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mardi 2 mai 2017

How 1 Clever Mom Taught Her 7-Year-Old a Serious Lesson on Online Safety

Despite only being 7 years old, Sue Samad's little girl had a serious confession to make. After her iPad time was over and she was tucked into bed, the child came downstairs crying that she needed to tell the truth: she broke the house rules and had been chatting with gaming people online.

The little girl knew that she broke the family's "no chat" policy and begged her mom to punish her because she deserved to be grounded for her actions. Instead, her mom came up with an even better way to ensure that her child learned the magnitude of her mistake.

"It got me thinking, OK ... I ground her, confiscate the iPad, but really no lesson is learned," she wrote on Facebook. "My absolute manic mind came up with this faux letter with letter head and all. I put it in our mailbox this afternoon addressed to Mr. and Mrs. Taher. The letter is just reminder, deterrence, and will possibly freak the crap out of her for a few years (I hope)."

The fake letter was signed from Security Intelligence for Children Cyber Safety and informed Sue that her child had breached the cyber internet safety contract for kids. It explained that her daughter's Wi-Fi had been disconnected and can only be reinstated when the child proves to her parents that she is "responsible and understands the immediate dangers she has put herself an her sibling in."

According to Sue, the response she got when showed her children the letter was exactly what she was hoping for and it was a tool to help them discuss the importance of online safety. "The letter doesn't replace continuous education about cyber danger, stranger danger, and keeping the open dialogue and honesty with your children," she wrote. "If they make a mistake, pull them up, watch what they are doing, let them make mistakes with you and be OK to discuss those awkward subjects that make your stomach squirm."

Sue explained that she doesn't believe in denying her children access to the internet since it's such a big party of this generation's daily life but she does hope parents learn from both her daughter's mistake and her reaction to it. A reminder to all of us to watch what our children do online, be the helicopter parent, observe their behavior, be open with discussion even if it's so uncomfortable and beyond their years of understanding," she wrote. "My hope is to raise resilient and socially-conscious children who God willing will grow up sensible children. And to add some humor to this very disturbing topic ... it'll be a great piece to present at her 18th birthday."

All We Could Focus On During King Carl's Birthday Celebration Was His Grandchildren

The Swedish royals celebrated King Carl XVI Gustaf's 71st birthday on April 30. Prince Carl Philip was in the palace square with his father while the rest of the family, including wife Princess Sofia, watched the festivities from the balcony. Even though it was the king's big day, it was Princess Estelle and Prince Oscar who stole the spotlight. The royal siblings looked too precious for words as they stood alongside their parents, Princess Victoria and Prince Daniel, at the palace. Aside from waving to the crowd, Estelle also shared a sweet moment with her grandfather when she reached her arms out for a hug.

OK, OK - Zendaya's Huge Hair at the Met Gala Is Everything

Go home. Zendaya just won the Met Gala red carpet (for beauty!) with her gorgeous, voluminous curly hair. This massive load of tight curls (which looked diffused) and bangs felt super '80s meets Disney princess. It was likely a wig, since Zendaya is known for wearing them. But if this was her natural hair, we wouldn't be mad about it.

Her makeup was soft and romantic - just a sweep of coral on her eyes, cheeks, and lips. Excuse us while we swoon.

Lily Collins Looks Like a Sexy Vampire Doll at the Met Gala

Our favorite version of Lily Collins is back - that's her sexy vampire side. For the 2017 Met Gala, Lily showed off her perfect porcelain skin with just a hint of pink blush. The drama was focused on her spidery lashes (top and bottom), black eyeliner, statement bold brows (which were super arched), and deep burgundy lip.

Her sleek bob with bangs came courtesy of Gregory Russell for Suave Professionals.

"I was inspired by Lily's sculptural Giambattista Valli gown and this year's theme to create a sharp and modern bob with short bangs," he said in a press release. The key to that shine was Suave Leave-In Honey Infusion Conditioner and a flat iron.

Keep reading to see more images of Lily's edgy look!

Facebook Is Accused of Revealing to Advertisers How to Reach "Defeated" Teens

Facebook is proving once again how well it knows your habits on its app - and why you should think twice about everything you do on it. According to a report by The Australian on May 1, Facebook revealed how to target teens who feel "worthless" or "insecure."

The report comes from a leaked 23-page document, given in a presentation given to a bank by two of Facebook's top Australian executives. The document shows how Facebook used algorithms in Australia and New Zealand to collect data and see when teens feel "stressed," "defeated," "anxious," and other emotions. The presentation even went so far as to explain the best times to reach a teen. "Anticipatory emotions are more likely to be expressed early in the week, while reflective emotions increase on the weekend," the leaked Facebook presentation read. "Monday-Thursday is about building confidence; the weekend is for broadcasting achievements."

Facebook has since commented on the article and the research presented in the document. "Facebook does not offer tools to target people based on their emotional state," wrote the company in a post. "The analysis done by an Australian researcher was intended to help marketers understand how people express themselves on Facebook. It was never used to target ads and was based on data that was anonymous and aggregated." The company also stated it is reviewing the specific details of this case to "correct the oversight" in the research.

This type of controversy isn't new to Facebook. Back in October 2016, ProPublica published an extensive researched piece on how Facebook lets advertisers choose who to reach and exclude - by race.

Sticker Hair Is the Playful Trend Every '90s Girl Will Appreciate

Prepare to please your inner 5-year-old with a glance at this fun, quirky look: sticker hair! NYC hairstylist Allen Thomas Wood recently took to Instagram to share a peek at the creative style he put together using tiny, colorful Japanese stickers. In the comments section, he revealed that he used the tail of a comb to press the stickers into smooth, slicked-back hair. His bright creation is the latest in a line of several playful hair trends to capture our attention, including everything from holographic hues to, yes, Unicorn Frappuccino hair. Keep reading for a closer look at the sticker hair style, which will definitely tap into your '90s nostalgia.

Zoë Kravitz's Dress Was Made From Real Roses, So That's Why You Can't Stop Staring

When Zoe Kravitz stopped to talk to Vogue's André Leon Talley on the Met Gala red carpet, she declared her Oscar de la Renta dress to be both "sexy" and "interesting." We certainly agree; the slip of skin at Zoë's shoulders is alluring, while her pink satin cape extends into a train. And there's a dark quality to this silhouette - the interior is contrasted in black to match the roses that line Zoë's sleeves and bodice.

But these are not just fake flowers - they're real. They've been treated and dyed and perfectly placed so that Zoë could truly own the most romantic look of the evening. Scroll to watch the actress gush over the design process, then take in an all-angles view of the masterpiece.

This Mexican Comedian's Parody of "Despacito" Will Have You Laughing Your Butt Off

Luis Fonsi's "Despacito" has been a hit across the world, especially after the release of a remix with Justin Bieber singing in Spanish, which already has over 118 million views on YouTube. So it's only natural that parodies will be the next thing around the corner for the popular tune.

A self-proclaimed "paisa" decided to take advantage of the song's popularity by creating a hilarious take of his own. In this music video by comedian Tiburcio, who describes himself as "famoso in Facebook" and is mostly known for his "Paisa Zumba" videos, he's pursued by an attractive woman but doesn't realize it. "Latinos taking over poquito a poquito," he says in the song as he has the most awkward and hilarious exchanges with his admirer. Watch his hilarious version of "Despacito" above.

Zoë Kravitz's Dress Was Made From Real Roses, So That's Why You Can't Stop Staring

When Zoe Kravitz stopped to talk to Vogue's André Leon Talley on the Met Gala red carpet, she declared her Oscar de la Renta dress to be both "sexy" and "interesting." We certainly agree; the slip of skin at Zoë's shoulders is alluring, while her pink satin cape extends into a train. And there's a dark quality to this silhouette - the interior is contrasted in black to match the roses that line Zoë's sleeves and bodice.

But these are not just fake flowers - they're real. They've been treated and dyed and perfectly placed so that Zoë could truly own the most romantic look of the evening. Scroll to watch the actress gush over the design process, then take in an all-angles view of the masterpiece.

Gwyneth Paltrow Stuns at the Met Gala After Vowing She'd "Never Go Again"

Gwyneth Paltrow was the epitome of classic beauty at the Met Gala on Monday night. The 44-year-old actress hit the red carpet in a sleek, baby pink gown reminiscent of the Calvin Klein dress she wore during her first-ever appearance at the high-fashion event back in 1995. Although her number was certainly a show-stopper, it was her arrival at the Met Gala period that had people talking. As you might recall, in 2013 Gwyneth infamously told USA Today that she can't stand going to the fashion elite's fete year after year. "I'm never going again," she declared. "It was so un-fun. It was boiling. It was too crowded. I did not enjoy it at all."

Not long after her scathing review, she doubled down during an interview with Australian radio show hosts Kyle and Jackie O. "It sucked," she said. "It seems like the it's the best thing in the world, you always think, 'Oh my god, it's going to be so glamorous and amazing and you're going to see all of these people' and then you get there and it's so hot and it's so crowded and everyone's pushing you.'" Getting back into Anna Wintour's good graces is no easy feat (maybe she offered her a free Goop subscription?), but fortunately it looks like it was worth it. Gwyneth happily smiled for photographers and struck a pose with fellow guest ASAP Rocky before heading inside to admire the exhibit.

Princess Charlotte Gives a Sly Smirk in Precious New Birthday Photo

Princess Charlotte is growing up fast! In honor of her second birthday on May 2, a precious new photo of Charlotte was released by the Duchess of Cambridge on Monday. In the snap, the little one gives a sly smirk while wearing a yellow sweater and holding on to what appears to be a book. The last official photo of Charlotte we were treated to was on her first birthday in 2016, though we did get to see her attending church with her parents on Christmas and living it up on a royal tour of Canada with her brother, George, back in September.

It's already shaping up to be a big week for the family; Will and Kate celebrated their sixth wedding anniversary on Saturday, and the duchess is scheduled to visit Farms For City Children in the UK on Wednesday. Later this month, Charlotte and her older brother will have big parts in their aunt Pippa Middleton's wedding to James Matthews.

13 Reasons Why: Dylan Minnette Responds to the Band That Slammed the Show

13 Reasons Why has been getting both praise and heat for its honest portrayal of teen suicide and depression ever since the show was released on Netflix in late March. While executive producer Selena Gomez recently responded to criticism that the show glorifies suicide, saying they stayed "very true" to the book by Jay Asher, other people involved in the show aren't being as supportive.

The band Car Seat Headrest, who lend their song "Oh! Starving" to the soundtrack (it plays in episode 12 when Hannah loses an envelope full of money from her parents' store), slammed the show on Twitter on Sunday. "As someone who contributed to the soundtrack for '13 Reasons Why', I am obliged to tell you all that it's kind of f*cked," they wrote. "Kids: this is not a narrative you need to subscribe to. Go watch 'spring breakers' instead," referring to the raunchy 2013 movie starring Selena.

Dylan, who plays Clay Jensen on the show, took to Twitter shortly after they spoke out to respond to the band's lead singer, Will Toledo.

Since the show will most likely get a second season, maybe Car Seat Headrest will opt out of being included on that soundtrack.

5 Ways to Spring Clean Your LinkedIn Profile

Trying to perfect your LinkedIn profile can be an exercise in anxiety management. What do employers want to see? What will make them click away? To get a better handle on profile best practices, we went right to the source: LinkedIn career expert Catherine Fisher.

Some main takeaways: your profile photo matters, so make sure to use a photo "that aligns with your role as a professional, but also makes you approachable." Also, the useful shelf life for professional skills is only five years! So keep honing those business skills.

Scroll on for more ways to make your profile shine bright like a diamond this Spring.

This Mexican Comedian's Parody of "Despacito" Will Have You Laughing Your Butt Off

Luis Fonsi's "Despacito" has been a hit across the world, especially after the release of a remix with Justin Bieber singing in Spanish, which already has over 118 million views on YouTube. So it's only natural that parodies will be the next thing around the corner for the popular tune.

A self-proclaimed "paisa" decided to take advantage of the song's popularity by creating a hilarious take of his own. In this music video by comedian Tiburcio, who describes himself as "famoso in Facebook" and is mostly known for his "Paisa Zumba" videos, he's pursued by an attractive woman but doesn't realize it. "Latinos taking over poquito a poquito," he says in the song as he has the most awkward and hilarious exchanges with his admirer. Watch his hilarious version of "Despacito" above.

The Gut-Wrenching Reason This Mom Buys 2 Extra Mother's Day Cards

Jill Robbins has a secret: she buys two extra Mother's Day cards every year, one for each of her sons' birth mothers. Although Jill has three children, she jokes that only her daughter "came into the family the regular way," as her sons were both adopted from China. Every year Jill buys a Mother's Day card for each boy's biological mother, but unfortunately, they never get to those moms halfway across the world - they make it into a shoe box.

"I've done this every year that we've had them. I write little snippets of what they've done and accomplished every year, what their challenges and accomplishments have been," Jill wrote in a post to her blog's Facebook page, Ripped Jeans and Bifocals. "I write these notes during my quiet time, after everyone else is in bed. I re-read my words and then I seal the cards. And then I put them away in a shoe box that sits on my closet shelf because I don't know what else to do with them. I don't have any place to mail these cards, you see."

The mom continues, explaining that there's sadly no such thing as an open adoption in China as there are laws "that prohibit a mother from making an adoption plan, aka giving a baby up for adoption." Because of this, children are abandoned and entered into the social welfare system, which is when they're able to go up for adoption. After someone becomes their parent, there's no paper trail to follow back to their past, to their birth mamas.

I know my boys' birth mothers waited and watched until their babies were taken to safety. I KNOW. I just do. I know they loved these children and I know their actions were something they deemed necessary. I don't need to know the reasons. Their motives don't need to pass any sort of litmus test with me. I have a pretty happy life. I don't want for much, but if I could have one wish I would want my boys' birth mothers to know the babies they carried are safe and loved. Cherished. Thriving. Part of a family. So, I buy those cards every year. I write in them. Somewhere on the other side of the world there are two women who would probably give anything to get them.

Jill says that she continues to write these cards that will never be sent mostly for herself, as a form of gratitude toward the women who gave her gifts in the forms of her sweet boys. Because adoption is so complicated and emotional, Jill is sharing her "secret" with the world in the hope that someone struggling on either end of an adoption can find some peace in the process. She added, "Maybe another mama like me will realize that she's not alone in those reflective moments she had about her kids' birth mothers."

The Gut-Wrenching Reason This Mom Buys 2 Extra Mother's Day Cards

Jill Robbins has a secret: she buys two extra Mother's Day cards every year, one for each of her sons' birth mothers. Although Jill has three children, she jokes that only her daughter "came into the family the regular way," as her sons were both adopted from China. Every year Jill buys a Mother's Day card for each boy's biological mother, but unfortunately, they never get to those moms halfway across the world - they make it into a shoe box.

"I've done this every year that we've had them. I write little snippets of what they've done and accomplished every year, what their challenges and accomplishments have been," Jill wrote in a post to her blog's Facebook page, Ripped Jeans and Bifocals. "I write these notes during my quiet time, after everyone else is in bed. I re-read my words and then I seal the cards. And then I put them away in a shoe box that sits on my closet shelf because I don't know what else to do with them. I don't have any place to mail these cards, you see."

The mom continues, explaining that there's sadly no such thing as an open adoption in China as there are laws "that prohibit a mother from making an adoption plan, aka giving a baby up for adoption." Because of this, children are abandoned and entered into the social welfare system, which is when they're able to go up for adoption. After someone becomes their parent, there's no paper trail to follow back to their past, to their birth mamas.

I know my boys' birth mothers waited and watched until their babies were taken to safety. I KNOW. I just do. I know they loved these children and I know their actions were something they deemed necessary. I don't need to know the reasons. Their motives don't need to pass any sort of litmus test with me. I have a pretty happy life. I don't want for much, but if I could have one wish I would want my boys' birth mothers to know the babies they carried are safe and loved. Cherished. Thriving. Part of a family. So, I buy those cards every year. I write in them. Somewhere on the other side of the world there are two women who would probably give anything to get them.

Jill says that she continues to write these cards that will never be sent mostly for herself, as a form of gratitude toward the women who gave her gifts in the forms of her sweet boys. Because adoption is so complicated and emotional, Jill is sharing her "secret" with the world in the hope that someone struggling on either end of an adoption can find some peace in the process. She added, "Maybe another mama like me will realize that she's not alone in those reflective moments she had about her kids' birth mothers."

Princess Charlotte Gives a Sly Smirk in Precious New Birthday Photo

Princess Charlotte is growing up fast! In honor of her second birthday on May 2, a precious new photo of Charlotte was released by the Duchess of Cambridge on Monday. In the snap, the little one gives a sly smirk while wearing a yellow sweater and holding on to what appears to be a book. The last official photo of Charlotte we were treated to was on her first birthday in 2016, though we did get to see her attending church with her parents on Christmas and living it up on a royal tour of Canada with her brother, George, back in September.

It's already shaping up to be a big week for the family; Will and Kate celebrated their sixth wedding anniversary on Saturday, and the duchess is scheduled to visit Farms For City Children in the UK on Wednesday. Later this month, Charlotte and her older brother will have big parts in their aunt Pippa Middleton's wedding to James Matthews.

13 Reasons Why: Dylan Minnette Responds to the Band That Slammed the Show

13 Reasons Why has been getting both praise and heat for its honest portrayal of teen suicide and depression ever since the show was released on Netflix in late March. While executive producer Selena Gomez recently responded to criticism that the show glorifies suicide, saying they stayed "very true" to the book by Jay Asher, other people involved in the show aren't being as supportive.

The band Car Seat Headrest, who lend their song "Oh! Starving" to the soundtrack (it plays in episode 12 when Hannah loses an envelope full of money from her parents' store), slammed the show on Twitter on Sunday. "As someone who contributed to the soundtrack for '13 Reasons Why', I am obliged to tell you all that it's kind of f*cked," they wrote. "Kids: this is not a narrative you need to subscribe to. Go watch 'spring breakers' instead," referring to the raunchy 2013 movie starring Selena.

Dylan, who plays Clay Jensen on the show, took to Twitter shortly after they spoke out to respond to the band's lead singer, Will Toledo.

Since the show will most likely get a second season, maybe Car Seat Headrest will opt out of being included on that soundtrack.

Blink and You'll Miss This Edgy Detail of Solange Knowles's Met Gala Beauty Look

Solange Knowles is no stranger to sporting head-turning Met Gala styles, but this year, you have to look very closely to see the daring detail she tried.

To go with her puffer-coat-like Thom Browne jumpsuit, celebrity makeup artist Lottie traced a graphic white liner down the side of Solange's cheek and onto her earlobe. The artist used Nars Cosmetics Larger Than Life Eyeliner in Santa Monica Blvd ($26) to create the simple but stunning look, keeping the rest of the performer's appearance minimalist.

We're fairly certain that this is the first time we've spotted the ear makeup trend IRL, and we must admit, we completely dig it. We could totally see this makeup masterpiece looking badass at a music festival in a variety of different colors, like black, cobalt blue, and orange. Keep reading to see more shots of Solange's Met Gala look.

Selena Gomez and The Weeknd Look Like They Got Married at the Met Gala

Selena Gomez and The Weeknd are getting more and more comfortable with showing off their love for the cameras. Shortly after making their relationship Instagram official at Coachella, the couple made their red carpet debut at the Met Gala in NYC on Monday. While The Weeknd looked dapper in a tux and tie, the 13 Reasons Why executive producer looked beautiful in a flowing white Coach gown and purple eye shadow. Aside from posing for the flashing cameras, the two also snuck in a little PDA as they pulled each other in close for a hug. They looked like something right out of a wedding magazine!

Courtney Love and Frances Bean Cobain Have a Mother-Daughter Met Gala Date

Courtney Love and her daughter, Frances Bean Cobain, arrived together for the Met Gala in NYC on Monday night. The mother-daughter duo hit the red carpet with longtime friend Marc Jacobs and model Char Defrancesco and shared a few kisses for the cameras. While the two haven't always been close - 24-year-old Frances famously emancipated herself from her mother in 2009 - the pair was spotted holding hands in Manhattan ahead of the big event and seemed to be having a great time together at the gala.

Jaden Smith Brought His Dreads as a Date to the Met Gala

It's 2017, people, and nothing is too avant-garde for the red carpet, but Jaden Smith's 2017 Met Gala accessory/date might be taking things to a whole new level. Last month, Will Smith hilariously admitted to cutting his son's hair for a movie role, but we had no idea that Jaden was saving his locks for this special occasion.

Jaden pulled up to the Met Gala with the remnants of his haircut in hand and, well, we have so many questions. First, should we be calling this art? Does it hold his phone and wallet like a clutch? Is there still a hair tie around it? Between his shining grill, matching chains, and bouquet of hair, this kid is too cool for us. Keep reading to see photos of Jaden and his blond date.

This High School Celebrated Meme Day Because the Internet Is a Strange and Beautiful Thing



For some people, memes aren't just jokes on the internet - they are a way of life. If you exist in today's world, you've definitely used a meme or two to explain how you're feeling about your day. Teens totally do the same, which is why one high school created a whole spirit day around memes.

Olympian High School in Chula Vista, California, recently celebrated senior spirit week. One of the day's themes centered around dressing as a meme. 18-year old student Nicole Pinto, who tweets as Twitter user h0neymami, posted one tweet about the day that quickly went viral. The video shows several people as memes like mannequin head, math lady, tiny hands, lime cat, and Salt Bae. Her tweet currently has more than 4,700 retweets and 9,000 likes.



In another tweet, Allan Dizon posted photos of the group, which you can see above. As you can clearly see, these teens took meme day seriously. Some people on Twitter were wishing their school had a meme day.


To be perfectly honest, we wish we had a meme day at the office, too.

It's Not About J Lo's Dress at the Met Gala - It's About Her Sexy Date, ARod

Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez have officially made their red carpet debut, and, of course, they did it at the most fashionable event of the year.

The new couple showed up at the 2017 Met Gala and ours jaws quite literally dropped. Jennifer looked ethereal in a floor-length dusty blue Valentino dress and stunning Harry Winston jewels. Alex was right by his lady's side in a dapper navy blue tux. The former baseball player, whom J Lo called her "macho bello" on Instagram, walked the red carpet with his hand around J Lo's and the look of love in his eyes.

This look is very different from the chill one J Lo rocked mere hours before the Met Gala while on a date with ARod in NYC or even the barely there naked dress she wore at the Latin Billboard Awards while going solo.

Keep scrolling to see the couple practically float down the red carpet.

Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen Dance the Night Away at Katy Perry's Met Gala Afterparty

Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen made a rare appearance at the Met Gala on Monday. The sisters, who usually step out for fashion's big night, hit the red carpet at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in NYC in coordinating ensembles. They then let loose and danced the night away together at Katy Perry's afterparty at the Boom Boom Room at the Standard Hotel. This also isn't the first time we've seen them in recent weeks. The sisters attended another (more relaxed) gala with Mary-Kate's husband, Olivier Sarkozy, in April.

Mom's Message to Woman on Facebook Who Told Her She Isn't a "Real Parent"

There are many ways women become moms, but the way you became a child's mama has no effect on how "real" of a parent you are. That's why when one woman's mom status was questioned by someone on Facebook, she felt the need to clap back to let her know just how wrong she is.

"A woman on Facebook tried to tell me I wasn't a real parent since I didn't give birth," wrote Reddit user vietnamazinggg. "My response to her: I did not give birth to my child. I did not get to feel him growing within me, or hold him against my skin when he was born. Perhaps by your definition, my child is not a part of me - he does not resemble me or my wife."

Although this mom and her wife adopted their son, she has plenty of thoughts on what it actually means to be a mother, aside from giving birth to your child.

Let me tell you what being a parent is to me. I didn't labor for hours for this child, I labored for YEARS. I waited for years to be told that we had been chosen, that we were finally going to be allowed to be parents. I didn't feel labor pains. I felt the incredible pain of emptiness in my heart and home as my wife and I yearned to begin our family through adoption. I didn't get to wake up in the middle of the night and nurse my sweet child. I did, though, spend many nights lying awake and praying to whomever might be listening to let us be next. Asking myself why we hadn't been chosen yet. Poring over adoption profiles and sending endless email inquiries on children available for adoption and being told no, no, no over and over again.

And like you said, "you can't possibly understand that feeling." I feel certain you have absolutely no idea. . . . Not every child is yours or a "part of you" because you grew it inside of you. My child will always be a part of me, because we're fighting for this life together.

Her profound argument on motherhood has received a number of positive comments from both those who support her speaking up for herself, as well as those with adoptive or step-children who have been through similar situations. And if you didn't have enough time to read through everything this mom had to say, she has a handy TL;DR for everyone (though mostly, I imagine, for the woman who originally questioned her): "F*ck you. I'm a mom."

This Blogger Reminds Us It's OK to Be Bigger Than Your Boyfriend

This Blogger Reminds Us It's OK to Be Bigger Than Your Boyfriend

Mom's Message to Woman on Facebook Who Told Her She Isn't a "Real Parent"

There are many ways women become moms, but the way you became a child's mama has no effect on how "real" of a parent you are. That's why when one woman's mom status was questioned by someone on Facebook, she felt the need to clap back to let her know just how wrong she is.

"A woman on Facebook tried to tell me I wasn't a real parent since I didn't give birth," wrote Reddit user vietnamazinggg. "My response to her: I did not give birth to my child. I did not get to feel him growing within me, or hold him against my skin when he was born. Perhaps by your definition, my child is not a part of me - he does not resemble me or my wife."

Although this mom and her wife adopted their son, she has plenty of thoughts on what it actually means to be a mother, aside from giving birth to your child.

Let me tell you what being a parent is to me. I didn't labor for hours for this child, I labored for YEARS. I waited for years to be told that we had been chosen, that we were finally going to be allowed to be parents. I didn't feel labor pains. I felt the incredible pain of emptiness in my heart and home as my wife and I yearned to begin our family through adoption. I didn't get to wake up in the middle of the night and nurse my sweet child. I did, though, spend many nights lying awake and praying to whomever might be listening to let us be next. Asking myself why we hadn't been chosen yet. Poring over adoption profiles and sending endless email inquiries on children available for adoption and being told no, no, no over and over again.

And like you said, "you can't possibly understand that feeling." I feel certain you have absolutely no idea. . . . Not every child is yours or a "part of you" because you grew it inside of you. My child will always be a part of me, because we're fighting for this life together.

Her profound argument on motherhood has received a number of positive comments from both those who support her speaking up for herself, as well as those with adoptive or step-children who have been through similar situations. And if you didn't have enough time to read through everything this mom had to say, she has a handy TL;DR for everyone (though mostly, I imagine, for the woman who originally questioned her): "F*ck you. I'm a mom."

These Are the Top 10 Summer Haircut Trends According to Pros

If you're ready for a Summer refresh, start with your hair. From statement-making crops to tousled bobs to long layers, we're covering some of the hottest Summer haircuts for 2017. With the help of celebrity stylists, you'll learn how to ask for each of the featured cuts at your go-to salon, as well as how to style the look once you've got it. We've also included expert commentary on which types of hair and face shapes these cuts suit best. Get ready for some serious warm-weather haircut inspiration!

Alexander and Bill Skarsgard Have a Brotherly Outing in NYC

Good looks certainly run in this family! On Monday, Alexander and Bill Skarsgard enjoyed some brotherly bonding in NYC ahead of the Met Gala. The famous siblings looked cool and casual in white tees, jeans, olive jackets, and shades as they walked around the city. While Alex recently caused major buzz for his chilling role on the hit HBO series Big Little Lies, his younger brother is also making a name for himself in Hollywood. That handsome face is getting ready to terrorize your nightmares as Pennywise in the remake of Stephen King's It.

These Stars Switched Up Their Looks Big Time For Katy Perry's Afterparty

After the Met Gala red carpet wrapped, dinner was served, selfies were snapped, and performances were enjoyed, Katy Perry invited everyone to The Standard for an afterparty. Celebs, supermodels, and designers made it out to The Boom Boom Room in outfits that were definitely more comfortable and less costume-like than their original floor-sweeping gowns.

In fact, Brie Larson and Jenna Lyons even kept it super casual in jeans. But there are always the ladies who think of a second gathering as an opportune moment to show off another good look they scooped right off the runway (Elle Fanning, we're looking at you). Scroll to see the wide variety here, before checking out the sexiest numbers we saw all night.

Alexander and Bill Skarsgard Have a Brotherly Outing in NYC

Good looks certainly run in this family! On Monday, Alexander and Bill Skarsgard enjoyed some brotherly bonding in NYC ahead of the Met Gala. The famous siblings looked cool and casual in white tees, jeans, olive jackets, and shades as they walked around the city. While Alex recently caused major buzz for his chilling role on the hit HBO series Big Little Lies, his younger brother is also making a name for himself in Hollywood. That handsome face is getting ready to terrorize your nightmares as Pennywise in the remake of Stephen King's It.

Holographic Eyeliner Is the Latest Galactic Trend Blowing Up on Instagram

Time to dig up last year's holiday wrapping paper and tinsel to try out Instagram's new fad: holographic eyeliner. The style is starting to pop up on Instagram as the latest iteration of the unicorn/galaxy trend.

Women trying these looks out are stating their inspiration as Pat McGrath and Vlada Haggerty. And according to them, it's pretty easy to DIY! Just create your normal eye makeup look - bold brows, lush lashes, etc. Cut a tight-lined or superwinged eyeliner piece out of your most festive piece of holographic paper. Eyelash glue is how you can adhere it to your skin. We even saw someone try a "shattered glass" look, inspired by this K-Beauty trend.

Keep reading to see 10 gorgeous holographic eyeliner styles!

These Stars Switched Up Their Looks Big Time For Katy Perry's Afterparty

After the Met Gala red carpet wrapped, dinner was served, selfies were snapped, and performances were enjoyed, Katy Perry invited everyone to The Standard for an afterparty. Celebs, supermodels, and designers made it out to The Boom Boom Room in outfits that were definitely more comfortable and less costume-like than their original floor-sweeping gowns.

In fact, Brie Larson and Jenna Lyons even kept it super casual in jeans. But there are always the ladies who think of a second gathering as an opportune moment to show off another good look they scooped right off the runway (Elle Fanning, we're looking at you). Scroll to see the wide variety here, before checking out the sexiest numbers we saw all night.

Halle Berry's Met Gala Hairstyle Looks Like a Standard Updo - Until You See It From the Back

Many stars attempt to look like royalty at the Met Gala, but in our minds, this year's red carpet queen was Halle Berry. You may not have noticed, but the actress was wearing an actual crown!

Celebrity stylist Castillo flawlessly balanced elegance and opulence with a rolled ponytail bun. His inspiration came from the star's Versace gown. "At first, I wanted to do something pretty and down the back, but then realized I wanted to keep the look all about the dress," he told POPSUGAR via email. "I didn't want to take away from the elements that made this dress amazing, so I decided to pull the hair back and do an elegant low bun with a crown at the top."

After creating a center part on hair prepped with MarulaOil Rare Oil Style Extending Primer ($30), Castillo created loose and natural waves on Halle using a mix of Neuro hot tools, including two unclipped curling irons and the Smooth Iron. He then brushed hair into a low pony, backcombed it for volume, and rolled and pinned it up into a bun, topping it with a crown.

If you plan on DIYing this for your next major event, know that great texture is the key to the look. "That's really going to lend itself to create a shape that doesn't sit flat and add volume to the bun or chignon you're creating," explained Castillo. Read on to see the stunning style from all angles.

39 Met Gala Photos That Will Make You Feel Like You Were There

The Met Gala swept through NYC on Monday night, bringing a bevy of A-list celebrities from the worlds of TV, movies, music, and, of course, fashion. The annual event, which honored Comme des Garcons designer Rei Kawakubo, was hosted by Vogue's Anna Wintour, as well as Katy Perry, Pharrell Williams, Caroline Kennedy, and Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen, who couldn't keep their hands off each other while posing for photos.

Cute couples, hot guys, and fun-loving BFFs took over the red carpet, and stars enjoyed an exclusive look at the Costume Institute exhibition before mingling at their tables and partying it up inside. Keep reading to see the best pictures of the night!

Halle Berry's Met Gala Hairstyle Looks Like a Standard Updo - Until You See It From the Back

Many stars attempt to look like royalty at the Met Gala, but in our minds, this year's red carpet queen was Halle Berry. You may not have noticed, but the actress was wearing an actual crown!

Celebrity stylist Castillo flawlessly balanced elegance and opulence with a rolled ponytail bun. His inspiration came from the star's Versace gown. "At first, I wanted to do something pretty and down the back, but then realized I wanted to keep the look all about the dress," he told POPSUGAR via email. "I didn't want to take away from the elements that made this dress amazing, so I decided to pull the hair back and do an elegant low bun with a crown at the top."

After creating a center part on hair prepped with MarulaOil Rare Oil Style Extending Primer ($30), Castillo created loose and natural waves on Halle using a mix of Neuro hot tools, including two unclipped curling irons and the Smooth Iron. He then brushed hair into a low pony, backcombed it for volume, and rolled and pinned it up into a bun, topping it with a crown.

If you plan on DIYing this for your next major event, know that great texture is the key to the look. "That's really going to lend itself to create a shape that doesn't sit flat and add volume to the bun or chignon you're creating," explained Castillo. Read on to see the stunning style from all angles.

Selena Gomez’s Eye Shadow Transformed Her Entire Look at the Met Gala

Selena Gomez had jaws dropping and heads turning when she arrived at the 2017 Met Gala, but while most were in awe at her first red carpet with boyfriend The Weeknd, we couldn't help but fall into the gaze of her stunning makeup.

Selena might have opted for an understated Coach slip dress, but that captivating eye shadow fell perfectly in line with the Comme des Garcons theme. Chris McMillan took care of her sleek A-line bob, and celebrity makeup artist Hung Vanngo gave Selena a nude lip to guarantee all eyes were glued to her striking Marc Jacobs pink eye shadow.

"I originally was going to do something very soft on Selena, and kept that idea in mind for the most part when deciding on her makeup look," Vanngo said. "The twist was the bright pink eyeliner I came across while sorting through colors. I thought it would be a fun punch of color, but still go with the overall makeup look."

To create that radiating hot pink eye, Vanngo used Marc Jacobs Beauty Highliner Matte Gel Eye Crayon in Pop(ular) 49 ($25) and the soft shadows from Marc Jacobs Beauty Style Eye-Con No. 7 Plush Eye Shadow Palette in The Lover 220 ($59).

Keep reading to see photos of Selena's cat-eyed pink shadow at the Met Gala.

Selena Gomez's Met Gala Night Was So Good - How Will She Top It?

Selena Gomez's 2017 keeps getting better and better. And we're going to go ahead and say that this year's Met Gala will go down as one of her best nights ever.

The "It Ain't Me" singer made her official red carpet debut with her boyfriend The Weeknd, showing PDA on the red carpet while his ex was mere steps away. She wore a '90s-ready Coach slip dress we're already plotting to copy and hung out with fashion royalty while at it. Keep scrolling to see those and other amazing moments from Selena's night.

Selena Gomez’s Eye Shadow Transformed Her Entire Look at the Met Gala

Selena Gomez had jaws dropping and heads turning when she arrived at the 2017 Met Gala, but while most were in awe at her first red carpet with boyfriend The Weeknd, we couldn't help but fall into the gaze of her stunning makeup.

Selena might have opted for an understated Coach slip dress, but that captivating eye shadow fell perfectly in line with the Comme des Garcons theme. Chris McMillan took care of her sleek A-line bob, and celebrity makeup artist Hung Vanngo gave Selena a nude lip to guarantee all eyes were glued to her striking Marc Jacobs pink eye shadow.

"I originally was going to do something very soft on Selena, and kept that idea in mind for the most part when deciding on her makeup look," Vanngo said. "The twist was the bright pink eyeliner I came across while sorting through colors. I thought it would be a fun punch of color, but still go with the overall makeup look."

To create that radiating hot pink eye, Vanngo used Marc Jacobs Beauty Highliner Matte Gel Eye Crayon in Pop(ular) 49 ($25) and the soft shadows from Marc Jacobs Beauty Style Eye-Con No. 7 Plush Eye Shadow Palette in The Lover 220 ($59).

Keep reading to see photos of Selena's cat-eyed pink shadow at the Met Gala.

Democratic Senators Are Trying to Ban Gay "Conversion Therapy" Nationwide

Being gay is not a disease nor a medical condition. Despite efforts by some medical professionals to "convert" gay people, particularly of teens whose parents make them, gay "conversion therapy" is incapable of treating a condition that does not exist - and it doesn't work. Though the controversial therapy is widely criticized, only six states (including DC) have banned the practice for minors. In an effort to prohibit practitioners from potentially harming children, three Democratic senators have introduced a bill that would ban gay "conversion therapy" nationwide.

Senators Ted Lieu, Patty Murray, and Cory Booker jointly proposed the Therapeutic Fraud Prevention Act of 2017 on April 25. Their argument? Since being lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer is unquestionably not a medical condition nor recognized as one by professionals, it cannot be treated. Speaking to The Washington Post, Lieu emphasized that the bill targets those purporting to "heal" people.

"The bill is very simple. It says it is fraud if you treat someone for a condition that doesn't exist and there's no medical condition known as being gay," said Lieu. "LGBTQ people were born perfect; there is nothing to treat them for. And by calling this what it should be, which is fraud, it would effectively shut down most of the organizations."

Homosexuality and gay "conversion therapy" have a dark history. While it was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1973, a few therapists across the country have since still asserted they can treat homosexuality. Patients are often subjected to what is essentially torture to "cure" their homosexuality; people have been electrocuted, had nausea induced, and been forced to snap their wrists with rubber bands as a way to discourage their attraction.

Democratic members of Congress have expressed support for the bill. However, it's likely to receive some pushback in the Republican-held House and Senate. Given that Vice President Mike Pence once supported "institutions which provide assistance to those seeking to change their sexual behavior" and President Donald Trump's administration is already hostile to the LGBTQ community, Democrats will have to fight for this bill to pass.

This is not to say that the Therapeutic Fraud Prevention Act of 2017 is a lost cause. As we've seen time and time again, love ultimately conquers hate.

Priyanka Chopra Wore Her Trench Coat to the Afterparty, but 1 Piece Was Missing

When your Met Gala red carpet look is brilliant, why change completely for the afterparty? Priyanka Chopra stuck with her custom Ralph Lauren coat dress at Katy Perry's bash while mingling with stars like the Jonas brothers and Aziz Ansari. One piece was clearly missing from her trench coat though: the train.

On the red carpet, it trailed behind the star when she walked, but it made sense Priyanka ditched it at the end of the night. The endless train would have been annoying to drag around, not to mention get in the way of any dancing. This genius style move is what makes Priyanka a style star to watch, so read on to see her quick outfit change then reminisce about last night's most fabulous dresses.

Priyanka Chopra Wore Her Trench Coat to the Afterparty, but 1 Piece Was Missing

When your Met Gala red carpet look is brilliant, why change completely for the afterparty? Priyanka Chopra stuck with her custom Ralph Lauren coat dress at Katy Perry's bash while mingling with stars like the Jonas brothers and Aziz Ansari. One piece was clearly missing from her trench coat though: the train.

On the red carpet, it trailed behind the star when she walked, but it made sense Priyanka ditched it at the end of the night. The endless train would have been annoying to drag around, not to mention get in the way of any dancing. This genius style move is what makes Priyanka a style star to watch, so read on to see her quick outfit change then reminisce about last night's most fabulous dresses.

Kim Kardashian Basically Just Confirmed Kendall Jenner's Romance With A$AP Rocky

All the attention was on Kendall Jenner at the Met Gala on Monday night thanks to her revealing naked dress, but she only had eyes for rumored boyfriend A$AP Rocky. Although the rapper walked the red carpet with Gwyneth Paltrow rather than the Pepsi fan, one of Kim Kardashian's Snapchats from the night gave her followers an intimate glimpse into their potential romance. A$AP can be seen holding onto Kendall's butt while she adjusts his tie, as Kylie Jenner dutifully captures a photo of the moment.

Earlier in the night the pair was seen hugging and laughing as they made their way into the exhibit and looked pretty cozy in the bathroom selfie Kylie shared on Instagram. Kendall and A$AP first sparked dating rumors in February 2016 when he attended one of her events for PacSun, with a source telling Us Weekly that their relationship "is the real deal." Although Kim's Snapchat is about as close as Kendall herself has come to confirming the rumors, they were also spotted out in Paris together. Sure seems like something is going on!

Sarah Paulson Freaks the F*ck Out After Spotting Madonna at the Met Gala

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Can someone check on Sarah Paulson? Because it looks like the American Horror Story actress might have had a heart attack after bumping into Madonna on the red carpet at the Met Gala on Monday. As you can see in the hilarious photo above, the camouflage-clad music legend was busy posing with designer Jeremy Scott when Sarah spotted her from behind. Being a low-key superfan of Madonna's (Like a Virgin was the first album she ever bought!), she naturally freaked the f*ck out. Luckily she calmed down enough to help Madonna out with her lengthy train and the two shared a funny moment together. We thought nothing would be able to compete with Rihanna's epic moment at this year's event, but we might have a winner.


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Kim Kardashian Basically Just Confirmed Kendall Jenner's Romance With A$AP Rocky

All the attention was on Kendall Jenner at the Met Gala on Monday night thanks to her revealing naked dress, but she only had eyes for rumored boyfriend A$AP Rocky. Although the rapper walked the red carpet with Gwyneth Paltrow rather than the Pepsi fan, one of Kim Kardashian's Snapchats from the night gave her followers an intimate glimpse into their potential romance. A$AP can be seen holding onto Kendall's butt while she adjusts his tie, as Kylie Jenner dutifully captures a photo of the moment.

Earlier in the night the pair was seen hugging and laughing as they made their way into the exhibit and looked pretty cozy in the bathroom selfie Kylie shared on Instagram. Kendall and A$AP first sparked dating rumors in February 2016 when he attended one of her events for PacSun, with a source telling Us Weekly that their relationship "is the real deal." Although Kim's Snapchat is about as close as Kendall herself has come to confirming the rumors, they were also spotted out in Paris together. Sure seems like something is going on!

Your Summer Will Be Cooler Than Ever With Starbucks's Mint Mocha Frappuccino

For all you chocolate-lovers who totally don't get the hype around the Unicorn Frappuccino, Starbucks has got you covered. As of today, the Midnight Mint Mocha Frappuccino will officially be a part of the coffeehouse's Summer menu, and let me tell you, it is good.

The drink has extra dark cocoa blended with coffee, milk, and ice and is infused with mint sugar crystals. Half of the chocolate mixture is poured into the cup, followed by a layer of whipped cream, and then more chocolate. The whole thing is topped with whipped cream and a dusting of dark cocoa. I obviously went to Starbucks first thing this morning to get one of these of my own, and I was not disappointed. The Frappuccino actually tastes like a mint chocolate milkshake, which I'm more than fine with. I reluctantly shared with a few people in the office, and the overall consensus was that this drink is fantastic, though maybe not for mornings. One taster said it was a chocolate overload, in a good way, and another wished there was just a tad more mint flavor.

We hope this new Frappuccino doesn't incite any rage among Starbucks baristas like the Unicorn Frappuccino did. This drink seems slightly less complicated and more in line with Starbucks's standard menu, so we have high hopes. I imagine I'll be ordering plenty of these this Summer, along with the S'Mores Frappuccino, which is making a triumphant return to the Summer menu.

Mariah Carey Goes All Out For Her Twins' Disneyland Birthday Bash

Mariah Carey isn't just a glamorous celebrity, she's also a glamorous mom. The singer pulled out all the stops when she celebrated her twins Moroccan and Monroe's sixth birthday at Disneyland alongside her ex-husband, Nick Cannon, on April 30. In addition to taking a ride on Space Mountain as a family, the twins also mingled with some Disney pals at Goofy's Kitchen as they munched on Minnie and Mickey Mouse-themed cakes and opened their presents. And the magical day certainly didn't come cheap either, as the former couple reportedly dropped five figures on the birthday bash. But it shouldn't come as a surprise that they would pick the happiest place on Earth to celebrate. Not only is it every kid's dream to ring in their birthday at Disneyland, but it's also where Mariah and Nick renewed their vows back in April 2013.

Mariah Carey Goes All Out For Her Twins' Disneyland Birthday Bash

Mariah Carey isn't just a glamorous celebrity, she's also a glamorous mom. The singer pulled out all the stops when she celebrated her twins Moroccan and Monroe's sixth birthday at Disneyland alongside her ex-husband, Nick Cannon, on April 30. In addition to taking a ride on Space Mountain as a family, the twins also mingled with some Disney pals at Goofy's Kitchen as they munched on Minnie and Mickey Mouse-themed cakes and opened their presents. And the magical day certainly didn't come cheap either, as the former couple reportedly dropped five figures on the birthday bash. But it shouldn't come as a surprise that they would pick the happiest place on Earth to celebrate. Not only is it every kid's dream to ring in their birthday at Disneyland, but it's also where Mariah and Nick renewed their vows back in April 2013.

Your Summer Will Be Cooler Than Ever With Starbucks's Mint Mocha Frappuccino

For all you chocolate-lovers who totally don't get the hype around the Unicorn Frappuccino, Starbucks has got you covered. As of today, the Midnight Mint Mocha Frappuccino will officially be a part of the coffeehouse's Summer menu, and let me tell you, it is good.

The drink has extra dark cocoa blended with coffee, milk, and ice and is infused with mint sugar crystals. Half of the chocolate mixture is poured into the cup, followed by a layer of whipped cream, and then more chocolate. The whole thing is topped with whipped cream and a dusting of dark cocoa. I obviously went to Starbucks first thing this morning to get one of these of my own, and I was not disappointed. The Frappuccino actually tastes like a mint chocolate milkshake, which I'm more than fine with. I reluctantly shared with a few people in the office, and the overall consensus was that this drink is fantastic, though maybe not for mornings. One taster said it was a chocolate overload, in a good way, and another wished there was just a tad more mint flavor.

We hope this new Frappuccino doesn't incite any rage among Starbucks baristas like the Unicorn Frappuccino did. This drink seems slightly less complicated and more in line with Starbucks's standard menu, so we have high hopes. I imagine I'll be ordering plenty of these this Summer, along with the S'Mores Frappuccino, which is making a triumphant return to the Summer menu.