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dimanche 17 décembre 2017
Mom's Message After Overhearing a Parent at Chick-Fil-A Talk About Her Boy With Disabilities
After a potentially painful and uncomfortable encounter, Leah Carroll has a message to the mom-of-three who was at Chick-fil-A with her three kids. Leah wants this fellow parent to know that she overheard the questions, saw the stares, and was blown away by her response.
"I sensed your panic when your 5-year-old son pointed at my son in his wheelchair and shouted, 'Mom look at THAT boy!'' Leah shared on Love What Matters Facebook page. "You leaned forward and quietly told him and his 3-year-old brother that we don't say things like that and they shouldn't point or stare."
Leah waited because she knew in most cases, telling a child not to stare or question her child's differences doesn't work because young, curious minds have questions that they want answered. "When you realized your whispers weren't working I saw the panic disappear and you took a deep breath and took a step of courage," she wrote. "You brought your boys over to Malachi and said 'I bet he would like to know your names!'"
Leah explained that as they said their names to Malachi, her child started grinning and chatting with the kids and that this interaction was more important than this amazing mom could've realized.
The joy on his face brought tears to my eyes- he loves kids his age but so many are fearful to come and speak to him. Your boys continued to ask questions about his foot braces, his wheelchair, why his legs don't work, why he holds his mouth open like that.
You took the time to educate your sons in that moment and help them understand that different is okay. Different is not something to fear. And that it was okay to ask questions! Thank you for giving my son a chance to meet your kids.
Thank you for being the type of mom who educates your children instead of frantically trying to silence them. Special needs moms have to develop tough skin - we get used to stares, comments, and whispers. Please know it takes a lot to offend us, particularly when the comments are coming from young children. Give your kids the same grace we give them and use the opportunity to teach them about differences.
So Chick-Fil-A mom, thank you for raising your children to embrace children like Malachi. And thank you for giving my son something to smile about."
This Genius Changing Pad Could Be the Answer to Your Poop Prayers
Any parent who's struggled to keep their baby's busy hands or clothes out of the danger zone during a diaper change can attest to the fact that it isn't easy. The SnoofyBee Changing Pad, a product that triples as a changing pad, playmat, and diaper clutch all in one, offers a brilliant solution to keeping your baby distracted and out of that dirty diaper. A soft barrier shields your baby from what's going on downstairs, provides a place to hook up baby toys, and folds up into an easy-to-carry clutch. Invented by a couple with five children, it's safe to say they have some experience! Check out the video to see how it works, and order your own SnoofyBee Changing Pad if you like what you see.
17 Cute Gifts For Grown-Up Frozen-Lovers
There is no shame in being an adult who loves Disney movies, especially Frozen. It's a great film, OK?! Luckily, all sorts of brands are making cute products inspired by Frozen, and we're obsessed. When you love Anna, Elsa, or Olaf, there's something you'll be thrilled to receive this holiday. And, yes, you can proudly use these products as a mature person, because we said so. Check out these fun presents and gift them to your friends.
34 Thoughtful Gifts For Women Going Through IVF
Going through in vitro fertilization is an extremely difficult process no matter the time of year. Even with the support of friends and family, this emotional journey can feel isolating for women, particularly when they are the only one in their friend group enduring the seemingly endless injections and doctors' appointments.
Help let your friend or loved one know that you're there for her and understand what she's going through with a thoughtful gift to ease the IVF process. From presents to help her relax or to help the pain of needles and injections to gifts to help her find humor in the moment, these are 34 perfect gifts for someone going through IVF.
The 1 Taco Version You'll Be Eating Through the Cold Season
We're going to go ahead and estimate that every person who loves tacos equally loves taco salads in the Summer and taco soup in the Winter - not that we're suggesting you set aside any iteration of your favorite dish pending on the weather outside; that would be foolish. But there's also no denying that there's just something about cozying up to a bowl of steamy soup at the end of a long and cold workday. That's why we've rounded up 12 supereasy ways to make taco soup. There's something here for the slow-cooker-lover, the carnivore, the vegetarian, and even the fit and healthy one.
5 Miss Universe Contestants Ditch Makeup in a Raw Photo Shoot
"Minimalism" is far from the first word that comes to mind when you think about pageants. Beauty queens know it's all about having the biggest false lashes, the most intense contouring, and blinding highlighter (you have to stand out on stage amidst the world's most beautiful women, after all). That's why it's so refreshing when they allow themselves to be seen more stripped down.
We loved it when, earlier this year, seven Miss Universe contestants posed barefaced in a more natural photo shoot. Now, more of them have joined the movement. Five women, hailing everywhere from Spain to Uruguay, skipped their usual pageant makeup for a more low-key beauty look. The results are absolutely stunning.
See their breathtaking raw portraits, ahead.
20 Spanish-Language Movies to Add to Your Netflix Queue Stat
If you've already binge-watched your favorite telenovelas on Netflix, might we suggest loading up your queue with must-see movies in Spanish?
The popular streaming platform actually has a solid mix of comedies, dramas, and feel-good films, all perfect for when you need a break from episode-heavy shows. Ahead, find 20 titles we'd recommend adding to your list.
- Additional reporting by Alessandra Foresto and Celia Fernandez
Brace Yourself For These Incredibly Sexy Pictures of Maluma
Maluma's Instagram feed is an endless source of sexy. There, we said it. And if you watched his "El Perdedor" music video, you know it's true.
The 22-year-old Colombian singer - who takes part in POPSUGAR Latina contributor Thalia's new single, "Desde Esa Noche" - is totally gorgeous. Seriously. When he's not offering up his bed smolder for a selfie (swoon) or snapping a quick mirror picture (double swoon), Maluma is living his exciting life - in the sexiest way possible. So, what are you waiting for? Grab your fan and read on for 20 of his hottest moments on Instagram.
This Is What 25 of Your Favorite Celebrities Looked Like in the Year 2000
The beginning of the millennium was a big year for Latinx - we were in the height of the Latin explosion, after all. One celebrity in particular made everyone's jaws drop when she solidified her stance as a fashion icon. Yes, we are talking about Jennifer Lopez and that now-famous green Versace dress at the Grammy Awards. That is not only a moment that we will never forget, but one that changed history - did you know it's the reason Google Images exists today?
But J Lo wasn't alone in the spotlight. There were so many other stars carving out their place in Hollywood. Do you remember what they all looked like back then, 17 years ago? Well, we are about to show you. Prepare to be shocked (particularly by Enrique Iglesias's baby face)!
Adriana Lima's Changing Looks Through the Past 16 Years Will Leave You Saying: "Is That Really Her?"
Do you remember the first time you ever saw Brazilian supermodel Adriana Lima on a runway or a beauty ad? You probably don't. The 35-year-old model looked so strikingly different back then, when she started her international career in the late '90s, that you wouldn't have recognized her.
Adriana's changing looks have nothing to do with the passing of time - she just has a knack for reinventing herself and looking totally different after small changes of her cut or color and even makeup. That's probably why she's been a model for Balmain, Maybelline, and Versace and is the Victoria's Secret Angel with the most years under her belt. Read on to see Adriana's amazing evolution, and prepare to say "that can't be her; is it?" at least a few times.
15 Holiday Makeup Tutorials That Will Make This Your Fiercest Season Yet
If there's one thing you need this holiday season, it's a go-to makeup routine. Preferably one that features lots of glitter and bold lip shades. To prepare you for the most spirited time of year, look no further than our list of tutorials from some of our favorite Latino beauty bloggers. Keep scrolling to discover some easy-to-follow looks you can easily whip up ahead of all your parties and gift exchanges in the coming weeks! Then, find your must-have outfit.
20 of Eva Longoria's Best Bikini Moments Through the Years
Eva Longoria's body is steamy, fit, and always on display. The former Telenovela star loves to hit the beach, take vacations in seaside locations (including her honeymoon with husband José Antonio Bastón) where she can lounge on a yacht, and go for swims in the pool - so we've been lucky enough to get several glimpses at her toned physique in tiny bikinis through the years. Our conclusion: Eva's body gets stronger and hotter . . . and her swimsuits get skimpier. Keep reading to see what we mean, and then check out photos from her beautiful wedding.
25+ Slang Words in Spanish You Need to Know
The nuances of Spanish exist well beyond any dictionary. As if the language weren't hard enough to learn, our daily speech is full of words that have been completely redefined as slang. And to make matters even worse, those terms vary widely from country to country and even town to town - sometimes family to family.
Here, we rounded up some of the most loved and colloquially used words and phrases from across Latin America. The great part is that this slang is frequently used in more than one country! Consider yourself in the know.
Did we miss any of your favorites? Let us know in the comments below.
6 New Year's Eve Superstitions That Will Increase Your Chances For Travel in 2017
The guidebook for celebrating New Year's Eve with your family has already been written, and it includes every single superstition and tradition that Latinos hold to be true. While the old wives' tales can span from eating 12 grapes for luck to wearing the perfect color of underwear for love to starting the year on your literal right foot, if what you want is to be on planes, trains, and automobiles next year, there are only a few things you must have in your list. Have a little faith and follow our plan ahead.
1. Run around the block with a packed suitcase.
If you've ever spent New Year's Eve in a Latin American country, you know you can see more than a few people carrying a suitcase around the block when midnight comes. It's worth it since people swear it will ensure lots of travel in the new year!
2. Pack your suitcase right.
You can just throw stuff in the suitcase; you have to pack with a destination in mind. If you're looking to spend most of 2017 on the beach, then don't pack sweaters is all we're saying.
3. Run seven times around the house, fast.
If you don't want to walk around the block - you know, trying to avoid your neighbors thinking you have lost it - running around your room (or home) seven times is said to bring luck with travel, too.
4. Write it down.
Making a New Year's wish list and including your travel plans for the year is as great as sending a letter to Santa on Christmas - it helps you commit and visualize your wishes coming true. Put travel at the top of your list and you'll be good to go.
5. Grab a chair, an umbrella, and a suitcase.
New Year's Eve is the one time that having an open suitcase inside the house is actually considered good luck. The old superstition goes that if you stand on a chair with an umbrella open and one hand on a suitcase, you'll increase your chances of traveling over the next year. It might look weird, but it's worth a try!
6. Go in and out of the door, then repeat.
Grab your suitcase and walk in and out the front door of your home - this symbolizes the number of times you want to travel throughout the year, so give yourself at least a few minutes.
These Sexy Instagrams Show Mariah Carey Looks Better Than Ever
If you thought Mariah Carey's hottest days were during her Butterfly heyday in the late '90s, think again. The high-pitched singer, whose dad has Venezuelan roots, looks better and happier than she ever has - what's New Year's Eve lip-syncing snafu? It takes just one look at her Instagram feed, where she shares stunning bikini shots and snaps of her sexy and glamorous style, to corroborate our theory. Mariah's confidence is at its peak and her body's fit, healthy-looking, and ready to be flaunted. See just a few of her sexy photos straight ahead.
The Guy Who Plays Miguel on This Is Us Is a Real-Life Heartthrob, and Here's Proof
While you were busy fawning over Jack Pearson (played by the insanely sexy Milo Ventimiglia) on This Is Us, you didn't even notice that Miguel (played by Jon Huertas) is a hottie himself. The 41-year-old Puerto Rican actor looks much different (see: sexier) outside of the prosthetics he wears on the show.
Fans of Jon's previous work might recognize his handsome face from shows like Moesha and Sabrina the Teenage Witch. Others may have seen him in the HBO miniseries Generation Kill or ABC's comedy-drama Castle. Either way, it's time we celebrate Jon's gorgeous features, which we're so blessed to have on our TV screens each week. Without further ado, here are 13 photos of Miguel Jon that will make you say, "Jack who?"
Your Noche Buena Menu Is Set: These 16 Recipes Are What You're Making
Whether your family celebrates Noche Buena or opts for dinner on Christmas Day, there's one thing that's sure: there's lots of Latin food. If you're tired of pinning and saving recipes, stop now. We have the perfect menu, featuring roast pork and turkey as the main course, classic sides like tostones and rice and beans, and sweet desserts like buñuelos and panetón. Make all 16 recipes (or cut down the menu for a smaller feast), and we bet your guests will flock to your dinner table before you can even say "dig in."
12 One-Pot Arroz Con Pollo Recipes That Are Shockingly Easy to Make
When it comes to easy, nourishing dinners, there's nothing more simple and delicious than the classic combination of chicken and rice. Arroz con pollo is a staple all across Latin America, and one country's variation can be vastly different from another's. One thing that most have in common is that they can all be prepared in one pot, and we can all agree that that's definitely a win. Here, we've rounded up 12 different varieties to try for dinner.
50 Easy Latin Recipes You Can Whip Up in a Pinch
Whether you live alone, with a significant other, or a family that needs to be fed, cooking meals can be a balancing act. You want to have a few go-to favorites, but at the same time keep things both interesting and easy. Thankfully, the possibilities are endless, especially when you throw Latin flavors into the mix. Here we've rounded up 50 easy-to-prepare recipes, including hearty casseroles, simple salads, and plenty of high-protein options. Take your pick and dig in.
260 Mexican Recipes You Need to Master
If you find yourself uttering the phrase "I love Mexican food" more than once a week, join our club. What's not to love, really? The delicious options seem endless. There are tacos, burritos, quesadillas, taquitos, tostadas - all waiting to be filled with things like tinga chicken, pulled pork, shredded beef, and even veggies like mushrooms and elote. And then, of course, there are nachos, bowls, and salads - all begging to be sprinkled with cotija cheese and salsas. And we don't even have to tell you about guacamole and margaritas, of course.
Straight ahead you'll find 260 iterations of all your favorites; basically an excuse for you to eat Mexican food today and every day. It's the holy grail of Mexican recipes!
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17 of the Most Delicious Holiday Desserts You'll Eat This Year
Is it just us, or have you also been counting down to your holiday parties and dinners for weeks? Alright, yes, it'll all namely about the food and treats we'll get to eat without any regret and all the excuses in the world - especially all those cookies and sweet desserts we'll be digging our forks and spoons in over and over again.
If you'll be the chef in charge of pastries at your family's Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners or need a recipe that'll impress your friends, we suggest you indulge everyone's sweet tooth with one (or two or three!) of these 15+ Latin desserts. Have at it and thank us later!
The Holidays Won't Be Complete Without a Big Batch of 1 of These Sangria Recipes
'Tis the season for Winter-inspired cocktails. And there's nothing better than Sangria, especially considering it can be made with fresh produce that basically tastes like Christmas: apples, cranberries, pears, and pomegranates. It's the perfect drink to accompany your holiday feast. Plus, it feels kind of healthy with all that fruit, right? Whether you're having a full-on party or just an intimate gathering, we've rounded up some great recipes you'll love. Keep scrolling to explore all the delicious options!
You'll Want to Shop Selena Gomez's Sexy Swimsuits
You might think of celebrities on perma-vacations like Alessandra Ambrosio and Adriana Lima when you're looking for swimsuit inspiration, but we're telling you right now that Selena Gomez's beach style is the most versatile of them all.
The singer, who, after a short hiatus, made an emotional return to the spotlight at the end of 2016 with her acceptance speech at the American Music Awards, chooses both sexy bikinis and practical one-pieces that flatter her curves and still manage to be comfortable. So if you want to stock up, look ahead for lots of inspiration from Selena.
What Is It Like to Be in an Open Marriage? 1 Woman Shares Her Story
Sara and Ben (names have been changed) are a happily married, millennial couple in an open relationship. We reached out to Sara to share some insight into their journey to polyamory, the ground rules they've set, and what it's like to date other people - and maybe even fall in love with other people - when you're already married to someone you love.
How long have you been with your husband?
We've been together for nine years. We met on our first day of college - I was determined to break out of my nerdy shell and sit next to the cutest person in the room. I was really drawn to Ben. He ended up being super quiet and thus I was convinced that he hated me, but in actuality he was just nervous (and a soft-spoken person). We became friends, and the rest is history.
When did you decide to have an open relationship?
We started talking about being monogamish (which later evolved into full-blown polyamory, haha) about two years into our relationship. Seven years ago.
Who initiated it? How did the conversation go?
Ben is an open-minded person who has never been a big believer in social constructions or tradition. I am a bit more of a rule follower, but definitely liberal and nonjudgmental. He brought up the idea of him being comfortable with me casually dating other people early on in our relationship. He knew that he was my first boyfriend (I was 18), and he didn't want me to feel like I was missing out on dating. We talked about nonmonogamy in theory for a long time (two years?) before ever acting on it. In hindsight, I feel like this gave me time to get used to the idea and for us to build a solid foundation. One of my biggest takeaways from our relationship (and from hearing about other couple's open relationships) is that a successful nonmongamous relationship centers on honest communication and a strong connection between the couple.
How would you describe your relationship?
Our relationship has evolved over time, but the constant has been how close we are with one another. We've been consistently super happy together for almost a decade! The other constant is that since becoming "monogamish" (and eventually, "poly"), we've always dated separately.
At first, we were monogamous (I was 18 and didn't know much about any other relationship structures). Ben mentioned that he would be comfortable with me casually dating other people early on in our relationship, and it was then something we talked about every once in a while for a few years. These conversations were happy and exploratory. When we graduated college (and moved in together), I met someone who I could see myself dating. Ben was comfortable with me exploring it, and I casually went on a few dates. From there, we talked about opening the relationship on his end as well, and I was surprised by how nonjealous I felt. We took it really slow (lots and lots of conversation) and occasionally dated outside of our relationship. As time went on, the "casual" piece has become less and less important. I dated someone for over a year, and the consistency (and depth) was really nice. Ben was fully supportive - in fact, he prefers when I date someone longer term, because he trusts that I'm safe (dating new people can feel scary - you never know who might be a creep!). He has been seeing two women for about eight months, and again I am surprised by how normal it feels.
Logistically, we tend to see the other people we're dating (if we're dating other people) about once a week. I have an incredibly busy career (whereas Ben's is more mellow), so he might go on two dates a week (almost always during times when I am busy anyways). I am super picky and not always seeing someone, but when I am, I like to see them once a week. In the past I have spent the night at a boyfriend's house, but Ben has not spent the night anywhere.
Do you ever get jealous? Does he?
Making the other person feel valued and primary is extremely important to Ben and me. This really helps minimize jealousy. We spend most of our free time together and try to be intentional about the quality of that time (e.g. putting our phones away and actually connecting). We've both acknowledged that if our foundation wasn't strong, we would probably feel more jealousy.
We shared a big laugh when we realized just how weird/unusual it is for a husband to comfort his wife about her breakup with a boyfriend.
Do you have ground rules? If so, what are they?
The biggest rule is communication - we try hard to balance respect for our other partners' privacy with open communication between the two of us. We are also always honest with the people we are dating. Everyone knows right off the bat that we are happily married, and thus not looking for a lifelong commitment. We also feel strongly about treating the people we date with respect and care (and expect to be treated the same). It makes me really happy (but also disappointed) that several of the women Ben has dated have said that he is the kindest, most respectful man they've been with.
This isn't a rule but more of a practice: we have not met one another's partners in the past. This might also help minimize jealousy. Not meeting one another's partners also allows each of us to have an identity outside of our marriage, which is nice. However, we're both open to meeting someone the other person is dating if they felt strongly about it.
Another big (and hopefully obvious) rule is condoms. We believe in safe sex for everyone, not just open couples!
Have you fallen in love with someone you've dated?
Yes - I've been in love with one other person. It was not the same as the deep love I feel for Ben, but it was fun and meaningful. Ben didn't feel threatened and was an amazing source of support when we eventually broke up. We shared a big laugh when we realized just how weird/unusual it is for a husband to comfort his wife about her breakup with a boyfriend. Ben hasn't fallen in love with anyone (he is a private person, and the women he is dating are not looking for serious relationships). If he did fall in love, I don't think it would bother me. We both feel strongly that our relationships with other people don't take away from how we feel about each other.
Do your friends or family know?
My sister (who is also my best friend) and her husband know, which is extremely helpful. Finally telling them was a massive relief. I felt like I was living a double life for a while there, which I hated. We've also told a few close friends, all of whom have been awesome and supportive. The idea of telling our parents makes us both want to poop our pants, and thus will never happen (nor does it need to). I'm not particularly close with the rest of my family, so there is really no need to tell them.
This past year, we've been trying to tell new friends early on, because it is much less awkward. This has been a great strategy! We tend to attract open-minded people into our lives, so no one has had a terrible response thus far.
What type of guys do you go for? Are they similar or different than your husband?
I tend to be attracted to older men, which is different from Ben (he is only a couple of months older than I am). My long-term boyfriend was hilariously similar to Ben in some ways (both surfers, they liked similar bands and movies, similar styles of dress, etc.).
What type of women does your husband go for? Are they similar to you or different?
Ben tends to go for women who are a bit more free-spirited than I am - which is fine by me! He can go camping with them while I enjoy the comfort of a real bed. The women he dates do tend to be intellectual like I am. They sound like awesome people who I could easily be friends with.
How has this arrangement helped your relationship?
I am 100 percent convinced that being in an open relationship has made our relationship better. We've honestly become closer through sharing our dating experiences with one another. We've always had an awesome sex life, and it's fun to be able to have sexual experiences outside of the relationship (it takes a lot of pressure for us to be all things for the other person).
Do you have kids or plan on having kids? How will this affect your decision to have an open relationship?
We're unsure about kids but would probably be monogamous during the baby phase (only because of time constraints). Our biggest commitment to one another is to keep talking honestly and continually reevaluating the structure of our relationship. Originally we weren't sure if we were going to be nonmonogamous for 10 minutes, or 10 years. It's all about making sure we're both happy. We're so grateful to have found one another and joke that we're two little aliens in love. We don't know if our relationship will always be open, but we do feel strongly that we'll be together.
35 Secrets to Marriage Success
For many married couples, falling in love and saying "I do" was the easy part. Living happily ever after is the part that takes a whole lot of work.
My family history doesn't have the best track record when it comes to the vow "until death do us part." My parents divorced when I was 18, and on my mom's side alone, not one single marriage has lasted (keep in mind, she's one of eight siblings). One might think this would make me a cynic when it comes to marriage - but for some unexplainable reason, that's not the case. Maybe I'm an idealist, but I think you can fall in love with your best friend, grow old together, and even live happily ever after.
I sought out some honest advice from real people who might have insight as to what makes a marriage stand the distance. I reached out to all the married couples and divorcées I knew and asked them the burning question, "What's the secret to making a marriage successful?" Read their words of wisdom below:
- Share everything with each other. Most importantly, everything you are feeling. There is no way to be on common ground if you don't communicate how you're feeling.
- Whatever bad stuff happens, remember this, too, will pass.
- Affection breeds more affection. Touch each other, kiss each other good morning, and have plenty of sex (even when you're old!). It's too easy to get out of the habit, which makes you feel distant. Intimacy and physical affection really help keep you connected.
- Children can be stressful, but they, too, will grow up.
- Let the little things go and think big picture. Since you're in it for the long haul, are you really going to care who did or didn't run the dishwasher when you look back in 10 years? Remind yourself that your relationship is much, much bigger than any one minor incident.
- Fill the fridge with his favorites - it's easy to do, so just do it.
- Take time for yourself to do what you love, what makes you happy and gives you energy - being successful as a couple will only work if each of you is strong and fulfilled as an individual.
- Avoid giving the silent treatment. Talk about things that bother you as soon as possible; don't let your emotions build up, because you'll likely explode.
- Let go of hurts more easily, and try not to dwell on things that annoy you.
- Don't be afraid to compromise. It sounds like a bad word and like you are giving up on your "ideals," but in reality it's about the push and pull of a relationship. Try rating how much you want something on a scale from one to 10 and have your partner do the same. So if eating out is a five for you and staying in is a nine for him, then you should stay in that night.
- Don't take each other for granted. You have to work at it all the time.
- Be spontaneous. Change things up every once in a while, whether that means a last-minute vacation or a card for no special occasion. Grand gifts and the smallest gestures can go a long way when you're with someone for a very long time.
- Be nice! This can be harder than it seems sometimes, but remember that you (hopefully) love the person more than anyone else on the planet and you chose to marry them, so treat them with kindness.
- Be patient. You both might grow together at different times and in different ways, so you need to give and take to make it last forever.
- Celebrate when good things happen, and be expressive about it.
- Find new things, new hobbies to do together like road biking, a cooking class, or starting a garden. It's just another reason to spend time together building your bond, and it keeps the excitement going.
- Marry someone you like killing time with.
- Tell them what you need. As much as you want them to, they can't read minds. Tell them that you feel disconnected and that you want a day alone together or date night.
- Speaking of date nights, go on them and have fun! It's important to set time alone regardless of how busy either gets - especially when you have kids. Even if you're overworked, overtired, or low on funds, it doesn't take much time or money to reconnect. It can be as simple as going for a walk or cooking dinner together.
- Make a budget together. It's a great way to talk about your plans and dreams for the future and how to make them happen.
- Surprise each other like you used to do when dating with special notes, small gifts, baking them a favorite recipe, or planning a weekend away. It lets the other person know you're still in love with them, and it makes you feel the love, too.
- On the other end, when your spouse does do something special for you, show appreciation. They may know that you think all those positive things, but it's nice to hear them out loud.
- Build your partner up and support them to be all they can or want to be.
- Take time to put yourself in your spouse's shoes before judging. You want to avoid unnecessary criticism or negativity as much as you can.
- Make each other laugh. Try not to take everything so seriously.
- Communication is key. When your marriage hits certain speed bumps, remind yourself that when you come out on the other side, your relationship should be better and more evolved. Make sure the tough times lead to improvement, and if you keep making the same mistakes, reevaluate why.
- Have couple friends but also your own friends who you hang out with on a regular basis, without your spouse.
- Be more generous with time and money.
- Be happy yourself. If you're in a slump, there's a tendency to take it out on your spouse or want them to fix it. You have to fix yourself.
- Don't get defensive. Try to come at things from a place of love and kindness, and don't assume you're being attacked.
- Trust and be trustworthy.
- Try to always remember why you fell in love with your partner. Whether it was their sense of humor or ambition - always remind yourself.
- Say "I love you," and tell your partner they look attractive.
- Appreciate what you have and realize that marriages at times can be fragile and need to be taken care of.
- Enjoy the NOW. Add a house, kids, etc. to the plate, and things just keep getting more complicated. Whatever phase you're in, embrace it and enjoy it.
Celebrity Makeup Experts Reveal Their Top Foundation Picks For Winter
Winter can be a joyous time, full of hot cocoa and time spent skiing in the mountains with family and friends. It can also wreak havoc on your skin, causing dull, dry, and flaky results. Choosing a foundation that will conceal and, in an ideal world, heal can be seemingly impossible. To help save you from the slope-weather beauty scaries, we asked some of the industry's most coveted makeup artists (who are tasked with keeping their high-profile clients looking flawless all year long) to share some of their personal product picks for finally attaining a hydrated, protected Winter glow.
21 Vegetarian Thanksgiving Dishes That Aren't Plain Veggies
With turkey as the main event and animal products lurking in staple sides like stuffing and gravy, Thanksgiving can be a tough time for vegetarians. But veggie-based should never mean fun-free, so here's a roundup of 21 creative, magnificently meatless Thanksgiving foods. Whether you're a loyal vegetarian or committed carnivore, you'll find many things to love about these dishes - because no one should have to eat plain ol' green beans at the biggest feast of the year.
Donald Trump Decorates the White House Tree With "Loser" Ornaments In This SNL Skit
"I'm right here, father." #SNL http://pic.twitter.com/1X8vqgN9Pr
- Saturday Night Live - SNL (@nbcsnl) December 17, 2017
Saturday Night Live opened its final episode of 2017 by reflecting on all of the "haters and losers" President Donald Trump has written off this year. In a hilarious cold open, Alec Baldwin and Cecily Strong put on their best Donald and Melania act decorating their Christmas tree for the holidays, except instead of festive ornaments, Trump's "loser tree" was adorned with the faces of all the people who "tried to destroy" him throughout the year.
Among the long list of people who have quit or Trump has fired, first to go on the tree was FBI director James Comey, then Anthony Scaramucci, and Michael Flynn. Scarlett Johansson came back as Ivanka Trump bearing two special ornaments: Roy Moore and a Madball for Steve Bannon, because "his face wouldn't fit." But the best part was when Kate McKinnon showed up as an Elf on the Shelf version of Jeff Sessions, who "does not recall who's been naughty or nice." Classic.
Jeff Sessions on the Shelf does not recall who's been naughty or nice. #SNL http://pic.twitter.com/bsNX08Em3U
- Saturday Night Live - SNL (@nbcsnl) December 17, 2017
We're About to Cry Just Looking at This Groom's Emotional Reaction to Seeing His Bride
Although Liz and Beau met at youth group in junior high, they didn't begin dating until later in life when they reconnected. On Feb. 13, after officially one year of dating, Beau took Liz to Yosemite to celebrate their anniversary. When they stopped to look at the water directly beneath them, he asked, "Are you ready?" Confused by the question, Liz asked, "For what?," and that's when Beau pulled out the ring to pop the question.
Six months later, the couple got married at a private residence in Modesto, CA, where they had an intimate outdoor reception. The groom was overcome with emotion when seeing his beautiful bride walk down the aisle. It was the sweetest reaction!
See their photos ahead.
OK, Zendaya and Tom Holland's Romance Is Pretty Darn Adorable
It looks like things may be getting serious between Zendaya and Tom Holland. The couple, who first struck up a romance after costarring in Spider-Man: Homecoming, just hit a major milestone in their relationship. According to Us Weekly, "Tom has met Zendaya's family and they love him." Even though the couple initially denied that they were dating earlier in the year, Tom recently stepped out to support Zendaya at the premiere of her movie, The Greatest Showman, and their previous outings pretty much speak for themselves. Whether they're battling it out on stage during Lip Sync Battle or they're just goofing off on the red carpet, it's obvious they share a special bond. They've even gone as far as sharing each others' clothes during the press tour. Take a look at Zendaya and Tom's cutest moments together.
17 Classy Gifts For the Pot Smoker in Your Life
The recent trend of marijuana legalization across the country has meant many changes for many people, but also that it's not as taboo as it used to be to get the secret pot smoker in your life a not-so-secret gift. It also means that the designer and luxury market for these sorts of things has grown massively - and it's the perfect thing to tap into for holiday gift giving. So, from lighters to posters, here are the 17 best gifts that will make any pot smoker's (holi)day brighter.
If You Blink, You Might Miss This Celebrity Cameo in Star Wars: The Last Jedi
The following contains spoilers for Star Wars: The Last Jedi.
When we heard rumors that Justin Theroux would appear in Star Wars: The Last Jedi, we refused to get our hopes up. After all, we already had the introduction of adorable porgs - having The Leftovers star in the film seemed too good to be true! But after finally catching a screening of the eighth installment of the iconic sci-fi franchise, we're able to officially confirm that Theroux does appear in Star Wars . . . but if you blink (or take an ill-timed bathroom break), you just might miss him.
For those looking out for a Theroux sighting, we've got the scoop. The actor appears in a casino scene when Finn and his new companion, Rose, go hunting for a "slicer" who can help them hack a system inside a First Order ship. Since Theroux's character has more interest in gambling with beautiful women than helping "rebel scum," we only catch a short glimpse of him chatting with ladies at a game table, dressed in a flashy black-and-white outfit that would make residents of The Hunger Games Capitol proud. Thanks to a flamboyant mustache and those recognizable cheekbones, you should be able to spot Theroux when Finn (John Boyega) and Rose (Kelly Marie Tran) do - without the threat of First Order soldiers hunting you and your friends.
Now that you're equipped to spot your favorite HBO star in the film, read more about Benicio Del Toro's mysterious character, who is introduced soon after Theroux in the movie. Then, dive into the rest of our Star Wars coverage to prepare for your next viewing!
Jimmy Kimmel Slams Trump and the FCC on "Absolutely Despicable" Net Neutrality Repeal
Jimmy Kimmel is just one of the millions of people who are furious about the FCC's Dec. 14 decision to repeal net neutrality. But as he has the platform to do so, Kimmel took a moment during last night's episode of Jimmy Kimmel Live to make his voice heard and to completely slam the actions of Ajit Pai, the chairman of the Federal Communications Commission. "The FCC did something absolutely despicable today. They voted to put an end to net neutrality. This is the rule that says everyone gets equal access to the internet - a big company or somebody selling crocheted owls from their house in the Midwest," he said.
Naturally, he didn't stop there - he also made sure to "thank" Donald Trump, who designated Pai as chairman of the FCC in January. "Thank you, President Trump. Thanks to you and this jackhole you appointed to run the FCC, big corporations are about to take full control of the internet." Despite the fact that 83 percent of Americans support net neutrality, the vote to repeal it won with a 3-2 majority. And while Kimmel is one of the first public figures to voice his thoughts on the decision, it's likely we'll hear a whole lot more about this issue in the weeks and months to come.
Watch Kimmel's segment in full above, and head here for more information on how to join in the fight to save our free, open internet.
Ed Sheeran's "Perfect" Remix With Andrea Bocelli Is Straight Up Magic
Ed Sheeran continues to prove he can duet with literally anyone. The 26-year-old English crooner teamed up with world-renowned Italian classical tenor Andrea Bocelli for a "Perfect Symphony" that's just straight up magic to your ears. The latest remix comes after his "Perfect" duet with Queen Bey shot to number one on the Billboard charts earlier this week.
Sheeran teased his Bocelli collaboration on Instagram before its release, writing, "Orchestral version of 'Perfect' with the amazing Andrea Bocelli comes out Friday. Orchestrated and produced by my super talented brother Matt, little gift for you all before Christmas". Listen to it in full (and on repeat as much as you would like) ahead.
Riverdale: Let's Take a Minute to Freak the F*ck Out Over That Archie and Betty Moment
Warning: a cute little Riverdale spoiler below!
Is Riverdale trying to kill me? That is the sincere, if melodramatic, question I pose for The CW's teen mystery show following its wild midseason finale, "Chapter 22: Silent Night, Deadly Night."
For starters, the identity of the Black Hood is finally revealed, only to be the lame tertiary character of high school janitor Mr. Svenson (which has to be a red herring . . . right?). It's a deeply unsatisfying and nonsensical conclusion to the serial killer storyline, to say the least. But you know what? The big Svenson reveal was eclipsed by another important moment in the episode: Archie and Betty's kiss.
YES! Or no, depending on which couples you're rooting for.
That's right - the two best friends decided to cut the sexual tension brewing between them with a knife their lips following their respective breakups from Jughead and Veronica. For some fans, the moment comes at just the right time. For others, it's an unacceptable and brief bump in the road for the show's meant-to-be couple: Betty and Jughead (I see you and respect you, Bughead shippers).
Regardless of how you feel about Betty and Archie as a prospective couple, they share a Christmas kiss (sans mistletoe, mind you) in a car while on their mission to discover the Black Hood's true identity. The sweet moment comes after Archie gives his lifelong friend the most perfect and sentimental gift at Kevin's Secret Santa party (a Swiss Family Robinson read-along that the pair used to listen to as kids). With Jughead momentarily out of the picture, thanks to his and Betty's ongoing relationship strife due to his involvement with the Southside Serpents, this happens:
Archie and Betty the first kiss
| HD #2X09 #Riverdale #Barchie 💖😻http://pic.twitter.com/uPfp6qon89- best of barchie (@bestarchiebetty) December 14, 2017
See what I mean? Riverdale is trying to KILL me. Fortunately for anyone worried about a romance blossoming between the two, Riverdale stars Lili Reinhart and KJ Apa dished about the moment to Entertainment Tonight, and it definitely seems like it was more platonic than some might realize.
"To me, it shows that there's just such a genuine friendship between them and they just know each other," Reinhart explained. "Even though you don't get to see every little detail of their past or their history, when she says that they listened to it when they were 5 years old, it just paints a picture for you of how long these people have been in one another's lives, and it's just really sweet."
Apa seemed to agree (which makes sense, seeing as it looks like Archie and Veronica patch things up), saying that Bughead shippers "might not be happy" but ultimately shouldn't freak out. "If they're confident Bughead fans, then they've got nothing to worry about."
Riverdale fans, naturally, had plenty to say about the moment on Twitter.
Everyone in the room after Archie gave Betty a perfect Christmas gift 😭#riverdale http://pic.twitter.com/vAkCw6vN2M
- TV Riverdale (@TvRiverdale) December 14, 2017
Veronica and Archie reflect what Fred and Hermoine used to be as a couple in HS. Betty and Jughead are Alice and FP Jones? I really want a parents-only episode. Like a flashback episode. Take us back to the 80s👨🎤😍#Riverdale http://pic.twitter.com/3aVhkhihse
- F1LMS R FR L💓V3RS (@MissTamikaJones) December 14, 2017
My bbs Finally kiss #Riverdale #Barchie http://pic.twitter.com/MogDsv5wwW
- Archie & Betty (@ArchieBettyFans) December 14, 2017
That #barchie kiss though. Ronnie and archie may have gotten back together, but this was just the beginning of Betty and Archie's story.
- J©™ (@RlVERRDALES) December 14, 2017
Basically everyone during that Betty/Archie kiss! #Riverdale http://pic.twitter.com/AaZXsAPQGJ
- RiverDudes Podcast (@RiverDudesPod) December 14, 2017
First, Betty and Archie kiss and one would think YES BARCHIE NEXT SEASON but then Veronica kisses Archie and it's like they're back together? Why'd you get my hopes up like that @CW_Riverdale ? #Riverdale #Barchie
- radke (@efblxckk) December 14, 2017
veronica is the best character in riverdale and the archie + betty kiss? why? just why? #riverdale
- anya melencio (@anyamariiee) December 14, 2017
Time out why did Archie and Betty kiss then Veronica and Archie kiss I thought Betty and Archie were going to be a thing... I'm sad now. I thought that ship was going to sail.. guess not I New they would go back together.. barchie!! Plz happen!!!
- Paytyn Arends (@PaytynArends) December 14, 2017
The Barchie Kiss wasn't the best scene we got tonight and I AM OVERWHELMED 😭 he went in that coffin because Betty's life's in danger I AM!! And then she jumped in to get him out and they pretty much showed us why they are worthy of their newfound screentime #Barchie #Riverdale
- ArchieBetty (@ABDEOFLMtrash) December 14, 2017
archie's "betty" after the kiss sounds exactly like his "betty" after she told him she had a fantasy of them as a couple in the pilot episode http://pic.twitter.com/dfe4yE763V
- laurão (@slytherinws) December 14, 2017
The one moment. The one kiss. That changed everything. #Barchie http://pic.twitter.com/Uj2HIJX3eO
- Kj&Lili 💕 (@barchie_RD) December 14, 2017
Wait you're telling me Archie is just gonna act like he and Betty didn't kiss? Cheryl saw it though 👀😂
- c h l o é (@ChlGrne) December 14, 2017
*Betty and Archie Kiss*
ME: #Riverdale http://pic.twitter.com/01sqtqovzv- James (@FlyLikeHedaLexa) December 14, 2017
Friendly reminder that it wasn't Betty and Archie's first kiss... (;#Barchie #ChildhoodLovers #Riverdale
- shay (@booksnshows) December 14, 2017
Y'all know when besties cross that line they can never be just friends #Barchie http://pic.twitter.com/mBQTGdFrlv
- uclabruh210 (@em_lovechild) December 14, 2017
#Barchie was on 🔥 tonight. They have good chemistry 👍🏻 #Riverdale #BARCHIEKISSED http://pic.twitter.com/7ZmDDJMxXp
- B🌸🦋 (@__CheersDarling) December 14, 2017
THE WAY JUGHEAD AND VERONICA WERE STARING AT #Barchie OMG #Riverdale
- ashley❁ (@ashkoz_xo) December 14, 2017
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO STAHP NOOOOOOOO #barchie #Riverdale
- e l y s e (@elysetemkin) December 14, 2017
Stylish and Affordable Watches Any Guy Will Love
It's time we set you straight with a major list of must haves for men - that won't cost you an arm and a leg. Yes, we're on wrist watch, and we're here to divulge the best and brightest in budget-friendly time-tellers for men. From timeless styles to futuristic fashions, this roundup will have your wrists ready for anything, at all times. Because if there's one thing we've learned, it's that being on time is just as stylish as the accessories used to get you there. So buckle up. This clock just struck "won," which officially makes it style hour.
Here Are All the '90s Foods That Made a Long-Overdue Comeback This Year
No one can argue with the fact that the snacks from the '90s were the best. And as much as we miss Dunkaroos, Surge, and Butterfinger BB's (RIP), we're so glad that some of our other discontinued favorites have made a comeback! We're calling 2017 the year of the '90s resurgence, at least in the world of food and drinks. So far this year, four major brands have announced the return of some of the most classic products from the '90s that were sadly discontinued at some point. Bring on the nostalgia and read on to discover all the details about each product's much-anticipated (and appreciated) return.
45 Red Carpet Beauty Looks That Took Our Breath Away in 2017
Say what you will about 2017, but it's blessed us with some pretty unbelievable red carpet beauty looks. From the Golden Globes to the Cannes Film Festival and many, many award season soirées in between, celebrities served hair and makeup inspiration like it was their dang job. (Because it sort of is!) Ahead, find the 45 hands-down hottest beauty looks to walk down red carpets this year.
30 Perfect Hostess Gifts For $20 or Less
You don't want to show up empty-handed to a holiday party, but you also don't want to spend too much - you've got tons of presents to buy! These affordable hostess gifts guarantee you'll get the best guest award without breaking the bank. From festive kitchen accessories to essential bar items and more, these fun hostess gifts look expensive, but they're all $20 or less.
15 Times Kesha Proved She Was Back and Stronger Than Ever This Year
Kesha made a triumphant return to the spotlight this year after taking a five-year hiatus from music. Not only did she release her third studio album, Rainbow, but she also hit the road for the accompanying Rainbow tour. In addition to her music career, Kesha also seemed to focus more on expressing herself and making a difference in the world. In January, she joined a bevy of stars at the Women's March in LA and she even hosted a workshop in Texas to fight against cyberbullying two months later. Celebrate Kesha's monumental year by taking a look back at some of her best moments from 2017.
Once Upon a Time: 18 Gifts For Diehard Captain Hook Fans
There are plenty of magical Once Upon a Time gifts out there, but there's one storybook character in particular who has caused a huge fan frenzy. If you or your friend just can't get enough of the ruggedly handsome Captain Hook, then you're sure to fall hook, line, and sinker for these equally dashing products this holiday season. Cuddle up with your favorite pirate with a soft throw blanket or wear your heart on your sleeve with a fun graphic tee.
Roy Moore's Horse Inspired the Parody Twitter Account We Never Knew We Needed
On Dec. 12, as the controversial Alabama Senate seat showdown between Doug Jones and Roy Moore finally came to a head, Moore raised eyebrows (and greatly irked horse Twitter) by choosing to ride his horse Sassy to the local polling place instead of, say, walking - or driving a car. It's not the first time the then-candidate chose horseback riding as his main mode of transportation, but it's a choice that faced heavy scrutiny after several consecutive days of questionable decisions made on behalf of the Moore camp. In the three days prior to the election, his wife attempted to rebut a "fake news" claim that she didn't "care for Jews," the candidate himself attempted to bail out of campaigning by attending the Army-Navy Game in Philadelphia, and, most egregiously, a spokesman for the campaign said that homosexuality was "probably" illegal. In other words, the world was already watching. And what it saw was a man and his horse.
Moore would eventually lose the election, perhaps due to the myriad allegations of sexual misconduct and assault that were leveled against him, or perhaps as a karmic payback for awful statements that checker his past. But what will live on in infamy from Dec. 12 onward is the parody account that appeared on Twitter - one that, for all intents and purposes, purported to deliver the thoughts of Moore's horse Sassy.
Below, we've pulled some of the best tweets the account has unleashed so far. And even though the election is over, you can bet that we'll still be following this account for weeks to come - and not just because the account lists its current location as "Under Roy Moore, Alabama" (but let's be honest: we're definitely still laughing about it).
I DID NOT CHOOSE THIS LIFE.
PLEASE, IF HE WINS HE WILL RIDE ME INTO WASHINGTON AND I AM SCARED OF CARS.- Roy Moore's Horse (@RoyMooresHorse) December 12, 2017
LOOK! I AM ON TV!
I DID NOT CHOOSE THIS LIFE. https://t.co/DKJWM4qsXv- Roy Moore's Horse (@RoyMooresHorse) December 12, 2017
IF @GDouglasJones WINS DOES THAT MEAN I GET TO LIVE WITH HIM
I WOULD PREFER THAT- Roy Moore's Horse (@RoyMooresHorse) December 12, 2017
I AM BEING BULLIED
AND CONTROLLED BY A RACIST
WHERE ARE MY AVENGERS TICKETS
ALSO, WHAT IS THE AVENGERS- Roy Moore's Horse (@RoyMooresHorse) December 12, 2017
Celebrity Makeup Experts Reveal Their Top Foundation Picks For Winter
Winter can be a joyous time, full of hot cocoa and time spent skiing in the mountains with family and friends. It can also wreak havoc on your skin, causing dull, dry, and flaky results. Choosing a foundation that will conceal and, in an ideal world, heal can be seemingly impossible. To help save you from the slope-weather beauty scaries, we asked some of the industry's most coveted makeup artists (who are tasked with keeping their high-profile clients looking flawless all year long) to share some of their personal product picks for finally attaining a hydrated, protected Winter glow.
45 Red Carpet Beauty Looks That Took Our Breath Away in 2017
Say what you will about 2017, but it's blessed us with some pretty unbelievable red carpet beauty looks. From the Golden Globes to the Cannes Film Festival and many, many award season soirées in between, celebrities served hair and makeup inspiration like it was their dang job. (Because it sort of is!) Ahead, find the 45 hands-down hottest beauty looks to walk down red carpets this year.
Essie's Latest Nail Polish Collection Was Made For Practicing Your Princess Wave
A fresh manicure can take your mood from zero to 100, but the latest nail polish colors from Essie will make you feel like a straight-up princess.
The brand is releasing six new Gel Couture shades ($12), all inspired by romance and royalty. Its enchanted new lineup features creamy, opaque hues that deliver salon-quality results at home. Just apply two coats of polish, finish with the Gel Couture top coat, and - voilà! - you'll have a magical, long-lasting mani.
While we love the longevity of Gel Couture polishes, the stunning colors are what have us hyped as hell. You can take a cue from Kate Middleton, Queen Elizabeth II, and Duchess-to-Be Meghan Markle and opt for a classic pink, like Matter of Fiction. But if you're fond of Cinderella's ballgown blue, metallics, and vampy hues, you'll also find a color in the new range that fits you like a crown.
Rita Remark, Essie's global lead educator, told us via email that she's personally smitten with Good Knight (blackened plum) and Princess Charming (neutral mauve-pink). "With another royal wedding around the corner, the timing [of this new collection] couldn't be more charmed!" she added. And Rita's right - we could totally see Meghan rocking a shade similar to Princess Charming down the aisle next Spring.
Luckily, you don't have to be an actual princess to get in on the magic. The entire collection is available to snag now on Amazon. Ahead, you can get a better look at each shade and see them swatched on different complexions. In the meantime, we'll be here practicing our royal waves before our next manicures.
Gingerbread Latte Hair Is the Sweetest Way to Be Holiday Ready
One of the most exciting parts of the Winter season is running to Starbucks to get our hands on the holiday drinks. One of our favorites is the spicy gingerbread latte. Turns out, the festive drink also happens to be excellent hair color inspiration.
Starting with a deep coffee-hued base and adding highlights of warm copper, this brunette hair color is a gorgeous choice for the Winter season. The lighter hues are reminiscent of adding milk into your latte and seeing the different shades of brown that appear in your red holiday cup. The drink itself is delicious, so you can't blame us for getting excited about this beauty inspiration.
Gingerbread latte hair is a gorgeous look for brunette gals who want a subtle change without dipping their strands in bleach. If you're tempted to try this out for yourself (as you should be!), keep scrolling for some gorgeous inspiration photos to show your stylist.
What I Learned From Not Wearing Makeup For 2 Months
Image Source: Tori Crowther
I've had the travel bug for as long as I can remember; I just can't stay put for too long. Last year, before I'd even finished the last of my university work, I'd jetted off to the USA to stay with family for six weeks. From there, my boyfriend and I traveled around Southeast Asia, part backpacking, part nice (budget) holiday-ing. I'd managed to pack up my belongings in a bag of a similar size to the one I now carry to work every day. I'd also packed less makeup and skin care for the trip than I use in a single day at home.
I packed only six items: cleanser, exfoliator, moisturizer, SPF, shampoo, and mascara. That's it. I'd recently had an HD Brows treatment (which included tinting), so I didn't need to worry about them. I didn't even take conditioner or hair oil (though I later regretted this and bought some on my travels). To say I packed light is an understatement.
Over the first few days, I missed my acid toner, mists, and array of concealers to rid my blemishes and dark circles. But surprisingly, after the initial shock of only having minimal products, I actually forgot about my lack of beauty products and didn't miss having those extra steps in my day.
Although I've been blessed with a quite a good complexion, I still have my skin hangups. Right now I could tell you exactly where all my skin concerns are (two spots by my nose, a scar on my left jaw, and a weird blackhead on my left cheek). I stare at them every time I do my skincare routine, wishing them away. But I actually can't tell you if my skin was particularly good or bad when I was traveling, because I didn't notice it, nor did I care. I didn't have the time (nor energy) for a 15-minute skincare routine, which is one of my favorite things at home.
Image Source: Tori Crowther
My skin has definitely benefited from using an array of products, and I don't think I could ever have such a minimal routine long term. However, I have learned that giving my skin a break also gave me a break from obsessing over every blemish and imperfection. It also made me appreciate makeup. When I did decide to wear a slick of mascara once or twice in the evening, I felt great - like really great. I was amazed what such a tiny amount of product could do as a confidence booster. Never underestimate the power of mascara!
Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't ever think about skin care again. Although there is more to life than beauty products, I strive for perfect skin and I really enjoy trying different products to find what works for me. But, there are no benefits to scrutinizing your every blemish in the mirror twice (or more) a day, because it probably isn't doing you or your skin any good. Sometimes, the basics are all you need. Embrace your natural beauty and enjoy those no-makeup moments as much as the makeup moments.
Gigi Hadid Flaunts Her Armpit Hair as a Boxing Badass For Love Magazine
On day 11 of Love magazine's annual Advent calendar, Gigi Hadid went where no model has ever gone before for the calendar and rocked unshaven armpits. While this year we've seen models break out their strongest moves for the fitness-themed videos, Gigi's body hair has added to the empowering narrative of the videos. While Gigi flaunted her best boxing and volleyball moves, it was her underarms that had people talking.
Some comments have commended her choice to go natural, with one Instagram user writing, "ARMPIT HAIR YASSSSSSSSSS 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏," but as expected, others felt differently, writing, "ewwwwwwww" and "I'm shook." For a video concept that is known for its unparalleled sexiness, it's great to see Gigi's natural body hair being embraced and talked about. It's obvious that there is some sweatshirt fuzz as well stuck to Gigi's underarms, but regardless, it's a different side to the perfectly edited videos of the past and an exciting step for embracing body hair like it's NBD - because it isn't!
Image Source: YouTube
Gabrielle Union Recalls the "Bullsh*t" Time Her Twists Were Called "Unprofessional"
Whether she's rocking braids, twists, a ponytail, blond highlights, long extensions, or her gorgeous natural hair, Gabrielle Union is constantly inspiring women with her array of looks. But, even as a successful actress and businesswoman (she created her own haircare line, Flawless), Gabrielle has faced scrutiny over her hairstyles being accepted as "professional." In a recent interview with Byrdie, she opened up about her experience as a woman of color in entertainment and society's beauty standards.
"There's a larger conversation with people of color when it comes to our hair and our skin color," Gabrielle said. "People will try to lighten our skin tones and alter our hair, which says a lot of about how we feel about ourselves versus how other people feel about our blackness and textured hair. We need to showcase the fullness of our beauty."
In a role where she was playing a "professional woman," Gabrielle wanted to wear twists, and producers dismissed her saying the style wasn't "professional" or "polished," but Gabrielle wasn't letting this one go.
"I was doing a project and with the character the producers were coming up with what they wanted to do for her hair," she recalled. "And they were like, 'She's beautiful, sophisticated, and professional.' I was like, 'Well, I want to wear braids.' And and they were like, 'Well, I mean, she's beautiful, sophisticated, and corporate America.' I responded, 'Yes, and specifically I want twists.' And they went on to say, 'We just really want her to look more polished.' I said, 'You all really don't understand what are we talking about here?'"
She continued, "The idea that how you wear your hair somehow relates to your character, your intelligence, or your wokeness is bullsh*t."
In an essay she wrote for Glamour earlier this year, Gabrielle got real about her struggle to embrace her natural hair at an early age. After 20 years of her hair "being used and abused," she knows what makes her happy. "I've finally gotten to a place of self-acceptance and recognizing that my natural hair is beautiful - and so is whatever weave I may wear," she wrote. "I'm perfectly happy rocking an Afro puff, my French braids, Senegalese twists, a faux-hawk, or an ombré wig, or heat-styling my natural hair with extensions . . . and that makes me a happy person in my life."
Awaken the Force (and the Relaxation!) With These Star Wars Bath Bombs
A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away, the most perfect bath bombs ever existed. Hah, just kidding - they exist right here, right now on Etsy, which is currently flooded with a boatload of Star Wars-inspired bath fizzies.
Thanks to all the hype surrounding the release of Star Wars: The Last Jedi, we've been blessed with tons of Yoda-approved beauty products that pay homage to the film, from a capsule collection by Cargo Cosmetics to adorable Lip Smacker balms in the shape of our favorite characters. The homemade bath bombs of Etsy, however, may be our favorite under-the-radar option for showing our devotion to the film series, all while unwinding in our tubs.
Ahead, see and shop the coolest Star Wars bath bombs we could find. You'll be the cleanest and most relaxed Jedi in the whole galaxy after lathering it up with these cute products
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