Healthy lifestyle
A healthy lifestyle is one which helps to keep and improve people's health and well-being.Many governments and non-governmental organizations have made big efforts in healthy lifestyle and health promotion.
Mental Health
Mental health can be considered a very important factor of physical health for the effects it produces on bodily functions. This type of health concerns emotional and cognitive well-being or an absence of mental disorder.
Public health
Public health can be defined in a variety of ways. It can be presented as "the study of the physical, psychosocial and socio-cultural determinants of population health and actions to improve the health of the population.
Reproductive Health
For the UN, reproductive health is a right, like other human rights. This recent concept evokes the good transmission of the genetic heritage from one generation to the next.
Health
Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.
mercredi 13 février 2019
Jennifer Aniston Redefined "Birthday Suit" With This Outfit, and I Hope Brad Pitt Was Watching
No matter what Jennifer Aniston wore on Saturday, she was always going to be the center of attention at her 50th birthday bash at the Sunset Tower in West Hollywood. It just helps that the actress picked a scene-stealing jumpsuit for the occasion, so her guests wouldn't be able to keep from staring. And what a guest list it was, including George and Amal Clooney, Ellen DeGeneres, Kate Hudson, and, oh yeah, her famous ex-husband Brad Pitt.
Jennifer tried to maintain a low-profile exiting and entering the party, but we were able to catch a glimpse of her ensemble. Her strappy black jumpsuit included some sexy detailing in the back, which means it was likely meant to be seen from behind. Hey, if I was planning to run into an ex, I'd also pick something that looked damn good when I walked away. She completed the look with a matching shoulder bag, silver heels, and a blazer. Ahead, see even more glimpses of Jennifer's look and shop similar style for yourself.
This Flattering Top Is the Best Money I've Spent All Year - I Can't Stop Wearing It
You know that feeling when you're getting ready and staring at a fully packed closet, thinking, "Wow, I have nothing to wear"? I was experiencing that for awhile with my top selection. I had cute tanks and cozy sweaters, but not that one blouse that always made me feel confident no matter what. A few weeks ago, on my usual Nordstrom shopping trip, I discovered this Reformation Mari Top ($68), and I literally can't stop wearing it.
What makes it so good? The material is beyond soft and perfectly forms to my body. The ruched bust almost acts as extra padding and makes my small bust feel larger. But it doesn't just work for my body type: I let my sister, who has a large bust, borrow it and it worked for her too. Plus, its lightly billowy sleeves give off a romantic feel.
I first bought it in black and wore it with everything from skirts to work trousers - the list is endless. I loved it so much, I also bought it in white, and it's perfect for Spring. So what are you waiting for? Keep scrolling to shop both colors and get your size before it sells out.
Related: 24 Flattering Dresses That Look So Good on Different Women, They're Selling Out
Meghan Markle's Latest Look Brings a Whole New Meaning to the Phrase "Maternity Chic"
If you thought Meghan Markle had reached her fashion peak when she stepped out in a chic Givenchy ensemble for the Endeavour Fund Awards, just wait and see what she wore to attend a gala theater performance in London on Tuesday. The duchess stepped out with Prince Harry wearing a Calvin Klein turtleneck dress underneath an Amanda Wakeley coat that she previously wore in March 2018.
Though the couple's first child is due in just a couple of months, Meghan shows no signs of slowing down when it comes to royal engagements. Following this glamorous appearance, the royal couple will prepare for a trip to Morocco on behalf of the British government, where we'll no doubt get to see Meghan in some gorgeous maxi dresses like the ones she wore in Fiji. Ahead of that, get a closer look at her most recent appearance now, complete with an olive suede clutch and matching pumps.
It's Jennifer Aniston's Party, but I Only Have Eyes For Amal Clooney's Slip Dress
Amal and George Clooney were just two of the many celebrities who attended Jennifer Aniston's 50th birthday party at Sunset Tower in West Hollywood. But it's probably fair to say that, if only for a moment, all eyes were on the stylish couple as they entered the room. And who wouldn't commend Amal for the perfect outfit choice - a cranberry Cinq á Sept slip with gold hoop earrings and a swipe of red lipstick? I don't know about you, but this is the party dress I wish I was wearing last Saturday night, and possibly every Saturday night before that. Read on for another glimpse of Amal's timeless style, then shop the design you're definitely missing, if it doesn't already exist in your wardrobe.
The Ultimate Guide to Kate Middleton's Iconic Jenny Packham Gowns
One thing we love about Kate Middleton's style is that when she finds a designer she loves, she has serious brand loyalty. And no designer is a better recipient of Kate's frequent attention than her fellow Brit Jenny Packham. Jenny has been dressing the duchess for over seven years and has had the honor of creating pieces Kate wears on very special occasions, like immediately after the birth of her three children.
Since Kate has worn Jenny Packham in some of her most iconic looks, like selecting a lovely red gown for a diplomatic dinner and a cool blue dress for a film premiere, we think it's only right to revisit Kate and Jenny's greatest moments in fashion together, on the red carpet and beyond.
- Additional reporting by Melody Nazarian
Every Time Nordstrom Restocks These Boots, They Sell Out in a Matter of Days
You know a good pair of shoes is worthy of your attention when they sell out on a site immediately. That's why we were thrilled to see these Sam Edelman Hilty Booties ($160) back online at Nordstrom again. Every single time they're available in a new color, they sell out in days, sometimes even less time than that. Over 100 customers have reviewed the boots, and almost all of them give the design a perfect five stars - that's pretty impressive.
"Love! These booties are perfect for work or going out," one customer wrote. "They look great with everything. The height of the heel is not too tall, making them comfortable to wear all day! Fits true to size as well."
The boots currently come in three colors: black leather, black suede, and tan suede. I'm a shopping editor, and I own these boots myself. The three-inch heel is shockingly comfortable - I can wear these morning till night without any problems. The quality is also amazing; I get compliments every time I wear my pair.
Consider investing in these boots, because you can wear them for years to come. Make sure to check out all the colors before they sell out again.
Kylie Jenner's Date Night Dress Is a Study in Scarlet, So Consider Us Schooled
Kylie Jenner is a busy lady, but she sure looks good no matter how packed her schedule is. Case in point: this past Saturday. The 21-year-old entrepreneur seemed to be everywhere on Feb. 9, as she celebrated Stormi's first birthday with an extravagant party in the afternoon and stepped out for a glamorous pre-Grammys date in Beverly Hills with boyfriend Travis Scott later that night.
Kylie was in pure "momager" mode at Stormi's party, dressed in a light blue blazer and matching trousers, but she let her sultry side shine through in the evening with Travis. She chose a scarlet strapless Ralph & Russo gown for the occasion, with a high-slit to show off her legs. Her satin dress stole the show, so Kylie simply paired it with nude heels and a sparkling ring on that finger. Sure, we have some questions, but for now let's just admire Kylie's gown in all its glory. Ahead, see more glimpses of Kylie's look, and shop similar styles for yourself.
This $28 Bodysuit (From Amazon!) Makes Me Look 10 Pounds Slimmer - Now I Wear It Under Everything
All women everywhere, your undivided attention is required. The holy grail of shapewear has been uncovered. I have been hunting for a bodysuit that fills all my requirements, and I finally found it. This Bali Shapewear Lace 'N Smooth Body Briefer ($28) on Amazon is my new obsession. It's cute, lacy, and makes me look 10 pounds lighter - no joke.
I decided to order this bodysuit after plenty of online research. This option has almost 2,000 reviews and 61 percent of customers give it five stars. I first purchased the white version of the design in a 34C and it arrived on my doorstep two days later. I slipped it on as soon as I got home and was pleasantly surprised with how it looked. It smoothed out my torso and slimmed down my stomach, but not like your ordinary shapewear; it actually looked . . . sexy. I tried on some of my favorite dresses that are usually a little snug and holy crap, they looked amazing. This bodysuit is pure magic.
Besides being incredibly flattering, this body briefer also has excellent chest support - the soft cups include underwire so everything stays in place. It also has snaps at the bottom so you can easily take it on and off. After wearing this bodysuit twice, I ordered it in black as well. It looks great under all the clothes I own and it's incredibly comfortable. I don't feel like a stuffed sausage all day (most shapewear is usually incredibly restricting).
I'm telling you, this bodysuit is worth every penny. It's hard to find quality pieces with affordable price tags, and this choice ticks off all my boxes. Treat yourself to the body briefer and you'll be hooked.
The Best Street Style at New York Fashion Week
Street style isn't merely the perk of each Fashion Week season: it's become the main event to watch the best-dressed set make their way between shows. In their wake, showgoers, insiders, and influencers leave the styling fodder that fuels our habitual questioning: What should I wear today? If you're looking to the New York style crowd for answers, you'll find them in the form of cowboy boots, creative layering (coats on top of coats), and a few alternatives to your regular old blue jeans, because this is Fashion Week, after all.
Step inside for the best looks from NYFW so far.
Who Is Running For President in 2020?
Donald Trump has barely completed his second year in office, but presidential hopefuls from all parties are already lining up to run for office in 2020. While only a handful of political players have officially launched presidential campaigns, the signs that someone is running - serious fundraising, visiting battleground states, making political appearances, releasing a book, etc. - often make ambitions fairly clear well before they're announced.
So who might President Trump (if he is, in fact, the GOP's candidate in 2020) face in less than two years? While no Republicans have publicly waged a campaign to unseat the current president, several Democrats - and one Independent - have already officially announced their intention to run against him or launched serious "exploratory committees" to gear up for a run. Here's a look at the politicians who are running for commander in chief in 2020.
– Additional reporting by Alexandra Schudy and Rayna Rossitto.
It's Not Too Late! Here Are 102 Last-Minute Valentine's Day Gifts That We Know He'll Love
If you've procrastinated Valentine's Day shopping for your man this year, there's no reason to panic. Just thank the internet and modern-day technology, because these gifts will be at your doorstep quicker than your trip to the store! I know - it sounds too good to be true, but Amazon's two-day shipping is one big boxed blessing for those in a crunch. Find all of the presents that will trick your boyfriend or husband into thinking you remembered . . . because you did, obviously.
– Additional reporting by Macy Cate Williams and Lauren Harano
22 Unbelievably Cool Tech Gadgets You Never Knew You Needed - All From Walmart
To make sure you're stocked up on the hottest gadgets of 2019, we curated a list of 22 must-haves that will make your life easier one way or another. We looked to Walmart because the retailer carries many brands we love at affordable price points. From sleep lamps to automatic mops, prepare to want it all. Take a look at our favorites ahead.
Watch Out For These Signs That Someone on a Dating App Is Married or Taken
If you're single and browsing the dating app world, you're probably in the market for other single ladies and fellas out there to chat with online. You're most likely not interested in meeting people who are in committed relationships or are married when browsing nonaffair sites like Tinder or Bumble. Unfortunately, you never know who is really behind that profile. Earlier this year, Tinder crashed nationwide, and there was a surge in Ashley Madison by 20 percent with new member sign-ups in both the US and the UK. Why? Well, according to a 2015 survey of around 1,282 active Tinder users (at the time there were around 50 million people on Tinder), nearly 30 percent of Tinder users are married, while another 12 percent are in a relationship. Yikes. While this was a small sampling, and who really knows if people tell the truth in those kinds of surveys, it is a good reminder to keep your guard up when you're dating online. Don't fall for liars on Tinder and other dating apps - prepare yourself with these tips. Here are the red flags to look out for that someone you meet on a dating site is either married or taken.
Brutally Honest Reasons Why I Hate Valentine's Day
As a self-proclaimed queer feminist, Valentine's Day is something I have come to loathe. It is both the commercialization of the holiday and the sentiment that has always been unsettling to me. A whole industry has been spawned out of this day, and companies make millions of dollars from floral arrangements, cards, and dinner reservations. Valentine's Day is also the unofficial end of engagement season, interestingly, and nearly 10 percent of the total number of engagements for the year happen in February. So from the gate, February is already pushing you toward a heteronormative plotline.
There is so much hype and buildup, but for what? One day does not undo the other 364 you share when you're involved in a relationship. Random gestures of love and kindness should happen throughout the year. What does this say about the history of patriarchy? And the larger romanticized dream of love and what society dictates it should be? The long and short answer to both these questions is that it's complicated. However, for me, it has always been helpful to consider the larger history of the holiday to get a more nuanced perspective.
The origins of Valentine's Day are rooted in the Catholic Church. And as a Catholic-turned-atheist, this is yet another reason this holiday is unsettling to me. The Church holiday is named after St. Valentine; however, when you do a bit more digging on who exactly St. Valentine was, things become a bit murky. There are three Valentines that the Church recognizes, each of whom died in different ways.
While the history is interesting and there is even a potential pagan holiday the Church took over in an effort to overshadow it, there are still bigger issues at hand. As a person in the world, you should regularly put time aside to honor yourself and those around you who matter - and maybe a day like this is one to help you take pause. How and who you love are not the issue; it's whether or not you're taking time - any given day - to recognize and celebrate it.
Regardless of whether you are single or in a relationship, this holiday can put pressure on both situations. If you are in a relationship, there is larger societal pressure to shout it from the rooftops that you love your significant other. If you're single, you probably are going to hate it regardless, but for me, I have found it helpful to take pause and practice self-care on a day like this.
The older I get, the more important it is for me to surround myself with the people and the things that make me happy. Regardless of my relationship status, taking time for myself is one of the most important things I can do for myself any time of year. Valentine's Day has reminded me to take stock of my love life but also to help me keep me on track for what I am looking for in the long run. Overall, the pressure we put on the holiday just isn't worth it. Your time is better spent putting your efforts into your own happiness and the health of your relationship if you're in one - every day of the year instead of just one.
Is Dating Outside Your Political Party Impossible in 2019?
A couple months before the 2016 presidential election, I came across a study that revealed that just nine percent of Republicans and eight percent of Democrats said their spouse or partner was a member of the other major political party. The study comprised survey results from the Spring of 2016 - roughly one year since then-candidate Donald Trump had launched his misogynistic, racist, xenophobic, and generally intolerant presidential campaign.
The results seemed to suggest a distinct shift from previous, similar surveys, including one from 1958 that revealed 72 percent of parents had no party preference for their child's spouse - compared to only 45 percent as of 2017. They were also in contrast with a trend of increasing interracial and interfaith marriages through the years. Party politics have indisputably become more polarized since the 1950s, especially as women have become more empowered to partake in politics and share opinions that may be different from their male partners. As feminist journalist Rebecca Solnit has pointed out, unsaid numbers of husbands have influenced or even controlled their wives' votes, and some still do today. But another stark reality is that young women - and women of all ages - are increasingly finding our voices, and this could yield long-term paradigm shifts in the worlds of dating and marriage.
For many, the option to stay silent about politics and social-justice issues with a partner in this political reality feels like a symptom of privilege at best and an impossibility at worst.
Of course, the divides between millennial women's experiences in relationships and previous generations aren't limited to politics: millennial women are getting married later, having fewer children - if having children at all - and more of them are the breadwinners in their households than ever. But their politics are different: young women have become one of the most reliably liberal political blocs, and an increasingly politically engaged one, too. Our growing independence and our politics are inextricably linked, and we're not afraid to disagree with and challenge differing views around us.
In either case, I didn't think much of the study about declining interpolitical couples at the time, even over the course of my own almost year-long relationship with a libertarian, Republican-leaning white man. (I'm an Asian-American woman.) We started dating a few months after I stumbled across the study. It would be almost three years later, at the onset of 2019, that I found myself thinking of the study once again and interrogating my own experience with an interpolitical, heterosexual, and cisgender romantic relationship.
It wasn't that my then-partner and I hadn't discussed politics. Frankly, politics was sometimes all we'd discussed, often in long, drawn out, and emotionally laborious debates that left me exhausted and disheartened. It often seemed that no amount of statistics or moral arguments I offered could convince him that something Trump had said was offensive, or that reproductive rights comprised an urgent, existential issue for many women - and specifically for me. As deeply as I wanted to show him my lived implications around issues over which we'd shared disagreements, comments he often made during our arguments deterred me from ever opening up about them. As a result, I never felt fully emotionally safe or close to him.
But why hadn't his politics bothered me enough to leave? Especially as an Asian-American daughter of immigrants, whose life had been deeply, personally affected by sexual violence and a taxing journey to access reproductive health care? The end of our relationship had been the result of disagreements over commitment; not whether abortion was a fundamental human right or the fact that he'd cast his ballot for Gary Johnson in a swing state. Three years later, with that question nagging at me, I decided to ask other women like me - specifically, liberal women of color who date men - to share their experiences in the hopes of shedding some light on my own.
What It's Really Like to Date Someone With Different Political Views
Well before 2018, Trump made his true colors clear as day. His actions since - overseeing the separation of migrant families, turning away survivors of domestic violence and children at the borders, locking migrant children in cages, and forcing a man credibly accused of sexual assault onto the Supreme Court - should have surprised no one. For many, the option to stay silent about politics and social-justice issues with a partner in this political reality feels like a symptom of privilege at best and an impossibility at worst.
In straight relationships, political gender divides carry deep implications. (Fifty-three percent of men voted for Trump over Hillary Clinton in 2016, compared with 42 percent of women.) From #MeToo and the annual Women's March to the cultural ramifications of the president's notorious "grab 'em by the p-ssy" comments, gender and politics have become deeply interwoven into the American social landscape. It's no wonder the political, gendered conflicts that play out in public spill over into personal relationships.
As I continued to think of the 2016 study, I realized my assumption had been that the only way straight couples from opposing political parties could still exist was if those couples avoided talking about politics altogether. But when I started talking to such couples, I learned it wasn't that simple. These people had a wide range of experiences based on what, exactly, was being disagreed upon, the extent of the disagreement, and general feelings about whether discussions of politics and social justice issues were respectful and productive.
Melina*, 21, dated a man who shared her Filipino heritage for three months starting in 2017. She eventually ended their relationship over their vast differences - but not, she said, before plenty of lengthy, seemingly endless conversations and debates about a range of issues. She remembers that many of their disagreements weren't always as straightforward as Democrat vs. Republican, but, as she stated several times: "Existence is political."
Melina said her then-boyfriend made victim-blaming comments about the way women dressed, expressed discomfort with the idea of having an LGBTQ+ child, was frustrated with the #MeToo movement, and seemed "overly sensitive" in conversations about race. He also pushed back on her hypothetical preference to keep her last name if she were to marry, calling it "disrespectful." She said she challenged these views every time, requiring what she called "deep emotional labor" and significant amounts of time researching facts to counter his often problematic and troubling beliefs.
"All of it showed me that in your relationship, you have to feel mentally and emotionally safe," Melina said. She said social justice had been a deeply important part of her life for years, and her relationship had started to feel contrary to these values. "I thought a lot about privilege and the ability to 'opt out' of social justice, and whether social justice really means that much to you if you can coexist with and reward harmful views."
"Coming from a diverse, liberal part of California, and meeting his traditional family in Connecticut, showed me a side of the country I hadn't known before."
Jill Serron, 20, an Indian-American student at Boston University, also talked about the realities of privilege and its role in her ongoing relationship with a white man who voted for Trump in the 2016 election. According to Serron - who said her boyfriend has since recanted his support for Trump - their relationship is not only enabled but empowered by their ability to learn from each other and examine the vastly different cultural experiences and upbringing that were the source of their disagreements.
"Coming from a diverse, liberal part of California, and meeting his traditional family in Connecticut, showed me a side of the country I hadn't known before," Serron said. "Our conversations have shown me how other people think and helped both me and him grow."
But Serron acknowledged the presence of privilege in how their desire to be together, despite their differences, sometimes relies on agreeing to drop a topic. Occasionally, she said, they simply determine that something that divides them actually has little bearing on their lives, and therefore isn't worth fighting or harming their relationship over. "And obviously, there's privilege in that," Serron said. "We can avoid talking about some things, like how we disagree sometimes about LGBTQ+ and trans issues, or about people are overreacting to things Trump does, because we're not directly affected by those things ourselves."
According to Serron, she maintains boundaries and standards for decency she would require of any partner, noting that her boyfriend has been supportive of #MeToo and survivors of sexual assault. She said their relationship has expanded both their ways of thinking despite the fact that she's a Democrat and he's a Republican
Mariah*, 21, a graphic designer based in Orange County, California, shares Serron's sense of boundaries as to how far disagreements can stretch. She met her then-boyfriend, a white man whose experiences differed vastly from hers as a Vietnamese daughter of immigrants raised in a predominantly immigrant community, on Tinder. On their first date, Mariah said he had wasted no time in launching into a "conservative rant" about economic policies and his strong support for Trump's immigration policies.
"I never interrupted him, and that seemed to surprise him: that we could have mutually very respectful conversations despite our disagreements," Mariah said. "But meeting my parents, and learning their stories - that changed and moved him a bit. We both learned a lot from each other and that was so interesting."
Mariah said she draws the line when someone's beliefs shape their treatment of other people, or when their treatment of others is fueled by feelings of supremacy and disrespect. "The fact that he wasn't like that, and he respected and listened to me, made it easy to be with him," she said. Their relationship ultimately ended for other reasons, but Mariah said they remain friends, and she would not only be open to but may even prefer to date someone with different political views again.
Can Liberal-Conservative Romances Last?
Dr. Gary Brown, a Los Angeles-based couple's therapist who has been in practice for 25 years and takes pride in his diverse practice serving couples from all backgrounds, has encountered marriages and relationships troubled with political differences before. But according to Brown, political differences are seldom the sole issue rocking romantic relationships. Instead, couples often seek his help for a litany of other serious, relatively apolitical issues.
"Whether or not you stay in a relationship with someone with whom you have opposite views, I think, might be more about whether you really love each other and have a good relationship in the first place, all of that aside," he said, noting that tolerance "can very well help a couple transcend" their political disagreements.
""With all this polarization, there comes a lot of passion."
Dr. Elizabeth Lombardo, a clinical psychologist and couple's therapist based in the Chicago area, agreed that when couples who are deeply divided by political disagreements often initially come to her office seeking help with other problems. And certainly, this has become more of a trend in the last three years. "With all this polarization, there comes a lot of passion," she said.
That polarization has reached a head in the Trump era, and Lombardo said it often works in tandem with an inability to hear other views. "I call it 'conditional self-worth,' when you need others to agree with or see eye-to-eye or validate your views, to feel self-worth, when you need to be heard, so you don't let the other person speak," she said.
Lombardo posits that this is especially the case in a social media age, as we've become increasingly accustomed to sharing our views in tweets and posts in communities of mostly like-minded people. As a result, Lombardo believes people's growing need for validation could impact what they expect and demand from their partners. While she can't quite speak to generational differences in how women approach political disagreement with their partners, she can see a connection between social media and a growing need to have our beliefs validated and approved of.
According to Lombardo, there's "always a way" couples in disagreement can remain together. But certainly, that's a choice for each person to make based on their values and priorities.
How Boundaries, Mutual Respect, and Values Play a Role
But others, like Melina, see things differently, and view having basic agreements with your partner as a matter of standing up for social justice and morality in one's personal life.
For Melina, looking back at her relationship made her think of that of her parents and their upbringing in the Philippines. "I know there are things they disagree really sharply about," she said. While both of her parents are deeply religious, she said her mother tends to vote conservatively in contrast with her father's Democratic voting record. "But they don't really talk about this, and that's not always about privilege, but the cultural contexts in which some people are raised and what they're raised to see as too taboo to talk about - like LGBTQ+ identity or abortion rights, maybe."
Ultimately, as I tried to neatly tie together my thoughts about the 2016 study on interpolitical relationships in a fresh, 2019 context, I thought again of what Dr. Brown had said about a baseline of "mutual respect." Certainly, everyone has different boundaries and standards for what they seek in a partner, often shaped by identity and lived experience. But is it possible to feel respected by someone whose views and political participation disrespect the existence of other people like you? Of other groups you regard as equal? Of the fundamental values you hold at a time of nearly unprecedented assaults on these values? For all the frequent op-eds and cultural essays by men who refuse to date feminists - and by conservative women who refuse to date feminist men - don't women and feminists have standards of our own? Don't we have a fundamental need to feel respected, to be consistent in our values?
When I think about my own experience in a relationship with someone with whom I shared deep political and ideological differences today, what comes to mind first is how young I was. My conversations with Melina, Jill, Mariah, and doctors Brown and Lombardo prompted me to reevaluate my own past and all that I hadn't considered at the time. I realize I'd held an unshakable belief that I had not just the power, but the obligation, to change and unconditionally support someone - no matter the exhaustive cost to me personally. As I've struggled to take care of myself amid a constantly either draining or terrifying news cycle in the last almost three years, I've gradually come to shed that mindset altogether.
Relationships and human connections don't exist in a vacuum; different people find different interactions and conversations rewarding. But we are living in an age of children in cages and alleged abusers in the White House and Supreme Court. I understand the choice to opt out of the debilitating emotional labor of discussing with a partner why children do not belong in cages and abusers do not belong in power.
In the years since my last and only interpolitical relationship, the events that have transpired have shown me the importance of building relationships with those who share my fundamental values - those who see what is happening in the country and the world, and care. I'm proud to identify as a feminist and Democratic voter, with little patience for political stances propped up by misogyny, racism, xenophobia, and intolerance - and to say with confidence that I wouldn't enter my 2016 relationship as the woman I am in 2019.
Thanks For Asking, but No, I Will Not Be Traveling to Cuba
The questions started two or three years ago, when news broke that relations would begin to open with Cuba after more than 50 years of extreme sanctions against the communist government. "So, when are you going to go to Cuba? You know, now that you can." People were shocked to hear I had yet to book a ticket. My family, staunchly against it, made their feelings very clear. I, on the other hand, felt conflicted. After all, I tell everyone that I am Cuban, and I truly feel like I am. Yet I have never set foot in the place I identify so strongly with.
One day, I sat down with my grandmother, who came to America in 1962 as a refugee, and asked her why she forbade her children (all of whom were born in the states) and grandchildren from going to her home country, despite having said she wants to be buried there when she dies. The answer shook me. She said she would allow us to travel there when Cubans are allowed to travel freely to the United States.
You see, the softening of relations was a one-way street, which gave American citizens access to a curated experience of Cuban life. The vintage cars, the colorful architecture, the sparkling ocean views - all of it shying away from the harsh realities that people living in the dilapidated buildings knew to be true.
All of my family on my mother's side lives in the states; my paternal grandparents, however, travel to Cuba frequently to visit family I've never met. For this reason, I understand why they would welcome the change, making it easier for them to enter the island despite essentially risking their American citizenship the moment they step onto Cuban soil. My quandary deepens with those top-of-the-line cruises departing every weekend from Fort Lauderdale. The photos and stories people return with - of tropical greenery and an infectious spirit - just don't match up with the memories shared by family who has recently arrived.
It is advertised as a hidden paradise, but I can only think of the lost land where even hospitals aren't provided with basic sanitary means. Unfortunately, my tourism dollars will not raise the standard of living (as perhaps in other popular Caribbean vacation destinations) due to the centralized government. While the Cuban people do not want my pity and make the best of their situation, I will not fund the government who put them in that situation in the first place.
When I am met with shock that I do not want to visit Cuba, I give the same answer every time: I've seen what Cuba has to offer in Miami, where all the exiles rebuilt the beautiful culture that once lived on the island. I feel connected to mi gente through Saturdays spent in Domino Park with my grandfather, having a pastelito and cafecito after church at Versailles Bakery, and wearing the official garment of the Cuban people: the guayabera. Companies that were founded in Havana are now headquartered in Miami, such as the greatest beverage known to man, Ironbeer. The language, its slang, and its culture has evolved in Miami. The South Florida town was co-opted by an exiled community who found each other and built a city for their children and grandchildren where Cuban culture would never die. My grandparents sacrificed so much for my freedom, so I will honor them by keeping my promise and holding my breath until Cubans can breathe easy once again.
22 Nostalgic Latinx Hits to Blast at Your Next Party
With Latinx hits climbing to the top of the charts in the US as of late (I still have "Despacito" stuck in my head), I think it is time to revisit the jams of yesteryear. There's no party like a Latinx party, and the weddings, quincs, bar and bat mitzvahs (I know I'm not the only Hispanic with Jewish roots), and other pachangas of the '90s and early aughts had some of the greatest music around. With salsa, merengue, reggaeton, and everything in between, these Latin hits are sure to hit a nostalgic chord and remind you of dancing with your cousins, drinking Jupiña, and all-around living your best life.
17 Latin Soups Perfect For a Snow Day
When Winter hits and you finally feel that slight chill in the air that makes you feel good about bidding farewell to the warm months - isn't it weird how it tends to happen overnight? - there's often nothing more comforting for lunch or dinner than a big bowl of steamy soup. From traditional Mexican pozole to a more tropical Honduran sopa de caracol, we've rounded up a variety of Latin soups to whip up for the next few months. Try them out, dig in, and drink up.
16 Irresistible Empanada Recipes You Should Try Making at Home
We could write long love letters to empanadas. We could wax poetic about their delicious dough, either fried or baked, and the delightfulness of taking that first bite only to find the yummiest filling - sometimes meaty, sometimes cheesy, sometimes neither. We could even tell you how we are not ashamed to admit that we eat them every single time we spot them on a menu.
But why should we limit ourselves to only having these delicious pastries when out for dinner? We're done with that. That's why we've decided to round up these 16 recipes that'll allow us to enjoy a good old empanada every time we freaking feel like it.
10 Nostalgic TV Stars Who Made Me Proud to Be Latinx
At first, I didn't notice that so many of my idols growing up were Latina. I am a certified child of the gloriously cringe-filled 2000s, but one thing that decade got right was the incredible representation of young Latina women. In fact, the three largest Disney franchises were headed up by strong, smart, and talented female leading ladies representing Latin America. Television shows on Disney Channel and Nickelodeon also made a point to include Latinx casts with a great focus on diverse programming.
The influence of these characters made me proud to speak Spanish, introduced my non-Latinx friends to my culture, and gave me another reason to appreciate my favorite shows and movies. While the networks my parents watched are only starting to catch up, here are 10 characters from more than a decade ago who proved Latinx representation is not asking for too much.
We're Here For the Latinx Representation in These Binge-Worthy Netflix Series
What would we do without Netflix? It gives us access to a library of nostalgia, saves the day when we are bored or need lifting up, and has provided a platform for so many stories that haven't been told before.
Latinx representation in TV and film has been getting better in recent years, but only three percent of speaking roles in films were given to Latinx actors in the last 10 years, despite the fact that Latinx people make up 18 percent of the population *hand on face emoji*. Fortunately, Netflix features a catalog of television shows where the shares are slightly better. Some casts are made up entirely of Latinx actors, while some only feature a few - but we all know they're our favorite characters. They all reflect the reality we already know to be true: we are here, we are funny, we are intelligent, and we are ready to be seen!
mardi 12 février 2019
"Sweetheart" Hair Is the Dreamiest Color For February
Valentine's Day date? Nah, we've found a dreamy hair color that'll make you want to skip the dinner on Feb. 14 and opt for a day at the salon instead. Introducing "sweetheart" hair: the adorable hair trend that features shades of pink with swirls of purple and gold, and it's as romantic as it is fun. Plus, since the candy love hearts aren't available this year, sweetheart hair is the next best thing to satisfy your craving.
The color was created by Kate Reid, the design director for Color Me by Kevin Murphy, as an intense rose-pink shade that works with both cool and warm skin tones. Just like Valentine's Day and candy hearts, you can tailor a "call me" or "kiss me" hue just how you like it.
Whether you want a short and sweet duration of pink dye or want the color to last until Spring and beyond, "sweetheart" hair is easy to tailor to your lifestyle. Reid suggested that if you want your hair to last for February and beyond, adding the Kevin Murphy Colouring Angels is like adding lip gloss to the hair; it adds shine and maintains tone.
Ahead, get a closer look at some of our favorite versions of the new trend to get inspiration for your own version of the color.
Here's How Jennifer Lopez Got That Epic Ponytail at the Grammys
Jennifer Lopez always makes a statement on the red carpet, but her epic long Grammys pony is a look that won't easily be forgotten. The singer arrived with a full ponytail that went all the way down to her butt and was slightly curled at the ends. Celebrity hairstylist Chris Appleton was responsible for the dramatic look and used the Ghd Curve Soft Curl Iron ($199) to curl small sections of hair before brushing it out to get a subtle wave.
Check out the gorgeous look ahead.
These Are the 14 Beauty Products That Made It Into the $30,000 Grammys Gift Bag
"Shut the front door" is rarely a phrase we use in general conversation, but after hearing how much a Grammys guest gift bag is worth, we think this is an acceptable use of Amy Squirrel's punchy line.
Each Grammys guests that presented or performed left the ceremony with gifts worth a total of $30,000. Included in that sweat-inducing amount is gift cards, vacations, and beauty products - lots and lots of beauty products. If you want some gift ideas, or just care to gawk at a bunch of goodies, keep reading to find out which beauty products ended up in the hands of Cardi B and Lady Gaga.
THIS Is the Secret to Kate Beckinsale's Glowy Skin (and It's Not the "Penis Facial")
Contrary to what you may have read on the internet, you don't need to slather your face with liquefied cells of a baby's foreskin (also known as the "penis facial") to get Kate Beckinsale's skin. Instead, at least according to her longtime facialist Kát Rudu, there are a few other, more regular treatments she does you can try first.
It's worth noting that while Beckinsale may look like she hasn't aged in 20 years, her skincare routine certainly has: "I was first introduced to Kate by P!nk about eight years ago - they were out, and P!nk told her she should come see me, and sure enough she did," said Rudu. "Back then, she saw me to help with dehydrated skin, uneven skin tone, and give her a plump look."
These days, though, it's more about upkeep. "She is a very busy lady, so I go to her based on her schedule every couple of months," she said, adding that there are three go-to treatments she typically sticks with. The first is microneedling (which "closes the pores, brightens the skin, and gives beautiful clarity"), followed by red light therapy ("because it's calming on the skin, and since she's an actress and is always wearing makeup, it helps remove any redness or inflammation"), and finally, gentle microdermabrasion.
Now, any time you start blaming Beckinsale's glow-up on that big d*ck energy - facial or otherwise - you'll be reminded: "We have always done natural and clean remedies," said Rudu. "Kate is obsessed with taking care of herself and has always been good with her skin."
Anna Kendrick’s Feathered Pink Nail Art Was Created With This $12 Nail Polish
On Anna Kendrick's fingertips is a multidimensional, shimmery pink work of art. To create the look, nail artist Michelle Saunders used $12 nail polish Essie Gel Couture ($12) in Lace Is More (a vanilla shade with gold shimmer) and First View (a robin's egg blue), plus Essie Nail Polish ($10) in Pink Diamond (a tropical pink) and No Place Like Chrome (a shining silver).
Even better, it's so easy to re-create: layer on two coats of of the quick-drying Lace Is More. Then, using a small fan brush lightly sweep each shade - one at a time - from one corner to the center of your nail and remember to let each detail dry down before another one. Then, seal it all in using a top coat (like Essie Platinum Top Coat ($12), which creates a crystal-like shine).
Ahead, see close-ups of Kendrick's nail art.
Lingerie, Leather, and Skin Were Aplenty at the Grammys Afterparties - See the Wow-Worthy Looks
The Grammy Awards graced us with high fashion, ultraglam makeup, and looks that we have never before seen on any red carpet. But if you thought the looks during the show were hot, you will not believe your eyes when you see these supersexy afterparty ensembles. From edgy to alluring to totally tantalizing, these icons stripped down after the show.
Take a look at some of the stars who kept shining long after the show ended. Bringing sexy back is an understatement.
Kendall Jenner and Princess Diana Wore Virtually the Same Outfit 30 Years Apart
It takes an effortlessly cool chick to pull off track pants and knee-high cowboy boots. That's why I wasn't at all surprised when I shared Kendall Jenner's look with Fashion Director Hannah McKinley, giddy with excitement about it, and she said, "I feel like it's very Diana." (That's how we refer to Princess Diana around here, FYI.)
"YES!" I thought, wildly fired up as I searched for this iconic image of the late royal from 1989, dropping her sons off at Wetherby School. BTW, what mom pulls this outfit off successfully in the drop-off line outside her vehicle? If I was wearing this combination, I think most people would assume I had just finished shoveling an entire box of dry cereal in my mouth. Also, obviously, there would be crumbs on my white sweats.
And really, leave it to Kendall to re-create Diana's magic (perhaps unknowingly) 30 years later with Adidas slacks and a hunter crewneck, when cowboy boots are as ordinary as sneakers and Princess Diana's '80s influence is palpable on virtually every runway. We aren't even mad at Kendall for forgetting the blazer and baseball cap; we just hope she realizes she was channeling the most stylish British royal in all the land when she stepped into that LA sunlight.
20 Stunning Jewelry Pieces For the Girl Who Has Everything - Starting at Just $40
Nordstrom is one of our favorite places for on-trend clothes, beauty products, and especially jewelry. The retailer carries so many brands at every price point, so if you're looking for something specific, no doubt you'll find it. We shopped the site and curated a list of its best pieces right now, so whether you're looking to treat yourself or on the hunt for a special someone, we've got you covered. From luxurious rose gold pieces to affordable birthstone rings, it's all here.
These Valentine's Day Gifts Will Arrive Faster Than You Can Say, "It's Already Valentine's Day?"
As Valentine's Day (very) quickly approaches, it has dawned on some of us that we still don't have a gift for our SO . . . but thanks to two-day shipping, these gifts will get to you before your partner finds out you almost forgot to get them a present! Who doesn't love that? So, here's our way of saying happy V-Day to you, last-minute shoppers!
- With Haley Lyndes, Macy Cate Williams, and Krista Jones
I'm an Expert Amazon Shopper, and These Are the 10 Best Things I've Bought Recently
As a shopping editor, I spend my days browsing the internet for the hottest new products and best deals. One of my favorite places to search is no surprise: Amazon. The online retailer has always been my go-to for stuff like home cleaning products or my favorite vitamins, but most recently I've found myself buying everything from tech gadgets to home furniture. Ahead, I curated a list of the 10 best things I've bought so far this year to give you a little inspiration for your own shopping cart. Take a look at my top picks ahead, from the stylish puffer coat that's taking over New York to silicone dish-washing gloves.
McDonald's Donut Sticks Are *Temporarily* Here to Make Your Mornings a Little Sweeter
McDonald's is now in the doughnut-making business, and Dunkin' Donuts might have some competition. From sweet potato fries in Australia to cheesy potato bites and Instagram-worthy McFloats in Japan, McDonald's has pioneered treats for fast-food-lovers worldwide. Now, the fast-food giant is sending some love to its United States fans with new cinnamon sugar McCafé Donut Sticks. These indulgent churro-style treats will be available on the McDonald's breakfast menu starting Feb. 20 for a limited time, because the world can only handle so much fried, doughy goodness.
The crispy doughnuts will be made fresh each morning at participating McDonald's locations and sold by the dozen and half-dozen. McDonald's customers can even get a special discount when pairing a half-dozen Donut Sticks with a small McCafé brewed coffee for only $1.99, similar to Dunkin' Donuts' $2 deal. So for anyone who's already a fan of the restaurant's bakery items - like McDonald's morning coffee cakes and muffin toppers - cinnamon sugar doughnuts are really the only logical step forward, right?
McDonald's originally began testing the Donut Sticks in early 2018 and again in October 2018 in select Illinois restaurants. Now, the long-rumored sweet treats are officially available nationwide for all McDonald's fans to enjoy. So get 'em while they're hot!
27 Furniture Pieces Under $100 So Nice, They Prove Amazing Style Can Be Affordable
Don't automatically assume that sticking with a small budget means you have to have a boring home. We're here to tell you there are tons of affordable furniture options that are shockingly stylish. From armchairs to coffee tables and everything in between, we uncovered the chicest pieces that will instantly elevate a space, all for under $100. With prices like that, you could fill a whole room in no time. Read on to see our editor-curated selections.
This Inflatable Jacket Vacuum Dries Your Dog When They're Wet, and OMG - This Is Coming Home With Me Now
As someone who's been a pet owner for six years, I actually love the smell of wet dog. I don't necessarily love when our house smells like wet dog - that's actually kind of a stale, hot stench - I more enjoy when my dog is wet. It usually means she did something fun, like went on a walk in the rain or had a good bath. But my enjoyment fades fast because I know what comes next: I need to dry 60 pounds of Golden Retriever fluff.
Regardless of your dog's breed, everyone can agree that getting the dog to stand still while a loud dryer hovers around their fur is a harrowing task, which is where the Puff-N-Fluff Dog Dryer ($35-$65) comes in. Your dog steps into the leg openings, and it zips quickly, then you connect a blow-dryer to one of the hoses. It comes in four sizes, and because the air circulates inside of the jacket, they dry much faster.
Time to play in the rain!
A Coffee-Brewing Alarm Clock Exists, and I Think I Just Became a Morning Person
If you're one of those people who can spring out of bed in the morning, I don't know whether to envy you or fear you. If given the option, I could lie in bed for hours. I've even tried letting my phone charge in the bathroom, leaving me no choice but to get up to turn off my alarm. The problem with that is that I just fall back into bed. At this point, I'll try anything to make my mornings as seamless as possible; but in my dream world, I would be woken up to fresh coffee brewing, birds chirping, the sun shining, with exactly enough time to pick out an outfit I actually like. Well, Urban Outfitters must've been listening, because they've made one of my dreams come true with this Barisieur Coffee Brewing Alarm Clock ($445).
This is an alarm clock that wakes you up with freshly brewed coffee or tea. Yes, you read that right. It's even got a refrigerated compartment for your milk, so it's all ready to go. If this isn't luxury, I don't know what is. Simply set your alarm, and once it goes off, your drink will be ready within three to five minutes. I'm not the only one who thinks this is the coolest thing ever; when I showed this fun gadget to my coworkers, one said, "I want someone to propose to me with that alarm clock." Now, the only question is, can this fit on our bedside table?
This Cat Was Revived After Being Frozen in a Snow Bank, and I Guess She's Down to 8 Lives?
Fluffy, a beautiful cat from Montana, might be down to eight lives after getting frozen in a snow bank in eight-degree weather. After her owners found her unresponsive with ice balls matted to her fur, they rushed the cat to the Animal Clinic of Kalispell, where Dr. Jevon Clark got to work warming her back up. Initially, Fluffy's temperature was so low, it didn't register on the thermometer - cats' temperatures are usually around 101 degrees - but after hours of being wrapped in warming blankets followed by a trip to the emergency room, the kitty began to show signs of life.
"Amazing success and survival story from this week," reads the Facebook post. "Some clients found their injured cat buried in snow. They brought her to us essentially frozen and unresponsive. Her temperature was very low, but after many hours she recovered and is now completely normal. Fluffy is amazing!"
Thankfully, the clinic announced that Fluffy is expected to make a full recovery. And yes, she will be an indoor cat going forward.
Gather Your Girls! Here Are the Best Girlfriend Getaways For 2019
"You're the loves of her life. And a guy's just lucky to come in fourth."
Mr. Big may have uttered this iconic line 15 years ago on Sex and the City, but the importance of female friendship still rings just as true in 2019. While we're making space for self-care and prioritizing what really matters, there's nothing like uninterrupted quality girlfriend time. Why should bachelorette parties be the only excuse to escape on vacation with your tribe? Making memories over once-in-a-lifetime experiences is just as important as the all-important Sunday brunch therapy sessions. Whether your crew prefers to get a little wild in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, or relax and unwind in Bali, we've selected the amazing getaways for 2019 that every girl in your crew will love!
How Would Disney Princesses Decorate Their Homes in 2019? Probably Just Like This!
If you have ever thought about what it's like to live like a princess, now is your chance to experience some of the magic. Interior design startup Modsy designed these elevated Disney-inspired rooms, selecting modern home decor based on how some of the most iconic princesses would have decorated their homes in 2019. Focusing on six beloved princesses - Belle, Cinderella, Elsa, Moana, Mulan, and Snow White - these rooms channel each of the princesses' key characteristics. The decor matches their personalities with elegant pieces you'll want to add to your home (whether or not you're a Disney fan!). No need to wish upon a star to experience a happily ever after, because now you can bring these storybook favorites to life.
Step inside these fairy-tale rooms and take a peek at what it looks like to live in a Disney dream.
100 Fast and Easy Vegetarian Dinners That Don't Skimp on Flavor
Two things that sometimes don't mix: weeknights and cooking. But with the right recipes, it's possible to have a satisfying and delicious vegetarian meal in no time. From pasta and stir-fry to salads and soup, these speedy dishes will actually have you looking forward to cooking dinner instead of dreading it.
- Additional reporting by Nicole Perry and Lauren Harano
33 Valentine's Day Gifts So Thoughtful, Your SO Will Never Know They're From Amazon
Shopping for Valentine's Day can be stressful, but this year it doesn't have to be. To make finding the perfect gift easy you can turn to Amazon because the site carries just about everything you could ever think of, including sweet and thoughtful presents. We did the hard work for you and uncovered 32 choices that will surely make them feel special. From a dozen roses to a giant teddy bear, these presents will be delivered right to your door (or theirs!). Take a look.
The Secret to a Great Night's Sleep Has Been Hiding in Your Bedroom
Raise your hand if your 2019 New Year's resolution was to get a higher quality of sleep. Yeah, us too. Well, in order to do that, you've got to look at some of your most basic accessories, and the first thing should be your pillow. Whether you sleep on your back, side, or stomach, there's a great option that's just waiting for you to drift off to dreamland.
Who Is Kirpa From The Bachelor? 7 Things to Know About the New Front Runner
Kirpa Sudick finally got a one-on-one date on The Bachelor this week, to many fans' delight. She's been a smiling face on the show, but she hasn't gotten a ton of airtime before now, compared with the other contestants. (Kirpa didn't even get to explain on screen how she got that chin injury!) Outside the Bachelor mansion, though, Kirpa seems like a total delight.
Fans will remember from Kirpa's intro on the show that she's a dental hygienist. She also calls California her home, and she's a huge Grey's Anatomy fan. Kirpa also noted in her Bachelor profile that the best date she's been on was at Disneyland, and she finds Denver "the most romantic city in the U.S."
Kirpa seems like someone who's fun but down to earth, and it's great to see her spending more time with Colton. Just because she's not involved in the drama with the other ladies doesn't mean she's not serious about finding love on the show. And Kirpa's apparent plan to lie low seems to be working out pretty well for her so far.
The Backstreet Boys Turned the Grammys Into a Giant Group Date With Their Beautiful Wives
The Backstreet Boys are back, alright - at the Grammys, that is. After almost 20 years, the boys made an exciting return to the ceremony on Sunday - can you believe it's been that long?! Clad in color-coordinated suits, the boys looked sharp as they arrived at the event with their beautiful wives. Nick Carter was accompanied by Lauren Kitt, AJ McLean was joined by Rochelle DeAnna McLean, while Brian Littrell brought Leighanne Littrell. But the fun didn't stop there! Kevin Richardson had Kristin Richardson by his side, and Howie Dorough had the support of Leigh Boniello.
It was a special night for the Backstreet Boys; not only did they celebrate the release of their tenth studio album DNA, but they scored a nomination for best pop duo/group performance for "Don't Go Breaking My Heart." Unfortunately, Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga won for "Shallow," but they'll always be winners to us.
Diana Ross's Family Steps Out For Her Historic Grammys Night, and We Are Not Worthy
Diana Ross was the guest of honor at this year's Grammys, and you better believe her family stepped out in full force to cheer her on. The 74-year-old music icon - who will ring in her 75th birthday on March 26 - gave a special "75th Diamond Diana birthday performance" to commemorate her "profound impact in the world of music." Diana was joined by some of her children - Rhonda, 47, Tracee, 46, and Evan, 30 - as well as her grandson Raif-Henok Emmanuel Kendrick, 9, and daughter-in-law Ashlee Simpson, 34. OK, can we just take a second to admire all the gorgeousness in this family? We are not worthy! Of course, this isn't the first time Diana has been honored at the fete. Back in 2012, she received the Lifetime Achievement Award. What a legend!
Drake's Grammys Acceptance Speech Was SO Raw That He Was Cut Off Mid-Sentence
Every once in a while, a stud in a turtleneck appears on our TV screens and we turn into the heart-eye emoji. On Sunday night, that stud was Aubrey Graham, aka Drake. The rapper surprised everyone when he appeared on stage to accept the award for best rap song for his work on "God's Plan," but it was his reflective acceptance speech that had everyone tuned in. In fact, the speech was so poignant that it was cut off, and both viewers and audience members were left confused.
"We're playing in an opinion-based sport, not a factual-based sport," Drake started his speech. "The point is: you've already won if you have people who are singing your songs word for word. If you're a hero in your hometown . . . you don't need this right here, I promise you. You already won." Watch the video ahead, and see how everyone's reacting to Drake's acceptance speech at the Grammys.
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