mardi 19 avril 2016
40 Conversation Starters That Make Mingling Fun
It's sometimes hard to break the ice with people you've never met before. Whether at a corporate event or big party, there's no reason to hide in a corner. Instigating conversation can lead to amazing connections that help you obtain your dream job or lead you to a new best friend - or great date! Not sure where to start? We have 40 conversation starters to make mingling fun.
- Where did you grow up? This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease.
- Do you have any pets? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start.
- What's your favorite book? Instead of asking what people are reading right now, which can be a bit too intimate, asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection.
- What's the first thing you do after work? Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed.
- What's your dream job? Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started.
- If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone.
- What countries have you traveled to? Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages someone to share memories.
- Do you like to cook? Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing.
- What's your favorite food? Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime.
- What's your favorite drink? A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering.
- Do you have a favorite local restaurant? This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.
- What's your favorite movie? You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie. Follow it up with specific questions, such as scene stealers and actors in the flick.
- What movie are you dying to see? Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases.
- What are you watching on TV? This is another question that won't offend and is open-ended, encouraging even the supershy to start chatting.
- What's the last concert you went to? Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation. And it's a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to.
- What's the craziest thing you've ever done? For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation.
- If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item, what would it be? Yes, a classic one-liner, but this convo starter always gets a good answer.
- What's your favorite season? Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation.
- Do you speak any other languages? Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded.
- Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend? Make chatting easy by asking about future plans - without setting off a stalker vibe. Keep it light and share your plans too.
- Where's your favorite place to hang out in town? Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening. And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.
- I like your shirt! Where did you get it? A genuine compliment makes anyone smile.
- I can't place this song - do you know it? Hey, even if you know the tune, asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start.
- How long have you been at your job? Even at a corporate event, asking others about their job titles, roles, and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice.
- Tell me about something that made you laugh this week. Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile.
- If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? A bit more direct, but asking a specific question that requires thought can really make an impression.
- How are you today? Sure, this is a no-brainer question, but it gets people talking.
- Where is the best place you have ever visited? Taking a vacation is always wonderful. Asking someone new about a favorite destination is always an easy way to start talking.
- Did you hear about (something trending in the news)? Pick something pretty generic, remembering to stay away from politics and religion, and the conversation will get rolling.
- So, what's your story? OK, this one is borderline pick-up line, but it's also a direct approach for chatting.
- This place is awesome! Have you been here before? Complimenting the venue is a positive way to chat with others.
- If you could be an animal, what would you be and why? Just don't roar after asking! This question is also a fun and light way to break the ice.
- If you could invite a famous person over for dinner, who would it be? Also an often-used convo starter, this question has lasted the test of time, which makes it a winner anywhere, anytime.
- What's your favorite holiday? Open and generic, a basic question is an easy way to start mingling.
- What's the craziest thing you've ever eaten? Here's another fun question that gets people talking! And it's a great question to use when you feel awkward joining a group that's already chatting.
- What is one thing you couldn't live without? Wine? Chocolate? Bread? There's no wrong answer to this question, which makes it another winner.
- Have you ever won anything? It feels good when you win something, so asking someone about this special moment encourages sharing.
- Do you have any brothers or sisters? Slightly personal without requiring too much info, asking others about their family is a smart way to make connections.
- Have you ever met anyone famous? A brush with a famous person is always a thrill, making talking about it with a stranger a fun icebreaker.
- Do you prefer texting, calling, or emailing? Emailing! This is actually a great question to ask someone after you have made a connection. Follow up by asking for your new friend's phone number or email address.
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