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17 "Ugly Christmas Sweaters" That Are Actually Really Cute
Let's get one thing straight: nobody actually wants to look ugly at the ugly-Christmas-sweater party. The goal is to look festive and appropriately attired without trying too hard - and while still looking cute enough to mix and a-mingle during "Jingle Bell Rock." That's a tall order, but it's nothing one of these sweaters can't help you accomplish. From the bold sparkle on one very cool ASOS pullover to some serious Christmas cheer on a sweet gingerbread-faced knit, these are merry and bright and decidedly cool.
- Additional reporting by Maggie Panos
19 Winter Outfit Ideas That'll Get You Through 2018 and Beyond in Absolute Style
Dressing up for the Winter is an absolute struggle. Trust me, I feel you. But I wouldn't let a little snow and wind put a damper on your mood, especially when it comes to choosing an outfit. While you may want to bundle up in a full-on snowsuit à la A Christmas Story, there are other ways you can look cute without getting frostbite. Need a couple of outfit ideas? Scroll on to look at 19 options we can't wait to try in 2019.
40 Ways to Wear Your Ankle Boots This Fall, Plus the Pairs Worth Shopping For
While you probably own a fair number of ankle boots - or booties, as you might refer to them - it's time to upgrade your closet. This year's fresh trends mean updated silhouettes like cowboy boots, and there are so many outfit ideas that come with just this one shape alone. So imagine the possibilities ahead when we tell you we've gathered looks across the board that are grounded with all types of ankle boots. Some have lucite heels or come in animal print, some are metallic, and some have unexpected buckles, studs, or cutouts. If you do already own a pair you love, after you read on, you'll have countless new ways to wear them. And if all this inspiration brings on the shopping itch, we've rounded up our favorite styles available now.
Whip Out That Wish List! 25 Gorgeous Gifts From Kate Spade NY
I love Kate Spade New York so much, it's pretty much all I think about during the holidays. The brand's chic bags, statement earrings, and sparkly purses are perfect accessories for the season. Whether you're hunting for gifts or just treating yourself, take a look at our selection of the most dazzling pieces worthy of your attention ahead. Feast your eyes on all the pretty little things.
The Most Iconic Royal Gym Clothes, From Meghan's Nike Sneakers to Princess Diana's Biker Shorts
In recent history, you might remember Meghan Markle heading to the gym in a pair of Nike Cortez sneakers days before her wedding. But Princess Diana made biker shorts, trainers with high socks, and crewneck sweatshirts look street style cool way before that. In fact, Princess Di's workout attire would fit right in with our own today. Kate Middleton, on the other hand, runs around in functional footwear and tracksuits any chance she gets, and Princess Eugenie and Princess Beatrice seem to be fans of constructing slick running outfits too. Ahead, reminisce about some of our favorite moments when the royals put a stylish twist on sporty.
Gigi Hadid's Jeans Are Basic in the Front, Sophisticated in the Back
Gigi Hadid was apparently "feelin' extra fresh" while heading to her second fitting for the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. The supermodel, who will be joining her sister Bella and BFF Kendall Jenner on the runway, was spotted wearing what we thought was a simple pair of jeans at first.
Gigi styled a white turtleneck Wolford bodysuit with a cozy Tod's jacket and Giuseppe Zanotti leopard-print boots. (She actually wore this exact coat while walking in the Tod's show back in February.)
The starlet completed her outfit with a two-toned pair of jeans from Monse, which featured a sophisticated plaid print on the back. Read on to see all angles of her cool denim, and buy the exact pair, as well as similar styles, if you're feeling inspired to give the trend a try.
The Only 6 Outerwear Pieces You Need For Winter - All For Less Than $100 at Kohl's
As we shop for the perfect outerwear pieces for Winter, our biggest priority is to find something both stylish and affordable. Luckily, Kohl's has a ton of cute picks that won't break the bank. From plaid blazers to velvet puffers and even an on-trend teddy coat, the store is offering some covetable designs. The best part? Everything comes in at under $100, so maybe you can get two! Keep reading to shop our favorite picks of the season.
The 21 Hottest Statement Earrings For This Holiday Season - All Under $50
Taking your outfit from ordinary to special is easier than you think - all you have to do is add some earrings. This season, there are so many statement-making choices filled with sparkle and color. If you need a little guidance, we rounded up our favorite options, which look fabulous with party dresses as well as jeans. Santa, are you listening?
How to Wear the Most Flattering Pants on Earth, Which You're Probably Totally Afraid Of
When you describe the paper bag pant out loud - all bunched up at the waist with a loose fitting leg - it doesn't sound all that flattering. And maybe that's why women continue to reach for their trusty old mom jeans. But we're about to prove that the paper bag silhouette is not to be knocked. In fact, it's got an extremely flattering cut. The cinch tie accentuates your waist and creates a long, lean shape.
If you choose a design that's smartly tailored in a quality fabric, you'll feel so confident that you'll probably replace your tight-fitting, cropped trousers with these instead. Whether you like free-flowing silk or something with a bit more structure, we rounded up some styles we think you should try on for size, and we're also recommending the perfect outfits to style them out.
9 Ways to Get In on the Sock Boot Trend - and Where to Buy Them
You're probably familiar with the sock boot trend, especially with supermodels like Gigi Hadid rocking them on the regular - her favorites happen to be Stuart Weitzman's Clinger boots, and she's actually the brand ambassador. Fast fashion retailers like Zara have also offered up plenty of affordable variations of the stylish boot. If you're wondering how to style the boot, we've gathered a little outfit inspiration from street style stars. Read on to see how to wear the boots, and shop some of our favorite selects ahead.
22 Trendy Fashion Gifts You'll Secretly Want to Keep All For Yourself
So you have a friend who's up to date with the latest trends? Well, shopping for her will be super easy because those items are readily available across all price points. Whether she has her eyes on a chic bag or a statement boot this holiday season, you know getting her something from her must-have list will be much appreciated.
There is one shopping tip to note: fashion girls love to rock the season's trends, but with personalized twists. So while you're picking out that gift, think about her unique color taste and design preferences. We'll help you get started by selecting 22 items perfect for any trend-driven gal out there. And if you happen to be shopping for yourself, go on and choose a few treats.
- Additional reporting by Marina Liao
Priyanka Chopra's Sexiest Shoes Will Probably Make Even Nick Jonas Sweat
In case you haven't noticed, Priyanka Chopra's shoe collection is fire. The actress has a way of choosing the sexiest shoes to go with her outfits. Whether she's wearing a pair of white buckled sandals on a date night with Nick Jonas or she's attending an event in a bustier minidress and PVC heels, the actress has no shortage of amazing shoes. She even wore a sleek pair of nude heels to go with her feathered bridal shower dress! Want to see what we're talking about? Keep reading to take a look at her 10 best looks and shop out similar styles for your shoe rotation.
I Was Always the Girl in the Camel Coat - Until I Found This $58 Pink Puffer
Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with a camel coat. Aside from the fact that it'll go with virtually every pair of shoes, every bag, every scarf, and every hat you own in the Winter, there's a slim chance it'll ever go out of style. But this season, the "go on and be bold!" bug began to bite, and something told me I should start with my outerwear.
My eyes lit up at the glorious rainbow offerings from Aritzia when I stopped by the brand's preview, but for some reason, I didn't pull the trigger - not yet, anyway. I waited and waited, until I laid eyes on the POPSUGAR at Kohl's November drop and I singled out the Velvet Puffer in 0.5 seconds.
There's something about the subtle sheen that quiets down the sugary effect of this cherry blossom shade. It's soft to the touch and ridiculously warm, and the snap buttons make it a very easy jacket for layering. It rings up on sale at $58, and it's also offered in extended sizing, which I like even more. When I tried it on, I didn't want to take it off.
I thought about how I could glamorize it with drop earrings and a clutch over a dress for a night out. I pictured myself sporting it with yoga pants, tall socks, and trainers on the weekend. Open with overalls and a turtleneck for Sunday brunch? You betcha.
If it's not completely obvious to you at this point that I've switched over to "the dark side" and now own one of the chicest puffers on the street, just read on to see how cozy and happy I look wearing it, and join my pink parade.
The 1 Pair of Combat Boots Gigi, Hailey, and Kaia Swear By
There's a reason why Dr. Martens is so well known. The English brand, which started all the way back in 1947, is more relevant than ever, with models like Gigi Hadid, Hailey Baldwin, and Kaia Gerber making the brand's combat boots a seasonless wardrobe staple.
If you've been wondering how to give the edgy boots a try, we've got you covered. Whether you style a stark white pair with plaid pants or toughen up your classic black boots with a leather jacket, there are countless ways to wear 'em. Keep reading to get inspired by these 20 unique outfit ideas. Then, shop some of our favorite picks ahead.
These Are the Biggest Bridal Trends For Fall 2019, and We're Already Swooning
When you finally get asked that big question, chances are you'll immediately start dreaming up your ideal wedding dress. If you're not sure where to begin or feel overwhelmed by what to choose, we're breaking down the biggest bridal trends for Fall 2019. Taking a look at these five wearable trends will help you decide. From ethereal embroidery to devastatingly sexy necklines, there's truly something for every bride. Read on to take a look at our helpful guide ahead.
5 Ways the Mixed-Bag Midterms Represented Real Change
The midterm elections on Tuesday, Nov. 6, were nothing short of historic. We saw Democrats reclaim control of the House for the first time in eight years, and several candidates across the country delivered historic wins for diverse representation. From the first Native American women - including the first LGBTQ+ Native American woman - elected to the House, to the youngest women ever elected to Congress, to the first openly gay US governor, the midterm elections reflected key progress for inclusivity. For the first time ever, more than 100 women have been elected to Congress, and that number could very well go up; as of the morning of Nov. 7, races are still being decided.
These victories amount to a Congress that looks more like our increasingly diverse nation. When white men comprise just 32 percent of the US population, there's no reason for them to hold 65 percent of all elected offices, and because of last night, we're closer to achieving parity. As a result of the historic victories of women and diverse candidates, powered in no uncertain terms by an influx of female volunteers and grassroots donors, we can be certain to see change.
That's because there are concrete, documented differences between female legislators and their male counterparts, from the issues they're more likely to work on to their levels of productivity. Female legislators on average introduce and pass nearly double the number of bills of male legislators, while primarily focusing on key, too-often-neglected domestic issues like health care, education, and civil rights. Frankly, female legislators' ability as candidates to overcome all the sexist barriers and hurdles that male candidates don't face lead to many female legislators being more skilled and tenacious in general. In a country where white male Republicans have been responsible for an estimated 75 percent of antichoice legislation in state legislatures, the election of more - and Democratic - women could be pivotal to protecting key women's rights, in an era fraught with uncertainty from the Supreme Court composition.
Here are some of the most impactful wins for diversity and American women from the midterm elections.
Hey, Jet-Setters: Travel Smarter With These Convenient Tech Cases
Keeping everything organized and in one place while traveling is tough, especially when it comes to bringing tech accessories on the go. Charger cords and headphones, especially, get tangled up, misplaced, and in the way of everything. Trust us: we have all been there.
So how do you keep all the parts and pieces together and your valuable tech gear protected? Check out these tech cases that make traveling easier, and get going!
Travel tech-savvy wherever your trips might take you.
Bippity Boppity Boo, This Disney Princess Wedding Is a Dream Come True!
Life is not a fairy tale - but your wedding can be one. Photographer Yohanna Wendt decided to put together the perfect Disney-princess-styled wedding shoot, featuring an ensemble cast inspired by all the classic Disney princesses. Even the setting was fit for royalty: the shoot took place in an actual castle! Yes, these stunning photos were taken at The Ashley Castle in Chandler, AZ.
Disney fans will appreciate the level of detail that went into this breathtaking bridal shoot. For instance, Princess Jasmine's jeweled headpiece and classic banded bubble braid ponytail make her look straight out of Aladdin. Princess Aurora's light-pink gown is a more subtle nod to Sleeping Beauty. Despite each princess having a different look, they all look stunning together, too, for one cohesive and beautiful wedding shoot. "Disney princesses in real life need the perfect venue and dress for their once-in-a-lifetime wedding day! Dreams do come true when you have all the right pieces come together to showcase the love that is blossoming in your life," said Yohanna. We couldn't agree more.
Keep reading to see the dreamy shoot.
Why Calling It Cannabis, Not Marijuana, Is So Powerful
The following post was originally published on Miss Grass.
At the risk of patronizing you, dear reader, I implore you to never use that word again. It's "cannabis" to refer to the plant. And now, more than ever, it's important to get that much right. The bad "marijuana" juju runs deep.
For one, referring to the plant as "marijuana" is scientifically inaccurate. There's no such thing as a marijuana plant. And though "cannabis" and "marijuana" continue to be used interchangeably - even in official capacities - they are not the same thing.
The cannabis plant renders in three ways: herb, hashish, and hash oil. Marijuana refers to the herb form - the dried flowers and leaves with which you roll a joint or pack a bowl. But the more experimental you get with your cannabis consumption, the more you stray from what technically qualifies as marijuana.
But the more significant reason we don't use the word "marijuana" has nothing at all to do with science and everything to do with history, civil rights, and the case for reparations.
"Marijuana" began as a Mexican folk name for cannabis. But it was first popularized in the US by the notoriously racist publishing magnate William Randolph Hearst. You might recognize Hearst's name because it's his empire that still publishes titles like Cosmopolitan, Elle, Marie Claire, Esquire, O Magazine and many others.
At some point, Hearst saw the growing cannabis industry as a threat to his timber investments and decided to orchestrate a nationwide and categorically vicious campaign to wipe it out. His propaganda took to the pages of major American newspapers, telling hideous and wholly untrue stories about people of color committing horrific acts of violence under the influence of cannabis.
He took advantage of a predominantly held racist public opinion at the time. Ultimately, with the help of a bureaucrat named Harry Anslinger, the two men galvanized the federal prohibition of cannabis in 1937 and, eventually, its Schedule 1 classification. Then came Richard Nixon's War on Drugs, the killing of millions, the incarceration of millions more, and the families torn apart.
Throughout it all, "marijuana" became synonymous with evil. And to this day, it persists.
In 2016 alone, almost 600,000 people were arrested in the US for cannabis. That's more people than all other violent crimes combined. And the vast majority of those were for low-level possession, mostly by minorities. Despite statistics that show different races use cannabis at roughly the same rate, minorities are much more likely to be arrested and punished. In fact, between 2001 and 2010, African Americans were arrested for cannabis possession at roughly four times the rate of whites.
It is people of color who bear the burden of the War on Drugs still. The hangover from Hearst and Anslinger's campaigns continue to stymie legalization efforts. And use of the word "marijuana" only perpetuates a narrative that cannabis is a dangerous, addictive substance.
As editor-in-chief of Miss Grass, I've wondered how to tackle the racist history of cannabis. I sit on the privileged side of it all. As a white woman, the fact that I comfortably exist at the frontlines of this greenrush is not lost on me. Who am I to speak about this? And where to begin?
I can begin at the beginning. I can begin with the basics. I can read and ask questions and share what I've learned. I can be open to being told that I got it wrong and correct my mistakes. I can help to build the table and save the seats. I can embrace my civic duty to fight back against what I know to be untrue. I can stand up for the rights of those who have made this moment possible. I can shine a light on the real story, however ugly. And I can work toward a future that is both inclusive and honest.
And so can you.
If the goal is to take back the magic of this plant - and it is! - let us build this foundation of real material. And to do that, let us begin at the beginning: with the words we choose.
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Transgender Military Veteran Laila Ireland: "We Just Want to Be Like Everyone Else"
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When Laila Villanueva began serving in the US Army in late 2003, she had not yet come out as a transgender person. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was in full effect. In order to serve, she'd have to hide her truth. The decision to join the military came from a long tradition of service in her family; her father, grandfather, and great-grandfather all had done the same. "It was a no-brainer for me growing up," she told POPSUGAR over the phone in late October. "I had kind of suppressed the desire to express myself as effeminate, as a woman. I made that sacrifice because I wanted to be part of this legacy."
Villanueva, now Ireland (she married Senior Airman Logan Ireland in 2016), went on to serve in the Army for 12 years before medically retiring in 2015. In that time, she was able to witness the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" - she does note, though, that the repeal only really applied to sexuality and not gender identity. She also made a life-changing decision: to come out, to own her identity, and to participate in a revolutionary documentary that could put her entire career, her family, and her life at risk.
In 2012, codirectors Gabriel Silverman and Fiona Dawson began to chronicle the lives of four transgender military service members. TransMilitary focuses on those who, in addition to risking their lives for our country, must fight for the right to serve openly with their authentic gender identity. Both Villanueva and Logan Ireland are featured subjects, along with Captain Jennifer Peace and First Lieutenant El Cook. The documentary will air on Logo TV on Thursday, Nov. 15, at 8 p.m. Watch the full trailer for TransMilitary below, then join us as we discuss why the timing couldn't be more perfect.
POPSUGAR: I'm curious about your own journey. Were you able to find your footing OK as a transgender soldier? Were you able to foster respect among your peers?
Laila Ireland: I endured going to basic training and being among all males and doing part of that journey. But once I got out of basic training and schooling for my particular job, I found camaraderie among other service members. What I learned about being in the military was that every person that was on the team that I was part of came from a different background. They came from different cultures, they came from different lifestyles, and everyone celebrated those differences. We brought something different to the table, and that's what made up our team and that's what makes us successful is that we were all different, very unique.
Part of doing this film and being a part of this movement was that it was an understanding that no one else is going to step up to talk about these things. So I made a sacrifice, understanding that if no one else is going to do it, who is? And I was willing to sacrifice my career, my livelihood with my family, everything that I had built up for in my service. I was willing to sacrifice that for people like me who will come after me, to be able to serve openly, to have a smooth process being in the military, and just having the same camaraderie and family.
"We just want people to see that we are people too. We have jobs. We go and do them every day, just like anyone else. We're very regular. We just want to be like everyone else."
PS: That's so incredible.
LI: Thank you. Fiona Dawson and Gabriel Silverman and Jamie Coughlin were able to capture the moments that really made sense to people in general. And what you'll find in this documentary is that it's really relatable. We try not to talk about politics. We just want people to see that we are people too. We have jobs. We go and do them every day, just like anyone else. We're very regular. We just want to be like everyone else. We have families who have the fears of their children growing up and what they're going to turn out to be and what they're going to do with their lives. This is a film that really highlights those things.
I feel like I can speak on behalf of the rest of the cast members in the film. Our families are very supportive. We are very lucky to have that. Not everyone in the LGBT community is afforded that same opportunity, the same support, during a transition or during just the journey of coming out. And so we're very fortunate.
PS: Well, first of all, thank you for your bravery in serving in the military and for your bravery in putting yourself out there for this project. When you started this project, I'm sure you couldn't have imagined how things would be in 2018, right? I'm curious how it feels to kind of be able to put this project forward in such a divided time and such a scary time.
LI: Thank you for asking that question. I think it's important to remember, even though TransMilitary talks specifically about transgender people in the military, this is not about the transgender movement. It's about just humanity in general. And like you said, we live in a very troubling, very scary time, but when I go out and talk to audiences, I always talk about living of different intersectionalities of my life. Being a person of color, being a transwoman, being a veteran, being [an] Asian-American Pacific Islander, being Hispanic. Just all these things.
The film's premiere on television is extremely important and couldn't come at a better time. We are at the forefront of this fight for equality, for the right to exist. And by sharing our stories and our struggles and obstacles and being visible, not only are we writing history, but we're creating it to be shared in the future by our future. I believe in and have fought for an America that was built on diversity, where everyone is treated with dignity and respect, regardless who they love, how they identify, and how they pray. It is important that we tell our stories, that we impart the language of the forces, that we represent and uplift. This is the reality that we choose, and we want to show the world that these actions truly have a larger impact for our success as people - every step, every word, every action.
PS: I think the general attitude is that this sort of oppression and attack on rights and attack on bodies, it's been happening for a long time. It's only just now that the general public is aware of it, right? Even though there are still atrocities happening every day, are you glad that at least it's becoming a national conversation?
LI: Absolutely. If you really look at it, we haven't really moved that far forward from African-Americans having equal rights. We haven't really moved really much forward from women having equal rights. It just seems like we're moving backwards. It baffles me. It's so crazy that we're still living in this time and we're still fighting for it. But again, this big thing now is we've awoken a sleeping giant . . . the conversation that has always been there. But now they are seeing like, "OK, they're really coming. Now what do we do?" Yes, it's scary, but wake up, people. It's happening. The time is now.
PS: What do you do on the days when you feel like it's kind of an unwinnable battle?
LI: Those days have come so often that oftentimes I have to just go home, sit back, and let everything sink in and see what my next move is going to be. I'm only one person, and if I can inspire other people . . . I'm doing the work, right?
In short, I guess, sometimes it is really tough. It's been overwhelmingly crazy. To kind of just sit back and look at everything and say, "Am I doing enough?" But I'm absolutely reassured by the people that I speak with or just by telling my story. The response that I get over social media or just in general in person - people that I never thought would otherwise even think about wanting to care about such a subject are reaching out and saying, "I'm so sorry."
People that I never have spoken to or have never met in my life have reached out on social media to say, "Hey, I'm checking on you. How are you? How are you doing? Is everything OK? I saw what happened in the news. This is a thing, and I'm sorry that this is happening." These are people that I have never met. So it just reassures me that what I'm doing is good, and it keeps me motivated, and it keeps me driven.
PS: Sounds like, on the darkest days, you just look for the light spots wherever you can.
LI: I do. Yeah. You just have to.
PS: Do you think that we'll ever be able to change the minds of the people who we perceive to be against us, on the opposite side of us?
LI: I truly believe that we are doing that. We are changing hearts and minds. What we see that is portrayed in the media is often people having reactionary participation in and influenced by what's going on on social media, right? But the majority of people are understanding. They are loving . . . I don't think it's something that we are wasting our time on. We have to be visible in order for change to happen. We have to create the world that we want to see and be in. [My husband, Logan Ireland,] and I want to raise a family, and we didn't want our kids to come into this world how it is now. We want them to be able to be free and express themselves the way that they want without having any consequence to it. We just want them to be able to just be and be happy, and so we have to continue the work.
PS: What can we do today to make a better tomorrow?
That's the question, right? What can we do? If we just live in the community, I think we have learned everything that we need to know when we were in kindergarten. Be nice to others, treat others how you want to be treated, share your things, right? These are fundamental things that we learn in kindergarten. But when it comes to such movements in this current climate, I think the best thing to do is speak up when something is wrong, obviously within reason. We want people to be safe. We want people to be able to react in such a way that helps other people without harming them even more.
It's sitting and listening to people tell their stories, and to hear the other side. It's easy to react and respond when emotions and opinions are heated. It really is just easy, but it's even harder to sit there and really try to understand someone, whether you agree with them or not. I think it's important to really understand people for who they are. And love them as you would love your brother or your mother or your father, even love them as your own. And when time calls for people to react as a whole, as a society, definitely choose to be on the right side of history. We don't want to go backwards because what happens when we go backwards is that we have to do even more work.
I think the generation now is just leading us to the front. These young kids are leading us to the front of what needs to be the next evolution. And I'm happy to be a part of that. I really am.
The Meaning of Diwali and How I Do It My Own Way
As an Indian-American who grew up celebrating Diwali every year, I've never quite been able to explain it in a sentence. I've described it to non-Indian friends as "the Christmas of India," in that it's the largest and most widely recognized national holiday. I've also called it "the Festival of Lights," since many celebrate light diyas, or clay lamps, to welcome Lakshmi, the Goddess of Wealth, into their homes to be blessed with wealth and prosperity.
The author and her mother celebrating Diwali 2016 at Sri Bhaktha Anjaneya Temple in Frederick, MD.
But the truth is, unlike Christmas or Hanukkah - both widely celebrated across the US during this season - Diwali is a shape-shifting holiday. There are hundreds of holidays on the Hindu calendar, and Diwali is the biggest. Different people from different places of origin or religion celebrate it on different days, in different ways. Sometimes it's a four-day festival, sometimes five.
Diwali is a shape-shifting holiday. Different people from different places of origin or religion celebrate it on different days, in different ways.
According to National Geographic, Hindus interpret the Diwali story based on where they live. In Northern India, they mark the story of King Rama's return to Ayodhya after he defeated Ravana by lighting rows of clay lamps - part of the mythological story told in the famous work The Ramayana. In Southern India, people celebrate it as the day Lord Krishna defeated the demon Narakasura (also based on mythology). Meanwhile, in Jainism, another religion, Diwali marks the nirvana or spiritual awakening of Lord Mahavira. And for Sikhs, it celebrates the day a major guru was freed from imprisonment.
Here in the US in 2006, Kelly Kapoor (played by Mindy Kaling) hilariously celebrated Diwali on The Office with her coworkers. This writer explains why she thinks this episode works as a good starter representation of Indian culture in Hollywood (and I agree). But after watching "Diwali," we still don't know what it really means to more than a billion people who celebrate it in India and around the world. And perhaps that's a lofty place to start, but why not?
The author in New Delhi, India, circa 2000, celebrating Diwali with family and neighbors.
When a tradition with such diverse and complex origins is transported by a generation of Indian people to places like the United States - where an intersection of cultures, experiences, and influences flourishes - Diwali gets deconstructed, DIYd, mashed up, and remixed. Some universal markers of Diwali are setting off fireworks and sparklers, meant to express joy on earth to the gods in the heavens; the exchange and sharing of sweets, because why not; and the painting of a beautiful rangoli on the front doorstep to welcome Lakshmi and good fortune. It's a time for religious and spiritual reflection, for sharing and celebration. It is a colorful and festive start to a new year. Increasingly, it is very commercial. But like many, I borrow what is meaningful to me about the holiday I grew up with and create my own metaphors for each of these acts.
Diwali gets deconstructed, DIYd, mashed up, and remixed.
To me, the taste of Diwali is sweet and savory: homemade masala dosas, laddus (a popular Indian sweet), and a variety of other sweets and snacks, eaten all together for breakfast. The tradition in South India, where my family is from, is to wear something new for Diwali. My mom will collect and place these clothing items inside a small altar at home to be "blessed" by Lakshmi before we put them on. She will have a puja, or ceremony, to receive those blessings. The house would be lit with oil lamps, the front doorstep painted in colorful powder, and we would play classical Indian music performed on a nadhaswaram, a traditional Indian reed instrument. All of this would happen before I headed off to school, since I didn't take a day off for the holiday. In the Indian community where I grew up in Maryland, many people were from Northern India, and my family was from the South. This meant that even within the Indian community, the way my family celebrated Diwali was different. (I also loved how my mom was willing to break the law for Diwali by setting off "pattas," or fireworks, in my suburban Maryland neighborhood!)
Today, if I can't celebrate with my family, I try to approximate Diwali with a dinner out with friends in New York. My sister and I will travel to Jackson Heights, Queens - a melting pot of a neighborhood with a large Indian population - to buy fun Diwali tchotchkes (think clay lamps, small shiny statues of Ganesh and Lakshmi, and boxes of sweets) to share with our non-Indian friends who join us, in hopes of unlocking the mysteries of the holiday for themselves. There's no puja or religious aspect, but there is a feeling of renewal and connection.
A sweets shop in Jackson Heights, Queens, New York.
I've never had access to a hard and fast explanation of what Diwali is, and perhaps that's a function of holidays themselves. As future generations become more diverse, multifaceted, multiracial, and multilayered - and our identities find their origins from across oceans, cultures, religions, and stories - we will continue to build our own ways of celebrating these rich traditions. Right now, in America, it feels like a vital time to remember our roots in the ways that are most meaningful - and fun - to us.
15 Different and Fun Places to Spend the Holidays That Aren't Disney
Holiday traditions often leave families staying in (or visiting) the same place year after year. But what if you just want to get away? Use your kids' time off from school for a family vacation? Not deal with the stress of entertaining and keeping your house clean? Luckily, there are a ton of festive destinations you can escape to this holiday season that aren't the ever-popular Disney parks. From the city that never sleeps to the city that's known for chocolate, there are lots of great places across the US that you should add to your holiday vacation bucket list. If you're ready to unlock a different kind of magic this year, keep reading.
Attention, Snow Shredders: Hit the Slopes at the Top Ski Destinations Trending This Winter
Bring on the twinkling lights, festive music, and just about anything pumpkin flavored. The arrival of the holiday season usually delivers frosty temperatures along with it, and you know what that means, adventure-seeking travelers. It's nearly time to bust out the ski gear and hit the slopes! To help you decide which mountain to conquer this Winter season, we're bringing you the top trending ski destinations for the 2018 holiday season and into the new year, according to data from travel search engine Kayak. Fresh powder, here we come!
This Winter, Escape to 1 of These Awesome (and Affordable) Travel Destinations Across the US
If the thought of hibernating inside all Winter long makes you shiver, it's time to start planning your escape for when cold weather comes. And thanks to its massive size - 3.8 million square miles, to be exact - and incredible diversity, America is certainly the hot spot when it comes to wintertime travel. No matter if you're looking to flee the piles of snow or flock to them, this country oozes with adventure for every type of wanderer. So go ahead, pack your bags. We've combed through each state and listed an array of dazzling destinations, guaranteed to satisfy your bubbling wanderlust. All you have to do is decide which place to choose first!
Um, I'm Pretty Sure "Game of Phones" Will Be My New Favorite Party Activity
If everyone's going to have their phone at a party, why not make a game out of it, right? That's the idea behind Game of Phones ($20), a clever card game and scavenger hunt of sorts. The deck comes with 100 cards featuring funny, creative prompts for the group. Think: "Send a message to your parents. First reply wins." Or: "Create an emoji masterpiece." Or: "Most cracked screen wins this card." For even more prompts, you can buy expansion sets for $5, including a Creative Pack ("Write a reply in a message thread that you would never send") and the Materialism Pack ("Find a product released in the decade you were born"), which is exclusive to Uncommon Goods. The Game of Phones would make a great stocking stuffer for just about anyone - a friend, a sibling, even that teenage cousin who's impossible to buy for.
Check out more details about the game below, then shop more stocking stuffers, including fun picks for Game of Thrones fans.
30 Sparkly Gifts For the Glitter-Obsessed Girl
All that glitters may not be gold, but we don't really care, because sparkles are better anyway. We're not ashamed to say that we're drawn to shiny stuff like moths to a flame. There are plenty of other girls out there who would cover their bodies in glitter daily if they could, but unfortunately that's not office appropriate. Instead, we rounded up every sparkly gift we could find so that your glitter-obsessed friends can shine bright like a diamond all day every day. Check out all the products that would make Kesha and Elton John proud.
We Weren't Ready For the Genius That Is Oprah's Favorite Tech Gifts
Did you hear? The 2018 list of Oprah's Favorite Things is officially out, and we're lusting after all the crazy cool tech gadgets. She's thought of everything from electric bikes to smartphone safety devices, because of course she has. She's Oprah. If you're looking for the ultimate gift this holiday season, why not turn to Oprah's picks? And the best part? Every single one of these tech gifts is available on Amazon, so they can be yours in just two days.
I Didn't Marry My "Dream Guy," but I Couldn't Be Happier
When I first met my husband, we were just a couple of 14-year-old freshmen in a sophomore-level math class. You would have thought we would have sat together in class like most kids the same age and grade would have done, but to be honest - and this is something I am definitely not proud of - I was a pretty shallow teenage girl back then, and I wanted nothing to do with him.
Throughout high school, my husband was a geek to the core. He was skinny and had braces and acne. He was incredibly intelligent and obsessed with Star Wars. His hair was never styled. I can still remember how his shaggy brown hair covered his eyes and ears. His clothes also lacked style. All I can ever remember him wearing were jeans that were way too tight for him and silly Far Side shirts. He was not my type at all.
I was a pretty shallow teenage girl back then, and I wanted nothing to do with him.
About a month before senior year ended, my husband and I somehow found ourselves in the same group of friends. His appearance and style pretty much looked the same as it did four years ago, but for the first time, I started noticing his personality. The boy was funny - as in super funny. He had a great sense of humor, and he could make me laugh like nobody else ever could. When I was getting ready for school in the morning, I looked forward to seeing him. After school, I found myself smiling just thinking about the way he made me laugh so hard earlier that day.
As we spent more time together during lunch, I learned more about him, and the more I learned, the more I liked about him. He had such a genuinely sweet and kind heart, and I couldn't get enough of him. At the time, it was hard for me to admit that I was falling for him, and I denied it to my friends. But deep down, I knew I had a crush on the boy I wouldn't have given the time of day to four years prior.
He asked me to the school dance, the very last dance of high school for us, and I said yes. We began dating, and the rest is history! We were married seven years later, which is a memorable day that will remain in my heart forever. I'll never forget how handsome he looked in his tuxedo as I walked down the church's aisle toward him - the boy I initially never thought would end up being the man of my dreams.
We recently celebrated our 10-year anniversary. My husband is still a huge geek, and I absolutely love him for it. He even turned me into a bit of a geek as well. I am so glad that I was able to let go of my shallow teenage girl ways in time to come to my senses back in high school and see my husband for who he really is: a funny, smart, sweet, and kind soul who can still make me laugh like no other and make my heart feel completely filled with love.
Prince Harry Shared What It Was Like to Ask Prince Charles to Walk Meghan Down the Aisle
Prince Harry shared a behind-the-scenes detail about his wedding day with Meghan Markle, but this one has to do with Prince Charles. During an interview for BBC One's documentary Prince, Son and Heir: Charles at 70, Harry opens up about the sweet response he received from his dad when asked to walk Meghan down the aisle.
ICYMI, back in May there was quite a bit of controversy surrounding who would fill that role at the royal wedding. Speculation circled over who would accompany Meghan when her father, Thomas Markle, announced he would not be attending the wedding after experiencing a health scare and a photo scandal surfaced. According to People, during the documentary Harry reveals what Charles said when approached with the task.
"I asked him to and I think he knew it was coming and he immediately said, 'Yes, of course, I'll do whatever Meghan needs and I'm here to support you" Harry recalled. "For him that's a fantastic opportunity to step up and be that support, and you know he's our father so of course he's gonna be there for us."
Aw! Charles stepped up to the plate to be there for his son and daughter-in-law, and it's likely this kind gesture made his bond with Meghan even closer. Tune into BBC One on Nov. 8 for the full documentary, a rare peek into the famous royal's life.
Deep Breaths! Looks Like Ariana Grande Teased Her Fifth Album Tracklist in New Music Video
Ariana Grande is the musical gift that keeps on giving. From her emotional "Thank U, Next" performance to her brand-new "Breathin'" music video, fans have been treated to a healthy dose of the 25-year-old singer's powerhouse talent recently. But wait . . . there's more! Eagle-eyed viewers have a very specific question on their minds after watching Grande's video: did she use the opportunity to tease the tracklist of her next album? It sure looks like it.
In the video, Grande makes her way through a crowded bus station, and for a brief moment, the departure board shows three possible song titles: "Needy," "Remember," and "Imagine." The names of these rumored tracks have been swirling around since before Grande's video dropped, and she has even shared a couple of snippets of "Needy" on her Instagram Story. This isn't the first time she's teased tracks in this way, either - her Sweetener tracklist was hidden within the "No Tears Left to Cry" video too. Leave it to Ms. Grande to keep us on our toes till the end of 2018. That's why her ponytail is so tight; it's full of secrets.
The Spice Girls Get Straight to Work Spicing Up Our Lives After Announcing Their Reunion Tour
Fresh from finally making the announcement we've all be waiting for, the Spice Girls (minus Victoria) got straight to work on the promotional circuit. Melanie Chisholm, Melanie Brown, and Geri Horner were spotted making their way to the studios of Heart Radio, where their bandmate Emma Bunton cohosts the morning show with Jamie Theakston. After dancing their way through the halls, the trio were joined by Emma for an interview, with Jamie grilling them on tour details, the possibility of a new album, and whether Victoria might make a surprise appearance at one of the concerts next year (short answer: probably not, no matter how much Mel B tries to make it happen). Keep reading to see what happened in what is sure to be the first of many memorable Spice Girls interviews over the next few months.
37 Photos of the Spice Girls Hanging Out That Prove Their Friendship Will Viva Forever
Our prayers have finally been answered: the Spice Girls are spicing up our lives again and going on tour! After much speculation, Melanie Brown, Emma Bunton, Geri Horner, and Melanie Chisholm confirmed once and for all on Monday that they'll be hitting the road for a UK stadium tour in 2019. Sadly, Victoria Beckham won't be joining them this time around, but that doesn't mean the ladies aren't still close. It's quite the opposite, actually. Following the announcement, the fashion designer shared her excitement over the news on Instagram, wishing them "so much love and fun as they go back on tour." And that's just the tip of the iceberg! The women have shared so many sweet moments together since their 2000 split, further proving that friendship never ends.
Selena Gomez Has Reportedly Left Rehab After Completing Treatment For Her Emotional Issues
Selena Gomez has left rehab after completing treatment for her "ongoing emotional issues." According to E! News, the 26-year-old singer "is out of her treatment program in NYC" and is doing "much better." Selena was hospitalized twice in October for a low white blood cell count, a possible side effect of her kidney transplant, and suffered a panic attack, which led to her treatment.
She is reportedly feeling "refreshed and is in a better head space." Selena will apparently "still be checking in with professionals as her health battle is ongoing" and "wants to lay low for a while and isn't ready to go full force into working yet."
Selena has been open and honest about her mental health issues in the past and entered treatment for anxiety and depression this past February. We're wishing Selena all the best as she focuses on her recovery.
Chris Pine on His Outlaw King Nude Scene: "It's No Fassbender Situation"
If you don't think Chris Pine is the best Hollywood Chris, then hopefully this truly delightful video featuring the Outlaw King actor discussing his much-buzzed-about nude scene in the upcoming historical drama will convince you. If it doesn't, I reserve the right to classify you as a sociopath from this point on. But I digress!
While sitting down with BBC Radio 1 film critic Ali Plumb for a discussion about the movies that "made" him - Star Trek, Wonder Woman, Just My Luck (just kidding about the last one, sadly) - the topic of Pine's brief, albeit very memorable, nude scene in the film inevitably came up. Apparently, Pine doesn't really understand the buzz his full-frontal appearance is generating, which will likely have the unintentional effect of making you fall even more in love with him, fair warning.
"A lot has been made about me being nude, and quite honestly, I'm only naked for . . . it's, uh, no Fassbender situation," he explained, making reference to Michael Fassbender's graphic nude scene in Steve McQueen's 2011 drama Shame. Despite Pine's protests that the real attention should be paid to the "animal" nature of his character, real-life Scottish king and rebel hero Robert the Bruce, the 38-year-old couldn't let the opportunity go by without mentioning that his penis is totally up to par with Fassbender's, in case anyone was wondering. "I mean, I'd certainly match him," he said.
Well, this settles it: this is the greatest Chris Pine moment since he rolled up to Comic-Con dressed as an off-brand tub of rainbow sherbet. All hail the Best Hollywood Chris!
Aquaman Unveils 7 Incredible New Character Posters - See Them All!
Aquaman is still a little over a month away from exploding into theaters, but luckily, we've had plenty to keep us busy in the meantime. In addition to some seriously cool trailers and a look at who's playing a young Jason Momoa, there have also been tons of glimpses of the water-based superhero himself. Until James Wan's film is finally released, there's now something else you can take a peek at: seven stunning character posters featuring the movie's biggest talents. Get up close and personal with each image ahead!
The Cast of Riverdale Made a Flashback Music Video, and . . . It's a Lot, Guys
This week's episode of Riverdale is taking us back . . . way back. In a very special flashback episode, we're hearkening back to the time when all of the parents were just teenagers. The catch, of course, is that all the cast's mainstays will be playing their parents, which provides plenty of opportunities to ham it up. Suffice it to say Riverdale is taking the opportunity and running with it. We're talking extreme camp, people! And now, we have a music video to prove it!
Just ahead of the episode, The CW released a new music video, much like the "Anything Goes" speakeasy tune and the electrified "Jailhouse Rock" performance that came prior. This time, though, there's a veritable 12-foot submarine sandwich worth of ham; we're talking dorky dad dancing, mortifying mom moves, and all that cheesy '80s and '90s goodness that really made the end of the millennium a rolicking good time. I can't decide if I'm blissfully entertained or painfully embarrassed. Maybe it's both?
Ashley Graham's Sexy Bikini Photo Shoot Will Have You Wishing Summer Never Ended
Ashley Graham looks good in just about anything she wears, but there's something about her in a bikini that is incredibly sexy. On Tuesday, the curve model slipped into not one, but five swimsuits for a beach photo shoot in Malibu, CA. Spoiler alert: she looked amazing in all of them!
Ashley was recently featured in the latest issue of Vogue Paris, and in the accompanying interview, it was revealed that the model will be giving a talk at the third annual Vogue Fashion Festival on Nov. 10. Ashley will discuss her experience working in the fashion industry and how she challenged society's beauty standards. Way to go, Ashley!
Riverdale's Flashback Episode Kind of Made Us Want a Prequel Show About the Parents
The Riverdale flashback episode that we've all been waiting for finally premiered on Wednesday night, and it was truly a blast from the past. The actors who usually play your favorite mystery-solving teens put on different personas in the epic throwback and might have simultaneously made viewers love them more than the present-day Riverdale teens.
In the episode, Alice Cooper opens up to Betty about the town's shady past with the board game Griffins & Gargoyles. We're then taken back to Riverdale High when the parents of Betty, Veronica, Jughead, Archie, Josie, and Cheryl land themselves in detention, where they begin to connect and learn more about one another (yes, it's an ode to The Breakfast Club). Eventually, they discover the Griffins & Gargoyles board game in a teacher's desk of confiscated items and start to play it. Soon, they're immersed in the mythical world and even sneak back into the school at night to continue playing the suspicious game, deeming themselves "The Midnight Club."
Seeing Lili Reinhart, Camila Mendes, Cole Sprouse, KJ Apa, Ashleigh Murray, Madelaine Petsch, and Casey Cott play the younger versions of their TV parents was interesting, to say the least, and a lot of Twitter users were loving it. See some of the impassioned reactions to the flashback episode ahead.
Rebel Wilson Apologizes For "Hurtful" Comment About Being "First-Ever Plus-Sized" Rom-Com Lead
Update: On Nov. 5, Rebel Wilson issued an apology on Twitter, saying that her initial statement "was not only wrong but also incredibly hurtful." She also apologized for blocking her critics and acknowledged other fuller-figured women in the industry who have starred in romantic comedies.
Original: On Oct. 31, Aussie actress and Pitch Perfect star Rebel Wilson stopped by The Ellen DeGeneres Show to promote her 2019 rom-com, Isn't It Romantic. While discussing the importance of displaying body diversity in romantic comedies on the big screen, Wilson stated, "I'm proud to be the first-ever plus-sized girl to be the star of a romantic comedy." The declaration didn't settle too well with some, and it set an important debate ablaze on social media.
The issue that many took with Wilson's edict is that she's not the first fuller-figured lead in a rom-com. Other Hollywood power forces, notably Queen Latifah, Monique, and Ricki Lake, starred in rom-coms of their own. In fact, Queen Latifah was nominated for a Teen Choice Award as choice movie actress for a romantic comedy for her role in 2010's Valentine's Day. Many pointed out not only the inaccuracy of Wilson's comment but how it also exposed another pitfall of Hollywood: the tendency to erase the efforts and trailblazing impact of people of color.
Wilson tried to defend herself in a tweet, saying, "it was questionable as to whether: 1. Technically those actresses were plus size when filming those movies or 2. Technically those films are catorgorized/billed as a studio rom-com with a sole lead. So there's a slight grey area."
Even so, other popular films, such as Netflix's recent release Sierra Burgess Is a Loser and 2007's Hairspray, starred women with curves and discussed the importance of body positivity. Although fuller-figured women are underrepresented in Hollywood, especially in the rom-com scene, they aren't completely nonexistent, and many Twitter users were quick to address that while others tried to give Wilson the benefit of the doubt.
Read some of the mixed reactions to Wilson's proclamation, and her attempt to justify it, ahead.
American Horror Story: If ANY of These Apocalypse Theories Come True, the Finale Is Going to Be Insane
WARNING: The following contains spoilers for American Horror Story: Apocalypse.
We have been through so much, American Horror Story fans. Apocalypse has taken us on a whirlwind journey, and it's crazy to think the season is about to end. From trying to sort out the wild timeline to the return of our favorite characters/actors and going over tons of theories about what is actually going on, we're just trying to keep it together. With the end of the season looming ahead, there are still so many questions surrounding literally everything. We have no clues about how this will end, who will be left standing, and whether we should feel conflicted about our attraction to the Antichrist. So, obviously, the best way to deal with this is to pore over some more theories about how the finale will turn out.
We have theories involving time travel! Ghost alliances! Cloned alien babies! Basically everything our little dramatic hearts could want. Grab a very strong cup of tea and read on for some of the amazing predictions about where the final two episodes of Apocalypse could be taking us.
Holy Smokes: Over 80 of the Sexiest Kardashian-Jenner Instagram Snaps of 2018
Following the Kardashian-Jenner women on Instagram is not for the faint of heart - if you're easily scandalized by barely-there bikini shots, sultry selfies, or a healthy handful of nudes, it's probably not the activity for you. But it's totally normal to be fascinated by the give-no-f*cks confidence that radiates out of Kim, Kourtney, Khloé, Kendall, and Kylie, especially when it comes to their social media accounts. And this year, between welcoming babies, juggling lucrative deals, and of course, dealing with a little drama, they've managed to steam things up even more.
Since keeping up with this family is a full-time job in itself, we're looking back at the Kardashian-Jenner crew's hottest photos from 2018 - scroll through to see them all now.
If It Seems Like Nicki Minaj Is Featured in Every Song These Days, It's Because She Is
Nicki Minaj has built her career on catchy and unique solo verses, many of which have made for out-of-this-world features on other artist's tracks. She is the ultimate collaborator, adding flair, attitude, and raw talent to any song she hops on. Prolific in her own right, Minaj has advanced the position of female rappers in the industry, breaking records left and right. In short, she is a queen. Here are some of Minaj's most memorable music collaborations - prepare to head-bop.
Freeform Has Released the 25 Days of Christmas Schedule! Check Out the FULL Lineup
True, we've only just made headway into Freeform's Countdown to Christmas schedule, but the pièce de résistance is here: the network has released its full lineup for the 25 Days of Christmas, its annual holiday movie spectacular! Truly, it's a sight to behold. So, you know, once you're finished burning through all of Netflix's brand-new holiday offerings and essential classics, rest assured that you can park yourself right in front of the TV and let Freeform take you away into a Winter wonderland. Where's my cocoa?!
Surprise Witch, Bet You Didn’t Think of These 32 Perfect AHS: Coven Gifts
American Horror Story has plenty of seasons for fans to pick and choose their favorite, but there's just something about the anthology's third season that spoke to us all. Not only is the season dominated by a cast of gloriously talented women, but they play powerful witches who are all out of f*cks to give and aren't afraid to play dirty. If you want a visit from a certain redheaded witch more than you've ever wanted a Hogwarts letter, these Coven-themed gifts are definitely for you.
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