsin - Madison looked at 100 married couples and concluded that "compared to nonmoney issues, marital conflicts about money were more pervasive, problematic, and recurrent, and remained unresolved." In order to avoid that pitfall, you must prioritize open and honest communication and create good financial habits as a couple. Once you set them up, these habits will help you manage financial stress, one of the biggest threats to a relationship. You'll also get another benefit: the financial means to achieve your dreams as a couple.
Couples who are "good with money" know that proactively managing your household budget is good for your bank account and relationship. They've overcome the pitfalls of debt, navigated setting up joint banking accounts, and figured out their tax situations. If you want to be like them, here are 10 tips we've gathered from personal finance experts. Read on for things all couples who are good with money do.
1. They Openly Discuss Small Purchases
It's never too early to build healthy communication around money. "Early on in a relationship, start talking about money before you need to," says Kimmie Greene, a consumer spending expert for the online money-managing tool Mint. You can do this by discussing your ideal budget for a weekend away or by sharing what you plan to do with a bonus check. Talking about small purchases is easier and will help prepare you when it comes time to spend on big-ticket items together, like a wedding or a house. It will also give you insight into how your partner thinks about money.
"Raising awareness at an early point, even prior to partners combining their finances, may prevent future cycles of negatively handled and unresolved conflicts concerning money later in the relationship," concludes the University of Wisconsin paper. Once you've been together for a while, keep this up by letting your partner know when you plan to splurge on concert tickets or a new purse, even if it's with "your" money and not from your joint account. Being upfront about small purchases helps build trust.
2. They Set Specific Goals For Big Purchases
You need to agree on shared priorities. As a couple, try to answer questions about major future expenses: luxury car or used car? Private school or public school? House in the suburbs or city condo? If you communicate and compromise on the big things up front, you'll avoid blowups and misunderstandings later. There's usually room for competing goals, as long as you plan ahead. Rod Griffin, director of public education at credit-monitoring site Experian, also notes that "working toward a common goal can help you align when it comes to spending."
3. They Are Honest About Their Flaws
In addition to setting your financial goals, you need to discuss what obstacles will get in the way of achieving them. Be honest about your financial "flaws" as soon as you can. These can include credit card debt, student loan payments, or a bad credit score. Experts agree that this will help avoid surprises.
If you're still relatively early in your relationship, tax season might be a good time to bring up the uncomfortable topic. For example, you can share your student loans by mentioning the tax credit you will get. If your partner brings up a red flag, try not to judge. Instead, share your expectations and encourage them to come up with a game plan to address the issue.
4. They Celebrate Milestones
You'll be old and gray by the time your pay off a mortgage or dip into that 401k. So how do you stay focused today? Set interim savings goals and celebrate success along the way. "Looking for a new home and just reached 25 percent of your savings goal? Take a date in your new neighborhood to try a hot new restaurant," suggests Greene. She believes these small celebrations can make your savings goals more real and encourage you to keep going.
5. They Focus on Saving Goals, Not Spending Limits
"As long as you're meeting your savings goals, whether you have a latte or a shoe habit may not matter."
Consider flipping the script on your financial conversations. Instead of talking about how much you spend each month, talk out how much you save. It frames things in a positive light. You can simply aim to increase the amount you save each month or work toward a specific dollar amount. Greene explains, "This helps to alleviate pressures that can build up and cause stress around individual expenses. As long as you're meeting your savings goals, whether you have a latte or a shoe habit may not matter as much."
6. They Don't Always Split Things 50-50
It's a good idea to set up a joint account for joint expenses. Just don't assume you will go 50-50 into the account. Greene has this suggestion: "Talk to each other about the expenses you share together and consider your incomes to decide whether or not you pay into that joint account equally or in percentages weighted on overall income." For example, if you partner makes 25 percent more than you, he or she should contribute 25 percent more to the account each month.
This arrangement will help ease tensions that arise when one person feels overwhelmed by higher expenses because they make less money. As your relationship progresses, you may consider blending all your accounts. But the transparent and fair approach you took while keeping things semi-separate will serve you well into the future.
7. They Both Stay Checked In on Their Finances
What if one person is just "better" with money? That's OK! Any successful relationship lets each person play to their strengths. It's fine to let one person in the couple take the lead - as long as you set up regular check-ins. The University of Wisconsin study found that our personal feelings of worth are affected by "the perceived capacity to engage in decision making about money." In other words, we feel more valued in the couple when the household finances are treated as a partnership.
Greene has a tip for taking a collaborative approach, recommending that each person have login information for your joint accounts or finance monitoring services. "Consider setting up a joint email account for logging in to your preferred personal finance app," she says. That way both of you will have visibility into the notifications and account updates. "This helps make both people accountable for where you stand with your money, removing any frustrations that might crop up if just one person knows the latest."
8. They Schedule a Time to Review Monthly Spending
Balancing the checkbook once a month used to provide the perfect opportunity to review spending and saving. Couples no longer need to go through the tedious task, but they should still schedule a date to talk money. Griffin recommends planning "Finance Fridays" with your partner, "setting aside time one Friday each month to check your bank accounts and credit cards, as well as your credit score and report, together." Throw something on your Google Calendars so you don't miss the date, and use it as a forum to discuss your saving goals and to celebrate your small victories.
9. They Know Their Tax Situation
Once you're married - or considering marriage - it's time to think about your tax situation as a couple. Those who are good with money know how to best leverage their circumstances. "Generally, couples who file married filing jointly may be able to take advantage of what is known as the 'marriage bonus' since tax rates are typically lower for couples filing married filing jointly," Lisa Greene-Lewis, a tax expert for TurboTax. Married couples can often claim more tax deductions and credits when filing jointly, like education tax credits worth up to $2,500, the earned income tax credit worth up to $6,269 for a family with three or more kids, or the Child and Dependent Care Credit worth up to $2,100 for two or more kids.
Greene-Lewis suggests taking the time to run your numbers through both scenarios: married filing jointly or married filing separately. TurboTax, for example, will give you numbers for both.
10. They Use Financial Tools
There are a ton of financial planning apps and websites that will track your progress. Turning to third-party services help check your assumptions about where your money is going. They are also a tool for better communication. Greene explains that using an online financial management service can take the stress out of financial conversations, "boiling them down to the facts." That can be particularly helpful when one person in the relationship is emotionally attached to a particular decision. She explains, "We often hear, 'Mint saved my marriage,' as it is easier to blame Mint than your spouse for that new TV or vacation that isn't going to happen this month." And when things go right, let yourselves take the credit as a couple!
These 22 Inspiring Miyazaki Quotes Will Move You to Tears
If you're familiar with the magic that comes from Hayao Miyazaki's mind, then you already know just how amazing his movies are. If you're not familiar with Miyazaki and his Studio Ghibli works - the film studio he founded - then stop what you're doing and start marathoning his movies. NOW. Don't let the cute animated characters deceive you - Miyazaki creates works of pure art, each one with a beautiful story and depth fans have to come expect of his films. In addition to gorgeous animation and unforgettable stories, Miyazaki, both in interviews and through his movies, has had words of wisdom that are timeless, moving, and inspirational. Get ready to laugh, cry, and see the world differently after reading them.
The Royal Family's Nurseries Have Been Over-the-Top Dreamy For Years
With the news of baby number three on its way for the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, what better time to look back at that very unique childhood environment: the royal nursery! It is where the next generation of the family forge their earliest memories and is often the liveliest, most informal, and creative heart of any royal household. It is usually comprised of a whole suite of rooms that take up a whole floor and include a kitchen, playroom, and bedrooms for the little princes and princesses, their nannies, and protection officers. Over the years, it's been offset by some very special al fresco additions, including the queen's most glamorous Wendy House ever, William and Harry's tree house, and George and Charlotte's shepherd's hut. It's time to take a tour . . .
6 Fun Things You Can Do With Ice Cube Trays This Summer
Looking for some variety when it comes to your cold beverages and smoothies this Summer? One of the most overlooked kitchen utensils is hanging out on the top shelf of your freezer as we speak. Ice cube trays come in a variety of shapes and sizes, plus are inexpensive, and most recipes using them take less than five minutes to complete! Check out six unique and fun things you can do using only your ice cube tray and any size freezer.
30 Easy and Delicious Summer Lunch Ideas - Bring on the Pasta Salad and Avocado Dressing
In need of a little summertime lunch inspiration? When you're not hanging outside or filling your plate at family BBQs, you'll want to reach for one of these tasty recipes perfect for the warm-weather months. We're all guilty of resorting to sad desk lunches that don't involve much more than carrots and hummus, but these enticing meals guarantee you'll look forward to making lunch for any day of the week. With veggie-packed pasta salads that can be served warm or cold, salads drizzled with avocado dressing, and meal-prepped chicken with cilantro rice, this list of 30 recipes has something for everyone.
10 Dump Cake Recipes You Can Practically Bake in Your Sleep
Funny to say and even easier to make: a dump cake. This is the ultimate semi-homemade dessert, and anyone - seriously, anyone - can bake a perfect one with minimal effort. Made by dumping boxed cake mix and fruit into a dish, dump cakes are quite possibly the easiest baking project you'll ever attempt, but no one has to know your secret to such a flavorful and moist cake! You'll soon discover why this fast and easy dessert is so popular after you try any of these 10 crowd-pleasing recipes, from blueberry dump cake to chocolaty banana split dump cake.
10 Cool Pet Beds You'll Want to Buy ASAP - All From 1 Major Store
Instead of having your pet snuggle up on the end of your bed or curl up on the floor, spoil them with a cozy new bed. We looked to Walmart because the megastore has a giant pet section to shop. To make your life easier, we did the hard work for you and unearthed some its comfiest and funniest choices. From a hot-dog-shaped dog bed to a window hanging lounge for cats, we have you covered. Take a look at our favorites ahead.
25 Filling Vegetarian Dinners to Make During the Workweek
Time is of the essence when you want to cook dinner after a long day, and these vegetarian recipes are here to help you out. From comforting soups to hearty slow-cooker meals and more, these 25 easy recipes prove that meat-free eating isn't boring.
You Won't Believe This Gorgeous House Is Only 362 Square Feet
"At under 400 square feet, our Craftsman cottage is indeed tiny, but in the five years we've been here, we've never needed more space," says Whitney Leigh Morris, small-space living aficionado, designer, and blogger behind The Tiny Canal Cottage. So what's her secret to making everything fit? "Nearly everything about the cottage - from the built-ins to the decor - was deliberately chosen to maximize the space. I selected furniture and accessories over time as we learned how to best navigate this particular layout with one another." Whitney recently refreshed her Venice Beach, CA, home for Spring, and the pictures were so stylish and full of small-space living inspiration that we had to share them with you. Take a look at Whitney's gorgeous digs and tiny-space living tips here, and then shop the look on Joss & Main.
100+ Cheap or Free Things to Do This Summer
When we think of childhood Summers, we think of balmy nights chasing fireflies, walking barefoot on hot sand, and hours of fun that didn't cost a thing. Just because we're adults doesn't mean we have to drop a ton of money to celebrate our favorite season! There are endless activities you can do this Summer, and we've rounded up ones that you'll love when you're feeling lazy, when you're ready to get a workout, or when you're in search of an adventure. The best part is they will barely cost you a thing!
10 Female Travel Bloggers of Color You Should Be Following
Everybody deserves to have a chance to see a person who looks like them out there in the world killing it in their field of passion. And sometimes it's easy to feel that with the lack of diversity and representation among influencers in the travel industry, a dreamer can ultimately be disheartened when someone doesn't have a positive role model to show them that it's OK to be who they are and to look the way they do in a foreign place.
Thankfully, there's a movement within the travel influencer community where women of color are making their way to the top and creating names for themselves within this space. These 10 blogs are run by incredible ladies who are doing their thing in the travel world and inspiring other women of color to follow in their footsteps.
No Research Required! These Are the 5 Highest Rated Vacuums on Amazon
In the market for a new vacuum? The hard part is picking the right one and making sure it has all the features for just the right price. Not to fuss - we did the hard work for you and looked to Amazon. The mega site is filled with helpful and unbiased customer reviews. We picked out some of the highest rated choices so all you have to do is shop. Whether you need to clean up pet hair or want a hand-held choice, it's all here. Take a look.
18 Books to Fuel Your Wanderlust
If you suffer from acute wanderlust, and you're constantly trying to find ways to fit another trip into your schedule, then you might be addicted to traveling. No matter where the wind blows you, it's good to bring a good book along for the ride - one that will inspire you, challenge you, and make you even more excited about every new adventure. Here are 18 books, both fiction and nonfiction, that will get you in the mood to jet off to another new place, as if you needed any more convincing!
16 Essentials For a Long Car Ride
Going on road trips is one of the best parts of Summer. An abundance of travelers on the road could mean a longer car ride, so if you're going to embark on a lengthy road trip, then remember to bring these essential items with you.
100+ of the Best DIY Gifts Ever
Don't settle for store-bought gifts when you can give your loved ones these one-of-a-kind DIY presents. No matter the occasion, giving someone a gift you made yourself makes it much more meaningful. Show how special the receiver is to you by putting in some time, effort, and love on something handmade. Read on to see more than 100 different types of DIY gifts for every person in your life!
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40+ Life-Changing Books to Read This Year
Knowledge is king. The first step to creating change in your life is to know what you're doing wrong or why you need to change. We've picked out 41 books that will better your life in a dramatic way. Whether it's figuring out how to get out of debt, learning how to be happier, or trying to find ways to get a job, reading just one of these books this year is guaranteed to change your life for good.
The 12 Best Rides at Disney World Are More Than Worth the Wait Times
Getting to go to Disney World is a magical experience filled with special treats, unique accessories, and enchanting fireworks. Beyond all of these things, what makes the park so special is the rides. While you might want to see them all, it's best to know which ones should be your go-to experiences. In this list are 12 the best attractions at Disney World; some are classics and some are new, but all of the ones featured on this list simply can't be missed.
4 Times NOT to Save Money While Traveling
I was bitten by the infamous travel bug about a decade ago, and since then, I've been scratching at the relentless itch of wanderlust. Of course, with the deep-rooted desire to explore every inch of this world, I've had to become quite the mastermind of budgeting. Whether it's scoping out accommodations, activities, or places to eat, nine times out of 10, you can find me deep in the dark internet trenches seeking out the best deals. Because why spend more than you have to, right? Especially when you've got a whole globe to wander. Yet then there's that other 10 percent.
See, throughout my travels over the years, I've uncovered quite a few instances where splurging was worth the extra money. While it's so easy to get wrapped up in the tangle of how much something costs, sometimes the value of forking over a bit more cash is worth a more meaningful experience. What it all comes down to, though, is balance. Well, that and budgeting. Ahead are four times you should not save money while traveling.
- When you're paying for an experience you can only have in that particular place. One of the items on my bucket list when visiting Venice was - as you can probably guess - taking a ride on a gondola. Yet my giddiness quickly fizzled when I realized how expensive these rides can be. You want me to pay how much . . . for how many minutes? Because I had an extremely tight budget during that trip, I immediately turned away.
But then I got to thinking and my mind started shouting, "YOU'RE IN VENICE . . . FORK OVER THAT CASH AND GET ON THE DAMN BOAT!" Of course, gliding through the narrow canals with an Italian gondolier softly singing in the background turned out to be even more dreamy than I could have imagined. For me, that experience was priceless.
So if it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience, I say suck up any guilt and pay. You'll not only be glad you did, but I promise those PB&Js you'll probably have to feast on for the next few days to save money will taste even more delicious knowing you have extraordinary memories to forever reminisce about.
- When the extra price is supporting ethical tourism. One of the greatest benefits of traveling is how you are time and time again reminded to put others before yourself. You learn to put aside your own agenda for a while and focus on the bigger picture: how will my actions affect those around me? For instance, while I've always dreamed of riding an elephant - mostly due to watching Disney's The Jungle Book one too many times - I have since realized how harmful this is to these precious creatures. So for me, paying the extra hundred bucks to spend time with (and not ride!) rescued elephants is absolutely worth the steeper price tag.
While we all have different comfort levels when it comes ethical tourism, it is extremely important that we do our part in creating a better world for not only ourselves and others - including the elephants - but also for future generations. If purchasing handmade artwork created by local artisans costs more than what you would spend at a larger store with mass-manufactured replicas, I say bite the bullet and splurge! Knowing the thinness of your wallet went toward bettering a community is better than knowing you got the best deal.
- When the higher cost will expand your mind. When you travel with an open mind, the world quickly becomes a classroom. New faces and places continuously bring forth new opportunities to grow and learn. And sometimes, splurging on a guided tour can be the gateway to a more meaningful experience. While these knowledgeable guides can provide you with a local's perspective, oftentimes they can also provide entry into places you wouldn't be able to visit otherwise. Plus, when you're a part of a tour group, chances are you'll be able to skip huge lines and save time.
Yet depending on where you're visiting, free walking tours might be available, too. So by all means, definitely do your research to see if you can save money by joining one of these cheaper opportunities. If so, you can tip your guide accordingly and then spend the rest of the money you saved by chowing down on a tasty traditional meal. Whether it's paying more for a crayfish party in Sweden or eating whitebait in New Zealand, you're not simply purchasing an expensive lunch or dinner - you're sampling local flavors and taking part in an authentic sensual experience.
- When time is money. For the longest time, I battled with the same question: will the long, tiresome layover be worth the cheaper cost? Simply put, probably not. Although most people's first instinct - myself included - is to book the cheapest flight possible, over time I've finally learned the importance of weighing the opportunity cost. Nowadays, I focus on the duration of the flights first. If I can find a flight that will get me to my destination faster and only cost a couple hundred dollars more, I am happily willing to reallocate my budget accordingly to lock in that ticket.
Think about it this way: the fewer connections you have, the fewer delays you'll encounter, the less chance your bags have of getting lost, and the fewer hours you'll spend aimlessly roaming terminals trying to kill time.
When it comes to travel time, the goal shouldn't always be to save the most money. Instead, I recommend focusing on efficiency. If you can use your time as wisely as your vacation dollar, you'll have a much more enjoyable experience overall!
10 Secrets All Successful Couples Know About Money
Money. It's a topic so personal we have trouble talking about it with our significant others.
One study from the University of Wisconsin - Madison looked at 100 married couples and concluded that "compared to nonmoney issues, marital conflicts about money were more pervasive, problematic, and recurrent, and remained unresolved." In order to avoid that pitfall, you must prioritize open and honest communication and create good financial habits as a couple. Once you set them up, these habits will help you manage financial stress, one of the biggest threats to a relationship. You'll also get another benefit: the financial means to achieve your dreams as a couple.
Couples who are "good with money" know that proactively managing your household budget is good for your bank account and relationship. They've overcome the pitfalls of debt, navigated setting up joint banking accounts, and figured out their tax situations. If you want to be like them, here are 10 tips we've gathered from personal finance experts. Read on for things all couples who are good with money do.
1. They Openly Discuss Small Purchases
It's never too early to build healthy communication around money. "Early on in a relationship, start talking about money before you need to," says Kimmie Greene, a consumer spending expert for the online money-managing tool Mint. You can do this by discussing your ideal budget for a weekend away or by sharing what you plan to do with a bonus check. Talking about small purchases is easier and will help prepare you when it comes time to spend on big-ticket items together, like a wedding or a house. It will also give you insight into how your partner thinks about money.
"Raising awareness at an early point, even prior to partners combining their finances, may prevent future cycles of negatively handled and unresolved conflicts concerning money later in the relationship," concludes the University of Wisconsin paper. Once you've been together for a while, keep this up by letting your partner know when you plan to splurge on concert tickets or a new purse, even if it's with "your" money and not from your joint account. Being upfront about small purchases helps build trust.
2. They Set Specific Goals For Big Purchases
You need to agree on shared priorities. As a couple, try to answer questions about major future expenses: luxury car or used car? Private school or public school? House in the suburbs or city condo? If you communicate and compromise on the big things up front, you'll avoid blowups and misunderstandings later. There's usually room for competing goals, as long as you plan ahead. Rod Griffin, director of public education at credit-monitoring site Experian, also notes that "working toward a common goal can help you align when it comes to spending."
3. They Are Honest About Their Flaws
In addition to setting your financial goals, you need to discuss what obstacles will get in the way of achieving them. Be honest about your financial "flaws" as soon as you can. These can include credit card debt, student loan payments, or a bad credit score. Experts agree that this will help avoid surprises.
If you're still relatively early in your relationship, tax season might be a good time to bring up the uncomfortable topic. For example, you can share your student loans by mentioning the tax credit you will get. If your partner brings up a red flag, try not to judge. Instead, share your expectations and encourage them to come up with a game plan to address the issue.
4. They Celebrate Milestones
You'll be old and gray by the time your pay off a mortgage or dip into that 401k. So how do you stay focused today? Set interim savings goals and celebrate success along the way. "Looking for a new home and just reached 25 percent of your savings goal? Take a date in your new neighborhood to try a hot new restaurant," suggests Greene. She believes these small celebrations can make your savings goals more real and encourage you to keep going.
5. They Focus on Saving Goals, Not Spending Limits
"As long as you're meeting your savings goals, whether you have a latte or a shoe habit may not matter."
Consider flipping the script on your financial conversations. Instead of talking about how much you spend each month, talk out how much you save. It frames things in a positive light. You can simply aim to increase the amount you save each month or work toward a specific dollar amount. Greene explains, "This helps to alleviate pressures that can build up and cause stress around individual expenses. As long as you're meeting your savings goals, whether you have a latte or a shoe habit may not matter as much."
6. They Don't Always Split Things 50-50
It's a good idea to set up a joint account for joint expenses. Just don't assume you will go 50-50 into the account. Greene has this suggestion: "Talk to each other about the expenses you share together and consider your incomes to decide whether or not you pay into that joint account equally or in percentages weighted on overall income." For example, if you partner makes 25 percent more than you, he or she should contribute 25 percent more to the account each month.
This arrangement will help ease tensions that arise when one person feels overwhelmed by higher expenses because they make less money. As your relationship progresses, you may consider blending all your accounts. But the transparent and fair approach you took while keeping things semi-separate will serve you well into the future.
7. They Both Stay Checked In on Their Finances
What if one person is just "better" with money? That's OK! Any successful relationship lets each person play to their strengths. It's fine to let one person in the couple take the lead - as long as you set up regular check-ins. The University of Wisconsin study found that our personal feelings of worth are affected by "the perceived capacity to engage in decision making about money." In other words, we feel more valued in the couple when the household finances are treated as a partnership.
Greene has a tip for taking a collaborative approach, recommending that each person have login information for your joint accounts or finance monitoring services. "Consider setting up a joint email account for logging in to your preferred personal finance app," she says. That way both of you will have visibility into the notifications and account updates. "This helps make both people accountable for where you stand with your money, removing any frustrations that might crop up if just one person knows the latest."
8. They Schedule a Time to Review Monthly Spending
Balancing the checkbook once a month used to provide the perfect opportunity to review spending and saving. Couples no longer need to go through the tedious task, but they should still schedule a date to talk money. Griffin recommends planning "Finance Fridays" with your partner, "setting aside time one Friday each month to check your bank accounts and credit cards, as well as your credit score and report, together." Throw something on your Google Calendars so you don't miss the date, and use it as a forum to discuss your saving goals and to celebrate your small victories.
9. They Know Their Tax Situation
Once you're married - or considering marriage - it's time to think about your tax situation as a couple. Those who are good with money know how to best leverage their circumstances. "Generally, couples who file married filing jointly may be able to take advantage of what is known as the 'marriage bonus' since tax rates are typically lower for couples filing married filing jointly," Lisa Greene-Lewis, a tax expert for TurboTax. Married couples can often claim more tax deductions and credits when filing jointly, like education tax credits worth up to $2,500, the earned income tax credit worth up to $6,269 for a family with three or more kids, or the Child and Dependent Care Credit worth up to $2,100 for two or more kids.
Greene-Lewis suggests taking the time to run your numbers through both scenarios: married filing jointly or married filing separately. TurboTax, for example, will give you numbers for both.
10. They Use Financial Tools
There are a ton of financial planning apps and websites that will track your progress. Turning to third-party services help check your assumptions about where your money is going. They are also a tool for better communication. Greene explains that using an online financial management service can take the stress out of financial conversations, "boiling them down to the facts." That can be particularly helpful when one person in the relationship is emotionally attached to a particular decision. She explains, "We often hear, 'Mint saved my marriage,' as it is easier to blame Mint than your spouse for that new TV or vacation that isn't going to happen this month." And when things go right, let yourselves take the credit as a couple!
These 22 Inspiring Miyazaki Quotes Will Move You to Tears
If you're familiar with the magic that comes from Hayao Miyazaki's mind, then you already know just how amazing his movies are. If you're not familiar with Miyazaki and his Studio Ghibli works - the film studio he founded - then stop what you're doing and start marathoning his movies. NOW. Don't let the cute animated characters deceive you - Miyazaki creates works of pure art, each one with a beautiful story and depth fans have to come expect of his films. In addition to gorgeous animation and unforgettable stories, Miyazaki, both in interviews and through his movies, has had words of wisdom that are timeless, moving, and inspirational. Get ready to laugh, cry, and see the world differently after reading them.
Pippa Middleton Deserves a Crown of Her Own For This Affordable Maternity Shirtdress
Each outfit Pippa Middleton wears during her pregnancy is style inspiration that belongs straight on your mood board. The 34-year-old mom-to-be wore a printed Seraphine shirtdress, that perfectly blends an effortless, on-the-go look with the sophistication you come to expect from Pippa's wardrobe.
The breezy Summer dress cinches above her waist, curving to fit Pippa's growing baby bump. Seraphine claims this dress will easily transition post-pregnancy, becoming nursing friendly thanks to the buttons down the front, making it versatile for when Pippa's baby arrives. She paired the chic ensemble with large sunglasses, a black cross-body purse, and matching flats. Ahead, see every element of the outfit up close and then shop Pippa's exact dress at the budget-friendly price of $65.
Hot Damn - The MTV Awards Red Carpet Was Stylish as Hell
Just when you thought things couldn't get any sexier, stars rolled up to the 2018 MTV Movie and TV Awards. Celebrities saved their sexiest outfits for the award show and from the looks of it they were having the time of their lives.
Olivia Munn dared to wear a green jumpsuit with a plunging neckline while Kim Kardashian made our jaw drop in a white crop top and skirt from Versace that featured a thigh-high split. Keep reading to have a look at every stylish arrival and see why we're calling award show the most stylish of the season.
Emily Ratajkowski's Bikini Bottom Gets Even More Revealing When You See the Reflection in the Mirror
Emily Ratajkowski is clearly feeling herself. The supermodel posted two back-to-back Instagrams wearing one of her sexiest bikinis to date. Emily took a selfie in a mirror wearing a crop top that showed off major underboob. She styled her white long-sleeved shirt with a pair of white lace bikini bottoms that left little to the imagination.
As if her outfit wasn't daring enough, we noticed the reflection in the mirror which showed that her scandalous string bikini bottom was actually a cheeky thong silhouette. Read on to see her daring "Saturday morning selfie" and buy similar bikinis if you dare to give it a try ahead.
10 Cute Weekender Bags That Will Make You Say, "When the Heck is My Next Vacation?"
If you're tired of traveling around with that old oversize tote you've had for too long, invest in a new, useful weekender you'll actually enjoy using. These conveniently sized bags are perfect for just a few nights away, or you can pair them with your suitcase on your next long-distance flight by placing them on the top of your rollerbag. So whether you're taking it for one night away or 10, we have no doubt you'll enjoy packing in these stylish picks.
Save Your Money For Vacation - These 13 Bikinis From Amazon Are All Under $23
Having a serious swimsuit obsession can take a toll on your bank account, but we just discovered a ton of affordable finds on Amazon. So if you're planning your next vacation, you can still treat yourself to a few new bikinis without spending too much. We searched the site and found a everything from velvet to floral prints, and they all have one thing in common: they're under $23. Shop our favorites.
You Won't Ask, "What Do I Wear?," After You See These 10 Modest Dresses
In a world of barely there tops and tiny skirts, sometimes all we want is a beautiful dress that keeps us covered up and feeling fabulous. Women can, and should, wear whatever they want. Finding a modest dress can sometimes prove to be difficult, so we did the heavy lifting for you and found 10 gorgeous options. Think midi and maxi silhouettes with sleeves and no excessive cutouts! We know, it sounds too good to be true. You'll obsess over these modest styles; just keep reading to shop our picks!
21 Outfits to Wear Out Now - and Nap in Later
We all have those mornings where we just aren't feeling it: maybe you're in a grumpy mood or you spent the night tossing and turning, unable to fall asleep. Whatever the reason, the thought of getting dressed - and leaving your cozy, comfy PJs behind - is causing you to shed tears. Actual tears.
Don't worry, we feel ya. And while we're trying hard to fight our inner lazy girl, there's no reason we can't reach a fashionable compromise. Combine comfort and style, like the 21 outfits ahead. Keep on reading for a few ideas that are superchic but still suited for a short little catnap. Because there will be a catnap (just not at the office).
Thank You, Glitter Gods - Your Perfect Summer Sneaker Has Arrived, and We Need It ASAP!
If you're attracted to glitter like a moth to a flame, first, we feel you. Secondly, we have good news for you. On a recent shopping trip, these UA Authentic Lurex Sneakers ($60) caught our eyes, and frankly, we can't stop thinking about them.
The classic sneaker has been a staple in our wardrobe for years, but this glitter version has us excited in a whole new way. We can already picture ourselves mixing and matching them with our favorite Summer dresses or distressed denim shorts. The best part: they're so comfy! Whether you're headed on vacation or looking for a commute shoe with a little extra sparkle, this pair will do the job. If pink isn't your thing, no problem; it also comes in a pretty gray metallic choice.
We have a feeling these fun shoes won't stay in stock for long! Hurry and shop before it's too late.
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