Healthy lifestyle
A healthy lifestyle is one which helps to keep and improve people's health and well-being.Many governments and non-governmental organizations have made big efforts in healthy lifestyle and health promotion.
Mental Health
Mental health can be considered a very important factor of physical health for the effects it produces on bodily functions. This type of health concerns emotional and cognitive well-being or an absence of mental disorder.
Public health
Public health can be defined in a variety of ways. It can be presented as "the study of the physical, psychosocial and socio-cultural determinants of population health and actions to improve the health of the population.
Reproductive Health
For the UN, reproductive health is a right, like other human rights. This recent concept evokes the good transmission of the genetic heritage from one generation to the next.
Health
Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.
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Find Out How Much You Should Really Be Tipping at the Salon
Tipping is a custom that allows you to express appreciation for a job well done. But when it comes to salon, spa, and nail services, it can be hard to decide who and how much to tip - especially on a color job gone wrong. And while tipping is at your discretion, here are a few suggestions on amounts to give in a variety of circumstances. See the guidelines below.
It's Party Time! 57 Creative First Birthday Party Ideas
Congratulations, you've made it through the first year of parenthood! Ask any new mama - who feels like just yesterday she brought home a newborn and is now planning baby's first birthday bash - and she'll tell you how fast a year can fly by. Baby's first birthday is a once-in-a-lifetime affair, and as parents, we all want to make it a memorable one - but where to start? From smash cakes to party favors, we've got you covered. Put on your party-planning hat and get inspired to throw the party of the year with these creative first birthday party ideas.
Manny MUA and Jeffree Star Are Getting Sued Over Their New Collab - Here's Why
The highly anticipated collaboration between makeup vloggers Jeffree Star and Manny MUA just experienced a major hiccup: the duo is getting sued. On April 4, a lawsuit was filed against the pair for trademark and copyright infringement on behalf of Black Moon Cosmetics by MacArthur Law Firm. Black Moon Cosmetics is seeking an end to the sales of their products as well as damages and paying for attorney fees.
Black Moon Cosmetics launched in 2015 with a holographic moon logo that looks similar to the holographic moon on Jeffree Star and Manny MUA's new collaboration. In the lawsuit, representatives of Black Moon state that it was the first company to use a holographic moon on a black background on cosmetic packaging and claims that Manny MUA had contacted Black Moon and communicated his admiration of the packaging via a direct message on Instagram saying "absolutely loveeeeee your packaging!"
The lawsuit goes on to state that four months later, Manny MUA first used a similar-looking holographic crescent moon on a black background on his own product packaging. This isn't the first time that Manny MUA has used a comparable logo on packaging. In 2016, the vlogger collaborated with Makeup Geek on an eye shadow palette that featured a holographic crescent moon as well.
Black Moon claims that the vloggers produced packaging for their collaboration with the knowledge that it looks similar to Black Moon's products. Black Moon states that the vloggers' collection is likely to cause confusion with items from Black Moon's company when it launches on April 8. In a statement on MacArthur Law Firm's website, the firm has included a link to screenshots showing comments on an Instagram photo of the collaboration from consumers pointing out the similarities between the logos.
It's unclear if the lawsuit will delay the launch of the collaboration, and neither of the vloggers have issued a statement. Stay tuned for more updates as they become available.
56 Underrated Photos of President Obama During His Time in Office
Feeling nostalgic for President Obama? We all remember the moments Obama embodied cool, exuded class while appearing with his predecessor, or proved just how close he is with Vice President Joe Biden. But there are also moments from his presidency that might have gone under the radar among the thousands that have been captured of him.
Ahead, check out 56 photos from his administration that you might not have seen before - and then see pictures from before he took office.
The Best Gifts For 7-Year-Olds
Your little one is growing up, and in case you didn't notice it, he's a big kid now. From music-inspired toys that reflect your child's favorite music group to games that bring the whole family to the table, we've rounded up the best gifts for the 7-year-old on your list - gifts that will keep them coming back for more every day.
It's Party Time! 57 Creative First Birthday Party Ideas
Congratulations, you've made it through the first year of parenthood! Ask any new mama - who feels like just yesterday she brought home a newborn and is now planning baby's first birthday bash - and she'll tell you how fast a year can fly by. Baby's first birthday is a once-in-a-lifetime affair, and as parents, we all want to make it a memorable one - but where to start? From smash cakes to party favors, we've got you covered. Put on your party-planning hat and get inspired to throw the party of the year with these creative first birthday party ideas.
These Aren't Faceless Men, Just Crazy-Good Game of Thrones Cosplayers
We've seen Arya Stark change her appearance several times while training with the Faceless Men on Game of Thrones, but even she might be jealous of the spot-on cosplayers at WonderCon. Passionate GOT fans brought their A game to the convention, daring to don furs and chain mail, even in the warm Southern California weather.
Read on for the most jaw-dropping cosplays inspired by the series that we saw at WonderCon. Let's put it this way: if the Iron Throne was intended for the best cosplayer, we're positive that one of these fans would win the game of thrones!
See Every Item in the Lorac x Pirates of the Caribbean Collection
Earlier this year, prestige makeup brand Lorac Cosmetics revealed on Instagram that in anticipation of the May release of Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales, it'd be releasing a collaboration inspired by the film. We finally have a look at the eight-piece launch! In the mix are an astronomy-themed blush and highlighter palette (glow like the stars!), double-ended lip colors (including an edgy blue hue), and an eye palette complete with a smudgy eyeliner to re-create Jack Sparrow's iconic look. Needless to say, fans of limited-edition beauty swag will need these items in their stashes. Keep reading to see the entire collection before it launches later this month.
What Dresses You Should Really Wear to an Indian Wedding
When you're invited to a wedding (and if you're anything like us), your first thought is usually about what you're going to wear. And if the wedding you're attending happens to be an Indian wedding, things can get a little tricky. During my sister's wedding in Dubai, the question I got asked the most was, "What's appropriate to wear to an Indian wedding?" For most of my friends, this was their first time attending an Indian wedding, and they didn't know where to start. If you're not wearing a traditional Indian outfit, there's still a ton of gorgeous gowns you can wear to be the best dressed guest at the wedding.
Before we dive right in, here are a couple of pointers you should keep in mind when choosing a dress. First, the two colors you should stay away from are white and black (of course, this varies case by case, but these colors signify mourning or bad luck, so it's better to stay away from them). Instead, have fun with bright, bold, cheery colors, and don't be afraid to accessorize or choose something sparkly. And lastly, if you're unsure if what you're wearing works, the best thing you can do is ask the bride - after all, she knows best. Here's our roundup of the best dresses you can wear to an Indian wedding.
21 Sweet Photos of Prince Philip and His Royal Grandkids
Prince Philip married Queen Elizabeth II in 1947 after falling in love eight years earlier. They went on to enjoy many exciting milestones, including Elizabeth's coronation in 1953 and the births of their four children, Princess Anne and Princes Charles, Andrew, and Edward. Since then, Philip has welcomed eight grandchildren and five great-grandchildren, whom he is often seen spending time with at both family gatherings and official events. See Philip's best moments with his royal grandchildren!
8 Stretches Your Tight Hips Are Begging For
Tight hips seem to be a common problem for almost everybody - from runners to cyclists, from deskbound bloggers to dancers. Give this area a little extra love with this sequence of eight hip-opening stretches to increase your flexibility, reduce discomfort, and prevent injury. Try the series in the order listed here, or pick your favorites to incorporate into your workout routine.
These Aren't Faceless Men, Just Crazy-Good Game of Thrones Cosplayers
We've seen Arya Stark change her appearance several times while training with the Faceless Men on Game of Thrones, but even she might be jealous of the spot-on cosplayers at WonderCon. Passionate GOT fans brought their A game to the convention, daring to don furs and chain mail, even in the warm Southern California weather.
Read on for the most jaw-dropping cosplays inspired by the series that we saw at WonderCon. Let's put it this way: if the Iron Throne was intended for the best cosplayer, we're positive that one of these fans would win the game of thrones!
What Dresses You Should Really Wear to an Indian Wedding
When you're invited to a wedding (and if you're anything like us), your first thought is usually about what you're going to wear. And if the wedding you're attending happens to be an Indian wedding, things can get a little tricky. During my sister's wedding in Dubai, the question I got asked the most was, "What's appropriate to wear to an Indian wedding?" For most of my friends, this was their first time attending an Indian wedding, and they didn't know where to start. If you're not wearing a traditional Indian outfit, there's still a ton of gorgeous gowns you can wear to be the best dressed guest at the wedding.
Before we dive right in, here are a couple of pointers you should keep in mind when choosing a dress. First, the two colors you should stay away from are white and black (of course, this varies case by case, but these colors signify mourning or bad luck, so it's better to stay away from them). Instead, have fun with bright, bold, cheery colors, and don't be afraid to accessorize or choose something sparkly. And lastly, if you're unsure if what you're wearing works, the best thing you can do is ask the bride - after all, she knows best. Here's our roundup of the best dresses you can wear to an Indian wedding.
13 Reasons Why: The Cast Is Talking Like Season 2 Is Coming
We're on the edge of our seats waiting for Netflix to tell us if season two of 13 Reasons Why is in the works, but nothing official has been announced. It usually takes the streaming service a few weeks after a premiere to renew a series, but 13 Reasons Why is somewhat of a special case. The show is based on a book by Jay Asher and was conceived as a miniseries. If Netflix opts for a second season, they would be going far beyond what was in the book. Of course, the writers already expanded on a number of characters (Hannah's parents aren't even in the book) and the season ends with several cliffhangers, so it kind of feels like they're already setting up season two. Until we know for sure, let's take our cues from what the cast and production team have said about the possibility of continuing the story.
- Producer Selena Gomez is being coy, but her comments sound hopeful. "I would get in trouble for saying something, but I hope so," she told Entertainment Tonight at the premiere. "I hope people enjoy the first season." After the show became available on Netflix, Gomez spoke to The Hollywood Reporter about the possibility of more episodes: "We don't know what is going to go beyond it, but we know there are so many stories that lie beneath each character. That's why it became a series in the first place. So we'll see."
- Katherine Langford (aka Hannah) thinks "there's more stories to tell." She also spoke to ET at the premiere, saying, "We definitely have a lot more dialogue that we continue from the story we've already told. I'd love to do it, but we'll see." Langford also spoke to THR about what may come next: "It would be cool to continue the dialogue of this story. There are so many cliffhangers at the end of the season. At the end of the season, I had to sit back. I didn't think about what happens next. It's more of this feeling like, 'Oh my God, that's the story that needed to be told.'"
- Dylan Minnette (Clay) definitely wants to do another season. "I think that everyone would love to do another one, if we're given the opportunity," he told ET. "I think when people see where it leaves off, people are going to want to know more about these characters and what's next for them. There is a possibility."
- Creator Brian Yorkey is open to the idea. "I think we'd very much like to have that opportunity," he told ET. "We're not done with these characters. We love them and I want to know what happens next. . . . We absolutely talked about what could happen next . . . I would love to learn more about who these kids are, why they did what they did and also, Hannah made 13 tapes and told us 13 very specific stories, but there's a lot she didn't and I want to know more about that. I want to know what her secrets are."
21 Sweet Photos of Prince Philip and His Royal Grandkids
Prince Philip married Queen Elizabeth II in 1947 after falling in love eight years earlier. They went on to enjoy many exciting milestones, including Elizabeth's coronation in 1953 and the births of their four children, Princess Anne and Princes Charles, Andrew, and Edward. Since then, Philip has welcomed eight grandchildren and five great-grandchildren, whom he is often seen spending time with at both family gatherings and official events. See Philip's best moments with his royal grandchildren!
Wedding Music: Over 100 Pop Songs to Get Everyone on the Dance Floor
We're doing our best to help you with your many music decisions this upcoming wedding season, giving you inspiration for processional songs, recessional songs, and first dance songs, but if you're thinking about what comes after all that formality, then listen up. When it's time for the reception and you want to get those guests out of their seats and onto the dance floor, we've got the pop songs that should do the trick. Play DJ with these hits from the current charts and past couple of years, and we're sure you'll get everyone from the groomsmen to the grandparents boogying.
8 Stretches Your Tight Hips Are Begging For
Tight hips seem to be a common problem for almost everybody - from runners to cyclists, from deskbound bloggers to dancers. Give this area a little extra love with this sequence of eight hip-opening stretches to increase your flexibility, reduce discomfort, and prevent injury. Try the series in the order listed here, or pick your favorites to incorporate into your workout routine.
25 Photos of Carrie Fisher and Debbie Reynolds That Will Make You Smile, Then Break Your Heart
Actress, writer, and advocate Carrie Fisher passed away after a heart attack at the age of 60, and just one day later, on Dec. 28, her mother, legendary Hollywood actress Debbie Reynolds, also passed away after suffering a stroke. Debbie was rushed to LA's Cedar-Sinai Hospital after complaints of trouble breathing. After her passing, her son and Carrie's brother, Todd Fisher, confirmed that she was "now with Carrie" and "we're all heartbroken." He added that his sister's death "was too much" for the 84-year-old Singin' in the Rain star. In the wake of Carrie's death on Dec. 27, Debbie released a heartfelt statement: "Thank you to everyone who has embraced the gifts and talents of my beloved and amazing daughter. I am grateful for your thoughts and prayers that are now guiding her to her next stop. Love, Carries Mother."
Touching tributes to both Debbie and Carrie have continue to pour out from costars, friends, and celebrity fans over the past few months. Both women will be forever remembered for their incredible talent, vibrant personalities, and deep love and respect for each other. They were even buried next to each other at the Forest Lawn Memorial Park in LA. They are survived by Todd, as well as Carrie's daughter and Debbie's granddaughter, Scream Queens actress Billie Lourd, who recently starred alongside her mother as she reprised her iconic role as Princess Leia for Star Wars: Episode VII - The Force Awakens and is taking custody of Carrie's beloved therapy dog, Gary. As we mourn this unforgettable mother-daughter duo, look back on Debbie and Carrie's sweetest moments together over the years.
These Dazzling Glowworm Caves in New Zealand Are a Sight to Behold
If you ever find yourself in New Zealand, do not miss the dazzling Waitomo Glowworm caves. Travelers can take boat tours along the Waitomo river through a series of lit tunnels inhabited by millions of glowworms called Arachnocampa luminosa. This peculiar species is made up of luminescent fungus gnats that are unique to New Zealand, and they only show themselves in darkness. Their twinkle attracts moths, which the glowing gnats catch in their slimy webs and feed on. In the photos ahead, the caves resemble a neon galaxy that's truly a sight to behold.
Photography is strictly prohibited during the boat ride as it will disturb the glowworms, but some companies offer professional photos to be purchased from your tour. See the photos, and check out National Geographic's stunning 360 video of the caves.
Tarte's Friends and Family Sale Is Happening and Our Wallets Aren't Ready
It's the most magical time of the year, and we're not talking about Christmas. Tarte's annual friends and family sale is coming and it's the perfect time for makeup-lovers to stock up on old favorites (and try some new goodies out).
Beginning Monday, April 3, you can use the code FESTIVAL on tartecosmetics.com to enjoy 30 percent off of all of Tarte's products, including skin care and body care. There are only two exclusions: Shape Tape Contour Concealer and the Limited-Edition Magic Wands Brush Set.
Hear that? That's the sound of our wallets freaking TF out. The offer is only available through Thursday, April 6, so we suggest you build those carts fast. If you're not sure about what to shop, we've recommended a few of our favorites ahead. Keep reading, then set your alarms for April 3. Happy spending!
President Obama's New DC Home Needed 1 Major Construction Change For Privacy
The Obama family moved out of the White House in January, but before they could move into their beautiful $5.3 million DC rental, construction crews had to make some last-minute upgrades. According to TMZ, a brick wall was built to fortify the property and the garage was turned into an office with a bathroom, presumably for the Secret Service to use.
The Obamas will be renting the nine-bedroom, eight-and-a-half-bathroom home until Sasha graduates, making President Barack Obama the first president to stay in Washington DC after his term since Woodrow Wilson. The home, located in the upscale Kalorama neighborhood, is clearly being protected with all the necessary security measures. And in addition to a new brick wall, the Obamas also got a new neighbor - Ivanka Trump and her family are moving in just two blocks away to be closer to President Donald Trump in the White House.
So Obama is building a Great Wall ? Nice! http://pic.twitter.com/qqCPlDnCOA
- 14 Days 🇺🇸 (@GigiTracyXO) January 6, 2017
8 Stretches Your Tight Hips Are Begging For
Tight hips seem to be a common problem for almost everybody - from runners to cyclists, from deskbound bloggers to dancers. Give this area a little extra love with this sequence of eight hip-opening stretches to increase your flexibility, reduce discomfort, and prevent injury. Try the series in the order listed here, or pick your favorites to incorporate into your workout routine.
Wedding Music: Over 100 Pop Songs to Get Everyone on the Dance Floor
We're doing our best to help you with your many music decisions this upcoming wedding season, giving you inspiration for processional songs, recessional songs, and first dance songs, but if you're thinking about what comes after all that formality, then listen up. When it's time for the reception and you want to get those guests out of their seats and onto the dance floor, we've got the pop songs that should do the trick. Play DJ with these hits from the current charts and past couple of years, and we're sure you'll get everyone from the groomsmen to the grandparents boogying.
Expect a Little Time Jump When The Walking Dead Returns
Warning: spoilers for the Walking Dead comic books below!
We've got a long six months ahead before The Walking Dead returns for season eight. In that time, we've got plenty to ruminate on. Everything that happens in the season finale, from the general slowness of the season to Daryl's mysterious wooden soldier find, is fodder for critical thinking. Taking all that into consideration, showrunner Scott M. Gimple has given us something else to mull over: a season eight time jump.
In a new interview with The Hollywood Reporter, Gimple admitted there may be a small temporal shift in the near future. When asked if season eight would kick off with a leap forward, he said, "I won't be specific about that, but there will be no mind-blowing temporal shifts. But there might be a bit of a jump, but I don't think it'll be 'oh my god'-level." It may seem like nothing, but we have to consider that Gimple could be downplaying what's ahead.
How could a time jump manifest on the show? Well, we could miss part of the war with the Saviors by skipping the beginning stages and jumping to the dire consequences of the battles somewhere in the middle. There's also a chance we could make progress and skip through the end. Or perhaps we'll leap backward, in the same way the finale featured the profound return of Abraham, just before his death.
And then there's the massive time jump that happens in the comic books. After the "All Out War" with Negan ends, the story springs into the future - two years into the future, to be exact. Without giving too much away, Alexandria has been rebuilt, Hilltop has a new leader, and a new enemy emerges. It's possible this could happen sometime in season eight or at the very end.
All theorizing aside, if there's any time jump that's absolutely necessary, it's a time jump from right now to season eight's October premiere.
The Ultimate Bikini Movie Gallery
The hot, sun-soaked Summer is . . . still so far away. Even if you have no reason to be bikini-ready, stars in beach-set movies are here to inspire you. The movies - including some from 2016 - have provided tons of opportunities to strap on sexy swimsuits, and we've got all the most memorable bikini moments caught on film, including hot shots of Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, and more.
- Additional reporting by Laura Marie Meyers, Becky Kirsch, and Maggie Pehanick
25 Photos of Carrie Fisher and Debbie Reynolds That Will Make You Smile, Then Break Your Heart
Actress, writer, and advocate Carrie Fisher passed away after a heart attack at the age of 60, and just one day later, on Dec. 28, her mother, legendary Hollywood actress Debbie Reynolds, also passed away after suffering a stroke. Debbie was rushed to LA's Cedar-Sinai Hospital after complaints of trouble breathing. After her passing, her son and Carrie's brother, Todd Fisher, confirmed that she was "now with Carrie" and "we're all heartbroken." He added that his sister's death "was too much" for the 84-year-old Singin' in the Rain star. In the wake of Carrie's death on Dec. 27, Debbie released a heartfelt statement: "Thank you to everyone who has embraced the gifts and talents of my beloved and amazing daughter. I am grateful for your thoughts and prayers that are now guiding her to her next stop. Love, Carries Mother."
Touching tributes to both Debbie and Carrie have continue to pour out from costars, friends, and celebrity fans over the past few months. Both women will be forever remembered for their incredible talent, vibrant personalities, and deep love and respect for each other. They were even buried next to each other at the Forest Lawn Memorial Park in LA. They are survived by Todd, as well as Carrie's daughter and Debbie's granddaughter, Scream Queens actress Billie Lourd, who recently starred alongside her mother as she reprised her iconic role as Princess Leia for Star Wars: Episode VII - The Force Awakens and is taking custody of Carrie's beloved therapy dog, Gary. As we mourn this unforgettable mother-daughter duo, look back on Debbie and Carrie's sweetest moments together over the years.
23 Times We Almost Didn't Recognize Adriana Lima
Adriana Lima can make herself look like a totally different person with a simple change of clothes, a variation on her lipstick, or a subtle hair change - that's probably why fashion designers are always choosing her to walk the runway for them. The Brazilian beauty can be sexy and flirty at the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, slightly manly wearing a three-piece suit, and even goth with the help of the right eye makeup. Keep scrolling to see all the times Adriana had us wondering "Is that really her?"
The ABCs of Oil Pulling: What Is It and Should You Try It?
Over the last few days, we've been talking nonstop about the latest detox phenomenon called oil pulling, the act of swishing oil around your mouth. Now, gargling with oil may sound unappealing, but it has been an Ayurvedic practice since ancient times. It's said that oil pulling can do everything from whiten teeth to cure eczema. On the fence about trying it? Read the facts below to see if it's the right treatment for you!
What Is It?
The process is simple. Swish a spoonful of oil (coconut, sunflower, or sesame are most popular) in your mouth for 10 to 20 minutes. Then spit it out in the trash - not down the toilet or in the sink because that will only up your plumbing bill.
How It Works
"People swear by it - that it can fill cavities, relieve toothaches, whiten teeth, freshen breath, absorb harmful bacteria, and cure the common cold," said Dr. Jessica Emery, DMD of Sugar Fix Dental Loft Chicago. "From a dentist's perspective, tooth decay is caused by bacteria and studies suggest that coconut oil treated with enzymes seems to inhibit the growth of certain bacteria." Some would also claim that it fixes acne and brightens complexions.
So in layman's terms, the oil actually pulls germs and bacteria from your gums (and we found one study to back up this up claim). Overall the process is about removing the toxins from the mouth before they can travel to other parts of the body.
Should You Try It?
There is substantial evidence that oil pulling could improve your oral health, and it's a great DIY solution if you run out of mouthwash (be it a bit slimy). But as far as the claims that it's a cure-all, we're going to take our cue from Dr. Weil, who wrote, "Bottom line: Oil pulling won't hurt you, but I wouldn't depend on it to help you improve your overall health or treat significant medical problems."
Expect a Little Time Jump When The Walking Dead Returns
Warning: spoilers for The Walking Dead comic books below!
We've got a long six months ahead before The Walking Dead returns for season eight. In that time, we've got plenty to ruminate on. Everything that happens in the season finale, from the general slowness of the season to Daryl's mysterious wooden soldier find, is fodder for critical thinking. Taking all that into consideration, showrunner Scott M. Gimple has given us something else to mull over: a season eight time jump.
In a new interview with The Hollywood Reporter, Gimple admitted there may be a small temporal shift in the near future. When asked if season eight would kick off with a leap forward, he said, "I won't be specific about that, but there will be no mind-blowing temporal shifts. But there might be a bit of a jump, but I don't think it'll be 'oh my god'-level." It may seem like nothing, but we have to consider that Gimple could be down-playing what's ahead.
How could a time jump manifest on the show? Well, we could miss part of the war with the Saviors by skipping the beginning stages and jumping to the dire consequences of the battles somewhere in the middle. There's also a chance we could make progress and skip through the end. Or perhaps we'll leap backward, in the same way the finale featured the profound return of Abraham, just before his death.
And then there's the massive time jump that happens in the comic books. After the "All Out War" with Negan ends, the story springs into the future - two years into the future to be exact. Without giving too much away, Alexandria has been rebuilt, Hilltop has a new leader, and a new enemy emerges. It's possible this could happen sometime in season eight, or at the very end.
All theorizing aside, if there's any time jump that's absolutely necessary, it's a time jump from right now to season eight's October premiere.
Kate and Pippa Middleton Prove That a Tiara Won't Come Between Their Sisterly Bond
Kate Middleton's top-secret squad may be extensive, but there's no question as to who the leader is: her younger sister, Pippa. Many of us were first introduced to the 33-year-old event planner at Kate and Will's royal wedding in 2011; Pippa made headlines for her stunning appearance, and it wasn't long before the public took interest in her and Kate's sweet relationship. And in the most considerate of sisterly moves, Kate doesn't want her royal status to take away any shine from Pippa's own wedding to financier James Matthews. Kate has reportedly opted out as a member of her wedding party because she doesn't want to "upstage her sister" by being her royal maid of honor. Veteran royals author Judy Wade added, "Kate would want to be in the background as much as possible." How thoughtful is that? Scroll through to see Kate and Pippa's cutest moments over the years.
23 Times We Almost Didn't Recognize Adriana Lima
Adriana Lima can make herself look like a totally different person with a simple change of clothes, a variation on her lipstick, or a subtle hair change - that's probably why fashion designers are always choosing her to walk the runway for them. The Brazilian beauty can be sexy and flirty at the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, slightly manly wearing a three-piece suit, and even goth with the help of the right eye makeup. Keep scrolling to see all the times Adriana had us wondering "Is that really her?"
The Ultimate Bikini Movie Gallery
The hot, sun-soaked Summer is . . . still so far away. Even if you have no reason to be bikini-ready, stars in beach-set movies are here to inspire you. The movies - including some from 2016 - have provided tons of opportunities to strap on sexy swimsuits, and we've got all the most memorable bikini moments caught on film, including hot shots of Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, and more.
- Additional reporting by Laura Marie Meyers, Becky Kirsch, and Maggie Pehanick
Gordon Ramsay Reveals the 1 Place You Should Never Eat
Sure, Gordon Ramsay has high standards, but is there really anything he would never eat? Turns out it's more of a place where he would never eat rather than one specific food - and that's on a plane. In an interview with Refinery29, Gordon revealed his feelings about airplane food and why those feelings might be justified. "There's no f*cking way I eat on planes," he said. "I worked for airlines for 10 years, so I know where this food's been and where it goes, and how long it took before it got on board." Yikes. The man has a point - there's no denying that airplane food is not the best.
So what's a traveler to do to avoid midflight hunger, according to the world-renowned chef? If you're like him, you'll make time to stop at a nice Italian restaurant for a little meat and cheese. "A nice selection of Italian meats, a little glass of red wine, some sliced apples or pears with some parmesan cheese," Gordon says of his ideal airport snack.
Alternatively, of course, you could eat at Gordon Ramsay's very own Plane Food, a restaurant in Terminal 5 of the London Heathrow Airport. There, you'll find truffle mac and cheese, Szechuan squid, and spicy tuna tartare . . . certainly nothing that's reheated in convection ovens on an airplane.
Gisele Bündchen and Tom Brady's Hands-Down Cutest Family Moments
There are plenty of seriously cute celebrity families, but Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen are up there toward the top of the list. With three adorable kids - Jack, Benjamin, and Vivian - between them and lots of adventures under their belt, they have so many shareable moments. Gisele's Instagram account is full of adorable pictures of her family, and while many of them feature photos taken from behind, à la Beyoncé, they're no less post-worthy. Read through to see the all-star family's cutest social snaps, then check out these other famous moms you should be following on Instagram.
This Is How All Your Favorite Chefs Make Deviled Eggs
'Tis the season for deviled eggs, and we've got a fresh batch of recipe inspiration from your favorite chefs. Take a break from traditional deviled eggs and add crab like Giada De Laurentiis, smoked salmon à la Ina Garten, or pink peppercorns if you're channeling Alton Brown. Ahead, check out all the ways your favorite food celebrities dress up their deviled eggs, and snag your favorite recipes for Easter and beyond.
Alton Brown: Pepper Speckled
Leave it to Alton Brown to take an unexpected approach to deviled eggs. His five-pepper deviled eggs are topped with a combination of five types of whole peppercorns: pink, white, black, green, and brined green. After grinding the peppercorns and sprinkling them on top of the eggs, you're left with a colorful egg that has a flavorful crunch in every bite.
Giada De Laurentiis: Crab Infused
Giada's deviled eggs with crab are exactly what you need if you're looking for a slightly elevated yet doable version of the classic Easter appetizer. Not only are the eggs stuffed with lump crab meat, but they also have an Italian flair thanks to mascarpone cheese.
Chrissy Teigen: Secretly Spicy
Want to be Chrissy Teigen's friend? The criteria, according to the cookbook author herself, are "you must never call and you must love deviled eggs. Parties and holidays were created for deviled eggs," she writes in the intro for her Secretly Spicy Deviled Eggs on page 132 of Cravings. She swears hers don't evoke any grandma vibes, and she's right: there's sriracha and pickled jalapeños.
Ree Drummond: With a Secret Ingredient
The Pioneer Woman's deviled eggs might seem standard at first, but there's one ingredient that sets them apart from the rests: pickle juice. Instead of just adding relish to the top as many people do, Ree Drummond recommends stirring a small amount (a teaspoon) of pickle juice into the yolk mixture so that the whole egg is flavored with tangy, salty goodness.
Sunny Anderson: Surprisingly Crunchy
Ever had a crunchy deviled egg before? Sunny Anderson's deviled eggs might convince you that's the only way to go. Sunny's trick is to add canned fried onions on top (yep, the good stuff from Thanksgiving). Lemon zest brightens them up, and pickled jalapeños add just the right amount of acidity.
Ina Garten: Topped With Smoked Salmon
Add a pop of pink to your spread with Ina Garten's smoked salmon deviled eggs. A decadent filling of sour cream and cream cheese makes these deviled eggs reminiscent of a lox bagel with cream cheese, save for the carbs. As always, Ina's recipe calls for "good mayonnaise," but yes, store-bought is fine.
Michael Symon: Make It a Party
Michael Symon's recipe for deviled eggs from The Chew encourages you to get creative with the toppings and make your deviled eggs truly worthy of a party. With a variety of toppings like crumbled bacon, fried shallots, chopped tarragon, and smoked salmon, there's something for everyone and no chance of getting bored.
Kate and Pippa Middleton Prove That a Tiara Won't Come Between Their Sisterly Bond
Kate Middleton's top-secret squad may be extensive, but there's no question as to who the leader is: her younger sister, Pippa. Many of us were first introduced to the 33-year-old event planner at Kate and Will's royal wedding in 2011; Pippa made headlines for her stunning appearance, and it wasn't long before the public took interest in her and Kate's sweet relationship. And in the most considerate of sisterly moves, Kate doesn't want her royal status to take away any shine from Pippa's own wedding to financier James Matthews. Kate has reportedly opted out as a member of her wedding party because she doesn't want to "upstage her sister" by being her royal maid of honor. Veteran royals author Judy Wade added, "Kate would want to be in the background as much as possible." How thoughtful is that? Scroll through to see Kate and Pippa's cutest moments over the years.
Courteney Cox Splashes Around in the Bahamas With Daughter Coco
After celebrating Jennifer Aniston's birthday in Los Cabos, Mexico, in February, Courteney Cox returned to the beach again, only this time with 12-year-old daughter Coco Arquette in the Bahamas. On Monday, the former Friends star slipped into a black bikini and went for a swim in the crystal-blue ocean. Courteney appeared to have the best time as she splashed around in the water and showed off her fit physique.
Just last week, Coco made headlines when she made her music video debut in Monogem's (real name Jen Hirsh) new music video for "Wild." In the video, Coco - who Courteney shares with ex-husband David Arquette - is shown enjoying a fun night out with costar Matthew RC Taylor, and her debut comes more than three decades after her famous mom starred in Bruce Springsteen's music video for "Dancing in the Dark" back in 1984.
Gisele Bündchen and Tom Brady's Hands-Down Cutest Family Moments
There are plenty of seriously cute celebrity families, but Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen are up there toward the top of the list. With three adorable kids - Jack, Benjamin, and Vivian - between them and lots of adventures under their belt, they have so many shareable moments. Gisele's Instagram account is full of adorable pictures of her family, and while many of them feature photos taken from behind, à la Beyoncé, they're no less post-worthy. Read through to see the all-star family's cutest social snaps, then check out these other famous moms you should be following on Instagram.
This Is How All Your Favorite Chefs Make Deviled Eggs
'Tis the season for deviled eggs, and we've got a fresh batch of recipe inspiration from your favorite chefs. Take a break from traditional deviled eggs and add crab like Giada De Laurentiis, smoked salmon à la Ina Garten, or pink peppercorns if you're channeling Alton Brown. Ahead, check out all the ways your favorite food celebrities dress up their deviled eggs, and snag your favorite recipes for Easter and beyond.
Alton Brown: Pepper Speckled
Leave it to Alton Brown to take an unexpected approach to deviled eggs. His five-pepper deviled eggs are topped with a combination of five types of whole peppercorns: pink, white, black, green, and brined green. After grinding the peppercorns and sprinkling them on top of the eggs, you're left with a colorful egg that has a flavorful crunch in every bite.
Giada De Laurentiis: Crab Infused
Giada's deviled eggs with crab are exactly what you need if you're looking for a slightly elevated yet doable version of the classic Easter appetizer. Not only are the eggs stuffed with lump crab meat, but they also have an Italian flair thanks to mascarpone cheese.
Chrissy Teigen: Secretly Spicy
Want to be Chrissy Teigen's friend? The criteria, according to the cookbook author herself, are "you must never call and you must love deviled eggs. Parties and holidays were created for deviled eggs," she writes in the intro for her Secretly Spicy Deviled Eggs on page 132 of Cravings. She swears hers don't evoke any grandma vibes, and she's right: there's sriracha and pickled jalapeños.
Ree Drummond: With a Secret Ingredient
The Pioneer Woman's deviled eggs might seem standard at first, but there's one ingredient that sets them apart from the rests: pickle juice. Instead of just adding relish to the top as many people do, Ree Drummond recommends stirring a small amount (a teaspoon) of pickle juice into the yolk mixture so that the whole egg is flavored with tangy, salty goodness.
Sunny Anderson: Surprisingly Crunchy
Ever had a crunchy deviled egg before? Sunny Anderson's deviled eggs might convince you that's the only way to go. Sunny's trick is to add canned fried onions on top (yep, the good stuff from Thanksgiving). Lemon zest brightens them up, and pickled jalapeños add just the right amount of acidity.
Ina Garten: Topped With Smoked Salmon
Add a pop of pink to your spread with Ina Garten's smoked salmon deviled eggs. A decadent filling of sour cream and cream cheese makes these deviled eggs reminiscent of a lox bagel with cream cheese, save for the carbs. As always, Ina's recipe calls for "good mayonnaise," but yes, store-bought is fine.
Michael Symon: Make It a Party
Michael Symon's recipe for deviled eggs from The Chew encourages you to get creative with the toppings and make your deviled eggs truly worthy of a party. With a variety of toppings like crumbled bacon, fried shallots, chopped tarragon, and smoked salmon, there's something for everyone and no chance of getting bored.
Courteney Cox Splashes Around in the Bahamas With Daughter Coco
After celebrating Jennifer Aniston's birthday in Los Cabos, Mexico, in February, Courteney Cox returned to the beach again, only this time with 12-year-old daughter Coco Arquette in the Bahamas. On Monday, the former Friends star slipped into a black bikini and went for a swim in the crystal-blue ocean. Courteney appeared to have the best time as she splashed around in the water and showed off her fit physique.
Just last week, Coco made headlines when she made her music video debut in Monogem's (real name Jen Hirsh) new music video for "Wild." In the video, Coco - who Courteney shares with ex-husband David Arquette - is shown enjoying a fun night out with costar Matthew RC Taylor, and her debut comes more than three decades after her famous mom starred in Bruce Springsteen's music video for "Dancing in the Dark" back in 1984.
3 Easy Steps to Make Your Urban Garden a Reality This Spring
The hardest part about becoming an urban gardener is making the leap from wanting and thinking about a plot in the city to actually starting one. I would know - I made a few feeble attempts over the years (note: starting from seeds takes forever, basil doesn't particularly love water, and yes, squirrels will steal everything you grow if you let them).
If you're tired of scrolling through Instagram and seeing all the gorgeous blooms from lifestyle bloggers or looking out your window and seeing the side of the next building over, read on for 3 easy steps to make your urban garden a reality this spring.
1. Know what you want to grow
Before you even google tips for starting an urban garden and how to choose the right supplies, make a list of the plants or types of plants you want to have in your garden. Which ones do you already know (snapdragons, pansies, basil, etc.)? Do you want to have flowers, herbs, or vegetables?
Making this your very first step will help the overwhelming task of creating a garden be significantly more doable.
2. Know your space
Perhaps most important is having an understanding of your space. Regardless of what you want to grow, it may be dictated by your environment. Different plants need different types of soil, hours of sunlight, and amounts of water. The amount of water and type of soil can be readily fixed in an urban garden, so really, you just need to know how many hours each day your garden area receives direct or indirect sunlight. This will have the greatest impact on the plants you can successfully grow in your garden. So, take the list you made of the plants you know, and would like to grow, and see if they work best with partial or full sun.
Of course, not all of us living in the city are lucky enough to have outdoor space - not even a fire escape! In these instances, I'm sorry, I've been there. But don't worry, a sunny windowsill can still work great, as does investing in a grow light and a hydroponic indoor plant system.
3. Start small
If you're just getting started with gardening, don't try to tackle it all at once - start with two or three plants, get them under your belt and growing strong before expanding your garden. I know, I know, it's so tempting to make a huge trip to Home Depot or make an order online, but less really is more when you're first digging in.
Keeping in mind the different needs of each plant, you want to make sure you have enough resources to ensure all the plants grow strong and bloom. For example, if you only have one corner of shade, you don't to make that big trip and come home with enough plants to fill half your outdoor space that all want partial sun. You won't be able to give all of them what they need.
Sometimes none of the above matters, and the hardest part is simply starting. That's okay. It's natural for hobbies to fall on the priority list when life gets hectic. But when you're ready to start planting, don't let the millions of options of pots, plants, different soils, fertilizers, gardening gloves, trellises, etc. bog you down (read: avoid the online browsing trap!). Pick the first pot you see that you like, bring home the plants you're familiar with/that will grow well with the amount sunlight you have, and begin.
As Janet Kilburn Phillips once said, "There are no gardening mistakes, only experiments."
10 Documentaries About Cults That Will Shock and Fascinate You
Over the past several decades, modern-day cults have become a phenomenon. Whether religious or spiritual, rich or poor, open or private, these groups usually have a few things in common: a morally questionable leader, mysterious goals and practices, and a body of members who strongly believe in their way of life. It's these things in particular that make these groups fascinating, but as interesting as cults may be, they can sometimes be dangerous, and even deadly.
For those who foster a curiosity about these groups, here are 10 documentaries that get to the bottom of life inside a cult. Note: Many of these groups wouldn't identify themselves as a "cult," but each group is categorized by some type of extreme belief system and/or way of life.
100+ Cleaning and Organizing Hacks
A bright and shining home can be yours thanks to these simple DIY cleaning and organizing solutions. We have more than 100 real-people-tested hacks you can tackle after work or on the weekend. Every room in the house is covered: freshen your kitchen sink with DIY garbage disposal refreshers, organize your jewelry in an ice cube tray, or create some homemade furniture polish with lemon juice and olive oil. These ideas are easy and cheap. So, no excuses!
The Best 50+ Gifts For 5-Year-Olds
The kindergartener on your list is no longer a tot. Somehow, moving into kindergarten helps kids express themselves more than ever before, so finding toys and games that help them build on the skills they are learning at school can also help them express themselves even more. From concentration games and early reading skills, to Lego sets and Barbies, there's something on this list for every 5-year-old you know.
Scroll through for 51 of our favorite finds for the 5-year-old on your list!
8 Magical Crystals to Introduce Good Vibes at Home
Whether you believe the hype or not, people have been using crystals for centuries to bring good vibes and positive energy into their lives. From dispelling negative energy to helping you feel more calm, their unique healing properties and stunning shapes and colours make them an ideal addition to your home. Here are some of our favorites!
Rose Quartz
Rose quartz is one of the most versatile crystals on the market, and can be used throughout your home to create positive energy. Its primary use is for attracting love of all kinds, from self-love to familial love to romance, so it's equally at home in your bedroom or in shared living spaces. It's also great if you suffer from anxiety, and can help promote peace, serenity and tranquility. The pastel pink hue is stunning too!
Citrine
For a pop of color, look no further than citrine. Don't let its rarity and high price tag deter you from this beautiful yellow stone! Placing it in your home can help you with mental clarity and even success. But the best way to be prosperous with citrine is to share your success, as it's very much associated with generosity. Put this crystal in your home office to reap the benefits!
Smoky Quartz
Do you have a hard time making decisions or prioritizing the things in your life? Put some smoky quartz in your office or bedroom and let it clear your mind. This dark and translucent gem will be a standout feature in any space, and can help to remove negative energies so you feel more grounded in your life.
Amethyst
This deep violet or purple crystal is a favorite of people who want to sleep more deeply. Placing this crystal on your bedside table or somewhere else in your bedroom can have a positive affect on your dream cycle, improving your REM sleep. Its other benefits include clearing your mind, making you feel more calm and balanced, and even more patient.
Selenite
Most crystals require cleansing and charging to keep their positive energies intact. Otherwise, they can take on opposite, negative energies - but not selenite. It's said to be immune to negative properties, and this wand-like crystal is itself cleansing and purifying. It would be at home in the bedroom, where it can promote harmony and peace.
Clear Quartz
Clear quartz is one of the most affordable options for crystals on the market - and its clear, light appearance makes it a great addition to any decor style or color palette. Clear quartz is associated with happiness and optimism, so place it anywhere in your home that you feel you need a bit of a pick-me-up!
Hematite
Crystals aren't just ideal for adult bedrooms - hematite is also a great option for children. If your child has trouble concentrating or tends to get overexcited, put some hematite in their bedroom to ground and center them. Hematite also has protective qualities, so it's perfect for this kind of space.
Black Tourmaline
To add some drama to your space - but just the aesthetic kind - consider black tourmaline. The rough, short, opaque crystal is excellent for repelling negative energies. Those suffering from fear, anxiety or obsessions will feel much better with this stone in their space. From bedrooms to home offices to living rooms, put it wherever you need protection against negativity!
So Is Zendaya Playing Mary Jane in Spider-Man: Homecoming or What?
In Sam Raimi's early 2000s Spider-Man franchise, Kirsten Dunst appears as the bubbly, popular, redheaded Mary Jane Watson, one of Peter Parker's most iconic love interests. With a new version of the teenage web-slinger's story on the way in the form of Sony and Marvel's Spider-Man: Homecoming, fans have been trying to determine if Zendaya, whose casting as "Michelle" was announced to much fanfare, is the next person to step into MJ's shoes. Shortly after The Wrap confirmed that Zendaya's role was indeed Mary Jane last Summer, we went on a visit to Spider-Man: Homecoming's Atlanta set, where we assumed we'd get a straight answer about the true nature of her role. The short version? We're still not totally sure who she's playing. The long version? Well, keep reading.
While speaking with Eric Carroll, coproducer and director of development for Marvel, he insisted that "Zendaya is playing a character named Michelle. And I promise you, when the movie comes out, that her name is Michelle." As you can see in the film's first trailer, Michelle could not look more different than Dunst's take on the character. She's in head-to-toe black, wearing little to no makeup, has a messy ponytail, is reading Of Human Bondage in their gym class, and seems to be a lone wolf. Oh, and she also isn't afraid to dish out insults to Peter and Ned (Jacob Batalon) while they ogle Peter's crush, Liz Allan (Laura Harrier). It would certainly be a new direction for the character (if she's truly MJ, of course), but a welcome one.
"I always thought of her as being a version of Ally Sheedy in The Breakfast Club, what Linda Cardellini is like in Freaks and Geeks," director Jon Watts told us about Michelle. "It's just a cool character, and it's cool for her to be that character I thought. She has a really cool wardrobe, really funny, lots of literary nods." Tom Holland, who plays Peter Parker, also had some interesting things to say about his costar. "Michelle is a very interesting character. She's very quiet. She's always reading these crazy books, like 'How to Murder Someone Without Anyone Knowing,'" he joked. "We'll be doing a scene with all the other cast members, and she'll suddenly just pitch in and all of us stop, like, 'That was a strange thing to say.' And then we continue on with our dialogue. . . . Z has really brought a lot of herself to the character."
If we take the cast and production team at their word and the K.C. Undercover star's character really is named Michelle, it still doesn't necessarily put her out of the running of being MJ. One of the biggest things that Carroll emphasized during our conversation was that Spider-Man: Homecoming is attempting to do something completely fresh and new, specifically that the goal "was not to see what's already been seen." With two Spider-Man franchises already in the can, the new film will require a bit of reinvention to be original. Maybe MJ's new name (Michelle J. Watson? Michelle-Jane Watson, only the "Jane" is silent?) and new personality are a part of that. Further adding to our suspicion that Michelle is MJ is the extremely cagey way everyone on set spoke about her character. A simple "Zendaya isn't playing Mary Jane" would have nipped the whole question in the bud. Instead, there was a lot of dancing around the subject.
After being asked about the racism Zendaya has experienced after internet trolls and fan boys decided Mary Jane could only ever be played by a white woman, Holland said that she's taking it all in stride. The comment would not typically be surprising (Zendaya is Twitter's reigning queen of clapbacks, after all), except for the way he describes her character. "She has such a large following on Instagram, and the majority of those people are all for her and all love her," he said. "I feel like our generation of people are all moving on past this whole 'you can't cast someone who's not the set right race for a character.' I think we're breaking through and changing that, and Z is perfect for it. Z is so powerful and strong-willed, it's not going to shake her at all."
As Bustle notes in its own dissection of the quote, why would Holland even bother discussing the Mary Jane haters going after her if she's not actually playing the character? Sony producer Amy Pascal was similarly evasive when questions came up about Michelle, noting that "Peter has lots of girls around him in this movie" and that "the story is about him and Liz." Watts would only acknowledge the existence of multiple Michelles in the comics but didn't want to further address any of the "weird rumors flying around."
Before Spidey swings into theaters on July 6, all we'll know for sure is that Zendaya's Michelle is going to play a huge part in Peter's life. She might not be Mary Jane, but that doesn't rule out an eventual nickname of "MJ," right? If we don't get a definitive answer to the mystery in Homecoming, here's hoping a juicy postcredits scene makes things a little clearer, at the very least.
Master Gingham Print With 14 Easy Outfits
Before you doubt the power of gingham, you'll want to scroll through your 'gram. The print is back in full force this season whether it's in the form of a ruffled blouse or an off-the-shoulder dress. Not only are bloggers loving the Spring trend, but we too are head over heels for the print again. One of our must-have items for April is even a gingham printed skirt.
Trust us, anyone can pull off these checks. All you need is a bit of inspiration to get you started. Ahead, we found 14 easy ways to style gingham for 2017 and included the trendiest print pieces to buy now. Get your gingham game on, ladies.
12 Things No One Tells You About Having a Second Baby
People throw so much advice at you when you're a first-time parent. Just the sight of your pregnant belly and a confirmation that it's your first brings an onslaught of unsolicited tips and sometimes helpful musings. Cut to the second time you expand and your family and everyone just assumes you've got it down. The only advice I got this time was: "If they both need you, help the older child first." (Good advice, by the way.) My general lack of mental preparation before doubling the number of children I had made for some surprising findings in my first few months as a second-time mom.
1. You Will Feel More Guilty Than You Ever Have
You'll feel guilty for spending too much time with your newborn and not paying enough attention to your older child. And then you'll spend more time with your older child and feel terrible for neglecting your newborn. You'll wish you could spend every second with each of your children while also wishing you could take 20 minutes to shower by yourself. It's a guilt-ridden cycle that I wish I could say goes away, but it really just gets a little less intense. Because what's motherhood without a little guilt, really?
2. You Won't Remember as Much as You Think You Will
Prepare to go through the process of figuring it all out all over again. It does come back to you, but it's not as immediate as you might think. After the birth of my second son, I had to ask the nurse in the hospital how often I should feed him and when we got home I was shocked at how many diapers we went through. Don't be surprised if you and your partner look at each other with bewilderment when trying to remember what time you used to put your first to bed at night or how many ounces he would take from a bottle.
3. The Whole Experience Will Be Less Intense
This isn't to say it's not as special and important, but it's just not as life changing as that first time you brought a baby out into the world from inside of your body. You've already witnessed the insane and unimaginable miracle that is a tiny human created by you and your partner. It's not so much been there, done that, but it just doesn't quite shake you to your core the way having a baby the first time can. This is not to say your hormones won't still be all over the place. It just means that instead of being on a loopy, upside-down roller coaster at Six Flags, they'll probably be riding something more like Big Thunder Mountain Railroad at Disneyland.
4. Breastfeeding Will Still Be Hard
I was told so many times that breastfeeding is so much easier the second time. And I will say it's easier . . . but it's still hard. You might feel less overwhelmed by the idea if you've already been successful at nursing once before, but if you're like me, you'll still have to work on the latch at the beginning and you'll still be ordering nipple cream on Amazon from your hospital bed. The good news is that (for me at least) the nipple pain didn't last as long and it felt like we were in a better place feeding-wise much more quickly than the first time.
5. You'll Have Even Less Modesty Than Before
Seems impossible, I know, but everyone's already seen it all and now they've seen it all again. Especially your boobs. You don't have the luxury of timing your day around nursing schedules since your older one probably needs to leave the house at some point. So you get extremely comfortable, dare I say nonchalant, about nursing your baby in public. Anywhere, anytime. It's actually quite freeing if, like me, you spent the first go-around desperately seeking a hidden spot to feed on the go.
6. Your Maternity Leave Days Will Look Much Different
Remember lingering in bed for morning feedings and rocking your baby while he slept during the day? Maybe you even enjoyed some leisurely lunches with friends and a little daytime TV after having your first. You guessed it: unless you have live-in help or an older one in full-time preschool, those days are long gone. Get some help that allows you to have even just a few hours a week of sweet, uninterrupted newborn time. It goes a long way.
7. You Will Need More Help Than You Think
You now not only need someone to help you with your own recovery and with the tiny human, but you also need someone to entertain your older child and keep your house in order. Ask neighbors and friends to set up a dinner drop-off, schedule play dates for your toddler, and say yes to anyone who offers to help you around the house. You might even want someone to join you to tackle your first out-of-the-house adventure with both kids. Even if you think you've got it down, you'll be glad to have the extra hands.
8. There Will Be More Laundry Than You Thought Possible
It doesn't seem like a little person with teeny-tiny things would add that much more to the laundry pile already created by three people, but somehow, the baby seems to actually double it. If you don't do at least one load of laundry every day, you are already behind. See previous point.
9. You Will Appreciate Babywearing Like Never Before
Keeping your baby close is not only a sweet way to bond, but with the second, it's a necessity. It helps leave your hands free to deal with all things toddler and beyond throughout the day and also gives you a little peace of mind without having to follow your older one's every move. Because this time when you set your infant down, you not only risk crying that needs to be tended to, but also you have the added element of a toddler who may want to "play" with the baby by putting blankets on his face or driving cars over his soft spot while you take a quick bathroom break. It's just easier if the baby is with you.
10. You Will Become the Master of Logistics
One of the biggest question marks for me before I became a second-time mom had to do with how I would get both of them in and out of the house or car to go anywhere, ever. Does the toddler get out of his seat first and hold your hand so he can't run into the parking lot while you get the baby into the stroller? How do you take them both to Target and still have room in your cart to actually shop (see number eight)? It requires some trial and error, but you'll become the master of the juggling act and feel pretty accomplished after that first successful trip to the grocery store with two.
11. You Can Get By With Less Stuff
I tried to be pretty minimal with the "stuff" with my firstborn since we lived in a one-bedroom apartment. When the second arrived, it became apparent that I still had way too much gear, clothing, and blankets, despite having twice as much space. You just don't need as much with the second one since that nagging first-time-mom feeling that you MUST BRING EVERYTHING on your 15-minute walk around the block is replaced by less anxiety-fueled thoughts. Plus, there's just not enough room for all those toddler snacks and three outfit changes for the baby in your bag.
12. You Won't Care So Much About Screen Time
If your older one is at an age where TV is capable of capturing their full attention, you'll be more than happy to have the option of plopping them in front of a show while you nurse for the hundredth time. Trust me. I'm back to regulating screen time with my older one now that the little guy is 5 months old, but I wouldn't have gotten through the early days without a DVR full of Thomas and Friends.
7 Reasons Toddler Boys are Terrifying and Terrific
"Boys are different." It was refrain I heard many times when I was pregnant with my now 21-month-old son, Sam. My daughter was almost 3 when he was born, and because she was my first and only, I figured all kids were pretty much like her: adventurous but initially cautious of new situations, overtly emotional (or should I say erratic?), and in my mind, wild because she was into everything, was constantly dancing and gyrating, and was often seen wearing few, if any, clothes. But, almost two years later, I've learned there's a difference between spirited and wild. My daughter is the former, and my son is most definitely the latter. He's all boy, and man, boys are different. Here (in my experience, which has been corroborated with many a mom-of-boys friend) is why.
- Boys keep you running. My daughter was busy, but she didn't have nearly the speed my son has developed in his short life. And that's why, in the last few months, I've begun feeling real empathy for those parents who put their kids on leashes. Pretty much every mom and teacher at my daughter's preschool know Sam's first name because they see me darting around the halls yelling it at drop-off and pick-up every single day. Turn my head for two seconds to, say, kiss my daughter goodbye or hang up her school bag, and bam, he's gone, searching through classrooms, hiding behind desks, or finding a stray Sharpie. Parking lots are an even bigger disaster, but no matter our location, these days you'll most likely see me in ready position: knees bent, legs wide, and arms out.
- Everything's a weapon. My daughter loves stuffed animals and dolls. My son prefers any object, toy or not, that could be used to hit someone over the head with blunt force. Sticks, brooms, and plastic guitars are his personal favorites, but he'll make do with whatever he can find. If he can only score something round and small, he's not bothered. He'll just throw it at your head instead.
- Their motto: the dirtier the better. There's not a day that goes by that, at some point, I don't cringe when I pick up my son. Sometimes it's because he's decided to pour an entire glass of milk or juice down the front of his shirt. Other times, his finger painting project at our gym's childcare has gone seriously rogue, or he's found an open toilet and decided to sample the water . . . with his mouth. He prefers to eat yogurt by the handful and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches inside out, licking the jelly off first. At our house, bath time is never optional.
- They are fearless. It took my daughter almost three years to go down a slide by herself without a prolonged internal struggle. My son went down his first slide, which included a rather dangerous and extended climb up an open ladder, at 18 months. I didn't even notice until he was halfway down (mom of the year over here). Before his first birthday, he was quite happy to jump in a pool, whether an adult was watching or not, wildly approach animals of all shapes and sizes, and launch himself off coffee tables, beds, and stairs, confident that either someone would catch him or he'd survive the fall.
- Climbing is their favorite pastime. There's nothing in my house that my son hasn't tried to climb, including my own body. But he really hit the jackpot last week when he realized he could move our kitchen counter stools around the first floor to reach even greater heights. I took my eyes off him for 30 seconds and he had pushed his new find over to the refrigerator and was switching off pushing our refrigerator's ice and water buttons. Yet another fun clean-up project for mommy.
- They shake it off. While my daughter's favorite song might be "Shake It Off", my son literally embodies the spirit of the song. Fell down a few stairs? He'll walk it off. Ran head first into a table? He'll give it a quick rub, and he's off and running. Even the scariest spills warrant just a few tears and quick hug from mom, and that makes him kind of awesome.
- They love their mamas. I expected to immediately bond with my daughter (we have the same parts, and I could already imagine how fun our future shopping excursions would be!), but I wasn't as sure how I'd feel about my newborn son. Luckily he made it easy on me, deciding that I was his favorite person on the planet at first sight and sticking to that decision for good (or at least for the entirety of his 21 months). Add in the constant unsolicited hugs and kisses and the fact that he, unlike his sister, is totally fine with whatever outfit I decide he should wear and whatever hairstyle tickles my fancy, and he's won my heart for life. Even when he's beating me over the head.
Toddler Shuts Down a Cashier Who Told Her to Pick Out a "Different" Doll
After Sophia successfully pooped on the potty for an entire month, she was allowed to pick out a special prize. Not surprising to her parents, Brandi and Nick, Sophia wanted a new doll.
As her mom explained, "the obsession is real" when it comes to dolls for this little girl, but a cashier at the store threatened to ruin her excitement - simply because of the color of her new toy's skin. While Sophia and Brandi were checking out, the employee asked the toddler if she was going to a birthday party. Both the mom and daughter gave the woman a blank stare. She then asked if Sophia picked the doll out for a friend.
"Sophia continued to stare blankly and I let the cashier know that she was a prize for Sophia being fully potty trained," Brandi shared on the Love What Matters Facebook page. "The woman gave me a puzzled look and turned to Sophia and asked, 'Are you sure this is the doll you want, honey?'"
Sophia found her voice and replied, "Yes, please!" but the woman still didn't back down. "But she doesn't look like you. We have lots of other dolls that look more like you," the cashier said, according to Brandi.
Brandi immediately became angry, but before she could say anything, Sophia began explaining all of the ways she and her new doll are alike. "Yes, she does. She's a doctor like I'm a doctor. And I'm a pretty girl and she's a pretty girl. See her pretty hair? And see her stethoscope?" Sophia told the stranger.
The cashier finally dropped the conversation, but the unexpected exchange had a lasting impact on this mom. "This experience just confirmed my belief that we aren't born with the idea that color matters," she wrote. "Skin comes in different colors just like hair and eyes, and every shade is beautiful."
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