Healthy lifestyle
A healthy lifestyle is one which helps to keep and improve people's health and well-being.Many governments and non-governmental organizations have made big efforts in healthy lifestyle and health promotion.
Mental Health
Mental health can be considered a very important factor of physical health for the effects it produces on bodily functions. This type of health concerns emotional and cognitive well-being or an absence of mental disorder.
Public health
Public health can be defined in a variety of ways. It can be presented as "the study of the physical, psychosocial and socio-cultural determinants of population health and actions to improve the health of the population.
Reproductive Health
For the UN, reproductive health is a right, like other human rights. This recent concept evokes the good transmission of the genetic heritage from one generation to the next.
Health
Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.
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Make Your List, but No Need to Check It Twice - These 129 Gifts For Kids Are All Winners
Wrapping up the perfect gifts for your kids to open over the holidays can be tough - even if they're the type to write up a list of what they want, it'll either be quite extensive, super vague, or so specific, you feel like there would be no surprises. If you're looking to craft an amazing list of gifts for your kids, look no further than these hot toys, trendy fashion picks, and other fun ideas for kids of all ages.
Tyra Banks's Son Thinks Christmas Is Every Day, and Hmm, Maybe He's Onto Something!
Supermodel and Life-Size 2 actress, Tyra Banks, recently swung by Live With Kelly and Ryan to chat about her upcoming projects and some parenting conundrums she's faced with her nearly 3-year-old son, York. The latest? Apparently, he thinks every day is Christmas.
The mom told Kelly and Ryan that "he is so excited [for Christmas], but he's confused," and honestly, the reason why is pretty valid. Tyra explained that because some people decorate for the holidays well before Thanksgiving, York isn't exactly sure when Christmas Day is. "He thinks that every time he sees a tree, a tree farm, lights, [or] a Santa that that is Christmas Day . . . He's just thinking that this is what the world is. He's like, 'Mommy, it's Christmas today! It's Christmas! Where's Santa Claus? Where [are] my gifts?' He expects Santa every day."
And we have to agree, the timeline of the holiday season is probably super confusing for little ones. Fingers crossed Santa leaves York some good presents this year on actual Christmas Day!
I'll Never Make My Family Pose For Holiday Portraits - Here's Why
I'm all for beloved holiday traditions, but one thing I've never been into? Holiday family portraits. While they've always been around, they seem to have gained even more popularity in recent years, especially with social media. Whenever I scroll through my Instagram or Facebook feeds once the weather gets cold, I begin to see the professional snapshots, one more elaborate than the last. Everyone is dressed alike (sometimes in matching pajamas), siblings wear ugly holiday sweaters, and every single person flashes a picturesque smile. If you're one of those moms who can rally the family to do this, I truly applaud you, but I can't and won't.
To me, staged and professional family photos - especially around the holidays - aren't very memorable. I prefer candid, messy, and even blurry photos from our time together during the festive months. In professional portraits, everyone looks their best, is perfectly posing against a nice backdrop, and is told to smile and say cheese. I know that if that was my family, I wouldn't stumble upon those a few years later and think, "That was such a magical day." But the few photos I manage to capture of my kids making snow angels before I almost drop my phone in the snow? I'll cherish those forever.
Snapping pictures throughout the holidays is an important pastime in my family. Not only can I look back at old ones from my own childhood, but I love creating new ones with my kids, too. Someone is always snapping away in our house, and after a hectic day of being with family, I love looking at all the captured memories. It's an amazing reminder that there are magical moments happening all around me, even if I can't see them at the time. It also reminds me what's really important: family and being together. All of the energy I put into planning, organizing, and hosting is so worth it, and these photographs are proof.
Not doing holiday family portraits also takes the pressure off me. It's one less thing I have to organize, and I don't have to worry about painting a perfect family image that isn't realistic. We're loud, disheveled, and it's extremely hard to get my kids to smile at the same time, but that's exactly how I like it. But if other families cherish the memories they make while taking family portraits, then that's exactly what they should do. There's no right holiday family traditions, and any photo is worth keeping in my opinion.
So, while I can appreciate the moms who take the time to match their families in those adorable holiday outfits, I'm definitely more of an outtakes kind of mom. I hope my children feel that way when they get older and dig out our holiday albums. I want them to flip through the photos and be instantly taken back to those feelings of home, family, and yes, burnt turkey.
Editor's Note: This piece was written by a POPSUGAR contributor and does not necessarily reflect the views of POPSUGAR Inc. Interested in joining our POPSUGAR Voices network of contributors from around the globe? Click here.
UGG Boots Are Available on Amazon, and I Just Finished All My Holiday Shopping
Is there any greater feeling than coming home after a long day and slipping into your UGGs? We think not. We've been obsessed with these comfy, cozy boots forever, and they're a great present for anyone on your holiday shopping list. Whether you're looking for a cozy treat for your toddler or a cute slipper for your SO, try a pair of UGGs. And the best part? They're all available on Amazon, so these cute styles can be yours in just two days!
Dear Candy Canes, as a Parent, I Seriously Hate You
Dear Candy Canes,
You know the famous tale about how the Grinch stole Christmas? Well, I think it was actually you. I mean, first of all, just look at you. You put on such a front. You're so nicely wrapped and packaged that no one would ever think you'd cause such misery. You hang so nicely from Christmas tree branches, over the tops of stockings, and are the perfect finishing touch to any holiday present. You smell good. You come in an assortment of colors - the traditional red and white peppermint is my personal favorite - and (mostly good) flavors. And you're, I'll admit, delicious. Yes, you are the quintessential holiday symbol and treat. But while you scream holiday cheer, you put parents everywhere into a state of madness. And I mean madness.
How many parents have found remnants of you in the most unusual spots in their homes? After a seemingly innocent trip to the mall to meet Santa Claus or a family gathering with generous aunts and uncles, your sweet treats get sucked on for a few minutes before they're dropped or forgotten. I can't tell you how many old, nasty pieces of you I've found in the back of our car during the holiday season (and in the months after). I basically have to pry you off my kids' car seats with pliers for crying out loud! I've found you in their beds (sneaky little stinkers) and the worst place of all, the dryer. Yes, somehow the remnants of you made it through the wash cycle and into the dryer, only to be smudged all over my son's jeans, ruining the rest of that load of laundry.
Thanks a lot.
Did I mention the stickiness? DID I?! Parents of toddlers everywhere loathe the site of you, you red-and-white-striped holiday cheer stealer. Instead of our sweet children calmly enjoying you as a treat, we're left chasing them around and wiping their fingers and mouths at all times making sure they don't touch Aunt Suzy's new white couch. And parents all know that having a daughter takes things to a whole different level. My daughter has gotten many of you caught in her hair. It takes forever to get you out without cutting her beautiful locks! So. Much. Screaming.
So, candy canes, while you may look nice, you definitely belong on the naughty list. You're a hindrance to our holiday cheer. No, you're a holiday cheer bandit. If you can somehow get a hold of all of your sticky behavior, maybe, just maybe, I'll let you enter my home again. But until then, you're staying the hell out of my kids' stockings, our Christmas tree, and my daughter's hair.
From,
The Grinchiest Mom Out There
The Reason This Groom Blindfolded All His Wedding Guests Will Make Your Heart Melt
When Robbie Campbell set out to marry Stephanie Agnew in Australia, he was determined to make the day as perfect as possible. To do that, he blindfolded all 54 of his wedding guests so they could experience their wedding the exact same way as his bride, Stephanie, who went blind shortly before meeting Robbie. James Day, a local photographer, captured the most precious moments of the day, and the photos are the definition of stunning.
According to James's Facebook post, Robbie made an announcement to the guests right away, saying: "When we lose one of our senses, the others become heightened. This allows us to experience something as beautiful as these vows in a totally unique way. Today, we get to experience them from Steph's perspective."
"When we lose one of our senses, the others become heightened. This allows us to experience something as beautiful as these vows in a totally unique way."
Although the request was certainly out of the ordinary for attendees, it meant a lot to Robbie as well as Stephanie's mom, who, like her daughter, went blind from cone-rod dystrophy.
"I couldn't control my emotions as she walked down the aisle," Robbie told The Daily Mail. "She looked like a true princess bride in the dress. The blindfolds were received well by the guests as they were experiencing that moment in the same way Steph and her mum, who is also blind, were experiencing it."
For Stephanie, who's never seen her husband, the moment was one she'll never forget.
"I've never seen him. I know his build," Stephanie said. "He is 6 foot 4 inches and I am 5 foot 4 inches, so he is a lot taller than me. And I know he has broad shoulders, but other than that I have to rely on descriptions. Everyone has hurdles so it's important to dig deep within yourself and understand that life can be hard but there are always ways to deal with things."
Scroll through to get a look at the photos from this unforgettable day, and try not to tear up in the process.
Just Days After Having His First Kid, This New Dad Has 10 Major Takeaways All Parents Must Read
If you've had a kid or know someone who's had one, there's one thing you can likely attest to: the last thing you're capable of doing just days after having your newborn is writing something informative or reflective, let alone helpful. But new dad Joey Parsons is in a camp of his own.
Just 10 days after he and his wife had their first boy, the new dad published a post on Medium for other newbie parents who might be following in his footsteps. And it isn't rife with run-of-the-mill "sleep when the baby sleeps" advice that everyone from grandparents to childcare providers will regurgitate back at you; these are thoughtful and specific learnings. Check out the post for the full 10, but here are our favorites.
Amazon Released Its Top 20 Children's Books of 2018, So Here Are Our Kids' Stocking Stuffers
As a huge reader who was an even bigger reader as a kid, lists of the year's new books, especially the best ones, make me giddy. Which is why I'm thrilled looking over Amazon's list of the top books of 2018, especially the picks for children's books. Even if your kid isn't a major book-lover and has plenty of trendy toys on their wish list this year, books make for amazing stocking stuffers, and these all sound too good to pass up.
Check out the 20 top children's books of 2018 that we can't wait to give our kids as gifts. (Because is there anything cuter than a mini reader? We think not.)
These Ideas Will Bring the Magic of Movies Into Your Wedding
Do you remember that feeling of joy when Noah from The Notebook said, "If you're a bird, then I'm a bird"? Or that Old Hollywood charm of Rick Blaine from Casablanca in his sharp suits? Well, there's a way to incorporate that cinematic appreciation into your wedding. With some help from Be Inspired, we compiled the best tips and tricks from people in the wedding industry on how to add some movie magic into wedding ceremonies. Browse through this gallery to get some inspiration!
What It's Like to Get a Hysterectomy as a Transgender Man
My wife and I rolled up to the surgical center before the sun had even risen on a Wednesday morning in September. It was years in the making, but I was finally getting the hysterectomy I so desperately needed. I was decked out in my best pair of sweatpants and ready to get those baby makers out of me, but I probably should have shaved my face first - because, yup, I'm a transgender man.
Why I Decided Surgery Was Right For Me
I've been dealing with ovarian cysts since I was 13 - and, as I mentioned, I'm not a woman - so I figured it was finally time to get these excess bits out of me. There was something unsettling about having multiple organs inside of my body that were literally doing more harm than good. When doctors find a tumor or cancerous mass inside someone's body, they'll remove it without question. That's how I began to see my ovaries. Each month brought more pain, but it was a pain I didn't feel comfortable discussing with my friends or coworkers. It was another reminder that, despite feeling comfortable with my outward appearance and passing as male, my internal anatomy was still fighting against me.
The ovarian cysts popped up every month, and the estradiol produced by my female organs was waging war with the testosterone I injected each week, which led to a lot of distress. I dealt with mood swings, digestive issues, depression, and just about everything else associated with both PMS and the typical male puberty. My body had no idea what to do with itself, and it was finally time to fix that.
After experiencing yet another cyst rupture at age 29, I made an appointment with the ob-gyn team at my medical center, and we scheduled a total laparoscopic hysterectomy for a few months later. I realized the one thing that made this entire surgery so uncomfortable was the same thing that made the surgery possible through my insurance: being a transgender male. I was told by the surgical coordinator that because my surgeon stated that this was a transition-related surgery, instead of a surgery to prevent ovarian cysts, my insurance covered it. If he were to say that this was a preventative surgery, my insurance likely would have denied the coverage and I would have been left paying almost $20,000 out of pocket for a surgery that will eradicate a lifetime of pain.
It's strange to think that if my wife were to go to her ob-gyn and request a hysterectomy due to ovarian cysts, her request would likely be declined in favor of "less extreme options" - cheaper and often less effective options, to be clear - like birth control.
So I dealt with being a lone male in an ob-gyn office. I brushed off the stares, the marker on all of my medical records that said "female-to-male transgender individual," and the cover-up stories about what surgery I was getting ("Oh, it's a mass removal"), because I was getting this surgery.
The morning of the surgery was less anxiety-inducing than I'd anticipated. The only thing I was actually concerned about was being nauseated after waking up from the anesthesia, but I was given a bunch of medication and a seasick patch to prevent that. The med students and residents explained what was going to go down to my wife and me, and then I was wheeled back and relieved of my female reproductive organs. No one questioned why this scrawny little man was here for a typically "female" surgery, and I was treated like every other patient who ever got their ovaries removed. The surgery was done via the da Vinci robot, which is as awesome as it sounds. My surgeon removed the organs by operating a robot through special controls that look kind of like a virtual reality setup. My abdomen was filled with gas, and there were four one-inch incisions made: two on my right side, one on my left side, and one in my bellybutton.
They took it all: both ovaries, the fallopian tubes, the cervix, and the uterus. Due to over five years of testosterone therapy and fluctuating hormones, my uterus had atrophied quite a bit. In fact, one of the residents referred to it as a "cute-erus" since it was so tiny. I went home that same day with a pair of mesh underwear and a bag full of pain medications.
The Recovery Process
By the second day, I was beginning to regret the surgery. The last surgery I went through was my top surgery (double mastectomy), which had a pretty easy recovery. I couldn't move my arms too much, but the pain was manageable and mainly came from the binder I had to wear for a couple of weeks.
A hysterectomy recovery is totally different. With my top surgery, I had a physical "trophy" of what I had gone through every time I looked in the mirror: my breasts were gone, and my chest was finally flat. Every day post-op was one more day closer to being able to remove that binder and see my chest. It was a huge step in my transition and one that I don't think I'll ever get over. Even though my chest isn't perfect (I'm still scrawny, and my farmer's tan is atrocious), it's still a masculinized chest.
With a hysterectomy, it's a distinctly female recovery. I had my last period about a month after I began taking testosterone at age 24, and I hadn't experienced menstrual cramps since then. The first month and a half of my hysterectomy recovery was essentially a month-and-a-half-long period, which caused some discomfort. I was spotting (not enough to warrant wearing a pad, thank God), cramping, and bloated. I couldn't wear anything that didn't have an elastic waistband for almost two months, I ate way too many Hostess Cupcakes, and I found myself relying on one of those husband pillows. Since it had been over five years since my last period, having to deal with these physical reminders was jarring and frustrating. I remember sitting in the bathroom and staring at the blood that had leaked into my underwear with angry tears in my eyes, a forcible reminder that my body was still clashing with my mind and soul.
But isn't that what this surgery was for? Aside from external genitalia, my body no longer thinks of itself as female. If a doctor were to check my hormone levels, they would finally be within the normal male range. If I had an X-ray or ultrasound done, no one would find any ovaries or a cervix or anything that would point to being female.
2 Months Later, I Know I Made the Right Choice
Eight weeks after my hysterectomy, my body and emotions are no longer riding the roller coaster of testosterone vs. estrogen, and I'm finally stable in a male's body.
Other than relearning how to feel and coming to terms with my new body, I had a few tiny complications that occurred throughout my recovery. These were mainly due to human error and not really related to the surgery, but it led to a longer recovery than I had planned. I went back to work part time after about three weeks and then hit full time at five weeks post-op.
For the first time in my life, my body is finally aligned with how I've always felt inside. There are no conflicting hormones wreaking havoc on my body or monthly cysts popping up to remind me of the things I cannot - or thought I could not - change. A hysterectomy is a huge step in my transition, so I'll be holding off on any additional surgeries until the practice of "bottom surgery" is a bit more refined.
I'm eight weeks out from my surgery and I still don't feel "normal," and I don't think I'll ever truly feel "normal" again. Regardless of whether you're a biological female getting your ovaries removed as a cancer prevention or you're a transgender male getting ready for your next surgical step, a hysterectomy is a life-changing surgery.
Is it weird knowing that a handful of organs have been removed from my body? A little bit. Is it a huge relief not dealing with ovarian cysts every month? You bet. Is it something I would recommend? It's hard to say. After all, I can only speak to one person's unique experience: my own. But I hope by sharing my story, someone else can make the right decision for themselves.
These Are the Little Things Women Notice About Their SO When in Love
You might love that your partner is intelligent, ambitious, compassionate, or all of the above (you lucky girl!), but when you're truly in love, the little quirky habits and gestures really stand out most. You may not have noticed the way your partner curls up when watching a scary movie or how they perk up, showing dimples and all, when they dig into a pizza pie, after a couple of dates. However, as time passes and the connection grows deeper, you fall hard for each other, and those cute, silly, embarrassing, sexy, and totally unique traits become apparent, and yes, lovable. Here, real women share the little things their partners do that make their hearts flutter.
21 Things That Inevitably Happen When You Travel With Kids During the Holidays
My family usually hits the road for the holidays, heading to the beach with my extended family for a vacation that only in the last year (when my son was almost 4 and my daughter was almost 7) began to feel like one. Before that, it was a stressful trip that took so much time and energy to execute that if it wasn't for that alluring Florida sunshine, I might not have gone.
Between buying and wrapping gifts early so I could ship them to our destination in time for Santa's arrival to renting baby supplies we couldn't fit in our suitcases to throwing our rules about screen time and sugar consumption out the window, traveling with kids for the holidays is a jolly sh*tshow. But hey, the holidays are all about togetherness, right? And nothing brings more togetherness than being stuck in a tiny condo for a week (or even better, a car for an eight-hour-plus drive) with your toddlers. If you're planning a trip with your kids over the holidays - to Grandma's house or somewhere more exotic - here are 21 things you need to prepare yourself for.
15 Different and Fun Places to Spend the Holidays That Aren't Disney
Holiday traditions often leave families staying in (or visiting) the same place year after year. But what if you just want to get away? Use your kids' time off from school for a family vacation? Not deal with the stress of entertaining and keeping your house clean? Luckily, there are a ton of festive destinations you can escape to this holiday season that aren't the ever-popular Disney parks. From the city that never sleeps to the city that's known for chocolate, there are lots of great places across the US that you should add to your holiday vacation bucket list. If you're ready to unlock a different kind of magic this year, keep reading.
6 Ways I Benefited From Turning Off My Phone For Just 1 Week
I've had a cell phone since I was 11. I know - let that sink in for a second. Post 9/11, my parents wanted to make sure my brother and I had a way to get in touch with them in case of emergencies, so for the past decade and a half, I've had a phone essentially super glued to my left hand. In essence, I've been conditioned.
This past year, I hit my threshold of feeling overwhelmed. I was so tuned into everything around me and around the world 24/7, responding to everyone within seconds, constantly available . . . that I forgot to tune into what I needed. As such, stress levels contributed to atrocious mental health, chronic illness, and a destroyed immune system.
I needed to do a hard reset, and not on my phone - on my life.
The reset started with clearing my calendar, finding a place to chill out and rest, and then digitally detoxing. Phase one: move apps like Instagram to new folders on my phone and put new apps in their former places to see how often I was mindlessly opening them. Phase two: delete social media apps temporarily. Phase three: no tech for one week. GASP! I know. Here's what went down. (Note: this also went down on a week I was not at work - truly tech-free!)
You'll Want to Steal These Communication Secrets From Happy Couples
When it comes to a happy partnership, lots of factors are at play. You might consider common interests, similar values, sexual chemistry (let's be real, here), and, of course, communication, the latter of which is super, super important for a flourishing, successful relationship. Here's why: the way you speak to each other determines how you provide each other respect, work through conflict, and enjoy as many happy moments together as possible. Yet it's hard work! Luckily, a few real-life couples shared their top tips for communicating well as teammates.
15 of the Most Inspirational Books For Women, Because 2018 Has Been a Year
As a woman in 2018, every day can feel like a battle, so there's always room for a little inspiration. Reading powerful, meaningful words helps us get through our days stronger than ever, and we'll take any extra boost of confidence we can get. If you're looking to be reminded of your own worth, or trying to find a cool, thoughtful gift for a special woman in your life, you've got to check out these books. They'll have you raising your fists in solidarity.
35 Gifts For the Guy Who Basically Has Everything
Men can be the toughest nut to crack when it comes to shopping. They aren't always vocal about what they want (and don't have 12,000 Pinterest boards like we do), and to make things worse, anything they have their eye on, they buy themselves. But we're here to help! No matter what your guy's interests are, we've got a gift idea for him! Check out our extensive gift guide now!
- Additional reporting by Tara Block
These Ideas Will Bring the Magic of Movies Into Your Wedding
Do you remember that feeling of joy when Noah from The Notebook said, "If you're a bird, then I'm a bird"? Or that Old Hollywood charm of Rick Blaine from Casablanca in his sharp suits? Well, there's a way to incorporate that cinematic appreciation into your wedding. With some help from Be Inspired, we compiled the best tips and tricks from people in the wedding industry on how to add some movie magic into wedding ceremonies. Browse through this gallery to get some inspiration!
These Are the Little Things Women Notice About Their SO When in Love
You might love that your partner is intelligent, ambitious, compassionate, or all of the above (you lucky girl!), but when you're truly in love, the little quirky habits and gestures really stand out most. You may not have noticed the way your partner curls up when watching a scary movie or how they perk up, showing dimples and all, when they dig into a pizza pie, after a couple of dates. However, as time passes and the connection grows deeper, you fall hard for each other, and those cute, silly, embarrassing, sexy, and totally unique traits become apparent, and yes, lovable. Here, real women share the little things their partners do that make their hearts flutter.
21 Things That Inevitably Happen When You Travel With Kids During the Holidays
My family usually hits the road for the holidays, heading to the beach with my extended family for a vacation that only in the last year (when my son was almost 4 and my daughter was almost 7) began to feel like one. Before that, it was a stressful trip that took so much time and energy to execute that if it wasn't for that alluring Florida sunshine, I might not have gone.
Between buying and wrapping gifts early so I could ship them to our destination in time for Santa's arrival to renting baby supplies we couldn't fit in our suitcases to throwing our rules about screen time and sugar consumption out the window, traveling with kids for the holidays is a jolly sh*tshow. But hey, the holidays are all about togetherness, right? And nothing brings more togetherness than being stuck in a tiny condo for a week (or even better, a car for an eight-hour-plus drive) with your toddlers. If you're planning a trip with your kids over the holidays - to Grandma's house or somewhere more exotic - here are 21 things you need to prepare yourself for.
15 Different and Fun Places to Spend the Holidays That Aren't Disney
Holiday traditions often leave families staying in (or visiting) the same place year after year. But what if you just want to get away? Use your kids' time off from school for a family vacation? Not deal with the stress of entertaining and keeping your house clean? Luckily, there are a ton of festive destinations you can escape to this holiday season that aren't the ever-popular Disney parks. From the city that never sleeps to the city that's known for chocolate, there are lots of great places across the US that you should add to your holiday vacation bucket list. If you're ready to unlock a different kind of magic this year, keep reading.
6 Ways I Benefited From Turning Off My Phone For Just 1 Week
I've had a cell phone since I was 11. I know - let that sink in for a second. Post 9/11, my parents wanted to make sure my brother and I had a way to get in touch with them in case of emergencies, so for the past decade and a half, I've had a phone essentially super glued to my left hand. In essence, I've been conditioned.
This past year, I hit my threshold of feeling overwhelmed. I was so tuned into everything around me and around the world 24/7, responding to everyone within seconds, constantly available . . . that I forgot to tune into what I needed. As such, stress levels contributed to atrocious mental health, chronic illness, and a destroyed immune system.
I needed to do a hard reset, and not on my phone - on my life.
The reset started with clearing my calendar, finding a place to chill out and rest, and then digitally detoxing. Phase one: move apps like Instagram to new folders on my phone and put new apps in their former places to see how often I was mindlessly opening them. Phase two: delete social media apps temporarily. Phase three: no tech for one week. GASP! I know. Here's what went down. (Note: this also went down on a week I was not at work - truly tech-free!)
You'll Want to Steal These Communication Secrets From Happy Couples
When it comes to a happy partnership, lots of factors are at play. You might consider common interests, similar values, sexual chemistry (let's be real, here), and, of course, communication, the latter of which is super, super important for a flourishing, successful relationship. Here's why: the way you speak to each other determines how you provide each other respect, work through conflict, and enjoy as many happy moments together as possible. Yet it's hard work! Luckily, a few real-life couples shared their top tips for communicating well as teammates.
36 Unicorn Gifts That Are Downright Enchanting
Maybe unicorns aren't real, but they are real cute. You don't need to be 12 years old to rock your mythical-creature pride; we have found 36 awesome unicorn gifts for grown-ass women. Check out all the adorable options and add them to your holiday wish list.
15 of the Most Inspirational Books For Women, Because 2018 Has Been a Year
As a woman in 2018, every day can feel like a battle, so there's always room for a little inspiration. Reading powerful, meaningful words helps us get through our days stronger than ever, and we'll take any extra boost of confidence we can get. If you're looking to be reminded of your own worth, or trying to find a cool, thoughtful gift for a special woman in your life, you've got to check out these books. They'll have you raising your fists in solidarity.
35 Gifts For the Guy Who Basically Has Everything
Men can be the toughest nut to crack when it comes to shopping. They aren't always vocal about what they want (and don't have 12,000 Pinterest boards like we do), and to make things worse, anything they have their eye on, they buy themselves. But we're here to help! No matter what your guy's interests are, we've got a gift idea for him! Check out our extensive gift guide now!
- Additional reporting by Tara Block
Jennifer Lopez's Sexy Shoe Closet Is Stacked, and She Definitely Has a Type
We know this might not be a groundbreaking observation, but Jennifer Lopez's wardrobe is stacked with sexy items. Though she might be known for her so-called naked dresses, the confidence-oozing multi-hyphenate also has quite the shoe closet, with her frequently worn styles including over-the-knee boots, gladiator sandals, and sleek pumps. J Lo's go-to style, however, appears to be ankle-strap platform heels - typically by Jimmy Choo - which she often wears to award shows and other red carpet events. Check out her fabulous footwear ahead, and shop similar styles.
Merry Christmas to Us! ASOS Just Released Tons of Fabulous Holiday Dresses
We always appreciate the huge selection of party dresses at ASOS, but its newest releases are sending us into a fashion-girl frenzy. The retailer is offering a variety of holiday dresses that are unique and Instagram-worthy. We rounded up our favorite picks (though it was hard to choose) for you to shop through. Prepare to see plenty of sequins, velvet, embellishments, and more. It's time to fill those shopping carts!
How to Dress at the Airport: These Stars Turn the Runway Into a Catwalk
When you're thinking about what to wear on a flight, comfort is obviously the first thing to consider. But that doesn't necessarily mean you have to sacrifice your personal style. After all, they don't call it a runway for nothing. Thanks to the celebrities who know they'll be photographed on their way through LAX or London Heathrow, "airport fashion" has become a huge thing, and while some of the A-list looks are probably best left to those who fly first class, you can borrow plenty of tricks from Hollywood's frequent fliers. Whether it's dressing up your athleisure look with designer accessories or braving the terminal in your highest heels, these stars make sure they arrive at their destination in style. Keep reading for 50 looks you can copy next time you're headed to the airport.
Those Internet-Famous Kate Spade NY Glitter Earrings Are Finally on Sale - Hurry!
Every time I see someone lay eyes on these Kate Spade New York Mini Square Stud Earrings ($19, originally $32), they automatically "ooh" and "ahh." This design has been a bestseller on multiple sites for years now, and for good reason. Not only are they so sparkly it's almost magical, but they're also well-made.
These earrings are rarely ever on sale, which is why we freaked out to see them discounted for 40 percent off. They would be the most dazzling stocking stuffer of the day, no doubt. If you're as excited as us, make sure to buy these earrings ASAP! Read on to check out more Kate Spade New York styles that are on sale.
Priyanka Chopra Just Dropped a Major Clue About Her Wedding Dress Designer
Priyanka Chopra covers Vogue's January 2019 issue at just the right time - right in the midst of her career boom and her wedding to Nick Jonas. It's safe to say Priyanka is thriving, and as she detailed her love story with Nick to the magazine, she revealed one or two things about the memories she has with Nick from fashion industry events.
"Ralph Lauren invited them to attend the 2017 Met gala together - not knowing anything about their months-long text flirtation. And yes, they met for a proper drink a week before the Met at the Carlyle hotel in New York," the feature confirms.
It was at that Met Gala that Ralph Lauren sent Priyanka up the stairs in the most showstopping look of the night. The trench gown, equipped with a long train, quickly became a viral internet meme and was conveniently shortened into an afterparty minidress.
Needless to say, Ralph Lauren is clearly a part of Nick and Priyanka's relationship timeline, so we wouldn't be surprised if the designer created something for the actress that sweeps the floor, then magically transforms into a mini for dancing at the reception.
Ahead, see Priyanka's shots from Vogue, then admire some of her gorgeous moments in Ralph Lauren.
These 18 Fashion Gifts Look Like a Million Bucks, but They're All Under $25
Got a fashion girl in your life? Don't worry, buying presents for her doesn't have to drain your bank account. There are tons of stylish gift ideas on the internet with majorly low price tags. We chose some tasteful options that are all less than $25 - no joke. Shop through everything and click "order" before it's too late.
Sorry, but Victoria Beckham's Tweed Shoes Kinda Put Your Glitter Heels to Shame
What's this?! Victoria Beckham stepped out for a late dinner at Carbone in NYC wearing a caramel drop-waist dress that revealed a subtle hint of lingerie. But we were more focused on the designer's cherry accessories than that little detail - a suede clutch that drew attention to her tweed Balenciaga pumps ($714), which were distressed around the edges and adorned with a gold button. These puppies laugh at Dorothy's sparkly red slippers!
Who needs glitter when you can opt for something a touch more sophisticated but equally, if not more, noticeable? Victoria coordinated her manicure with the shoes, too, which might not have been intentional but brought her evening ensemble full circle. Read on for another peek at the holiday heels you must now add to your wardrobe, then proceed to do so.
Mandy Moore's Sparkly Ring Is Unique and One of a Kind - Just Like Her Wedding Dress
For her wedding to Dawes frontman Taylor Goldsmith, Mandy Moore looked absolutely stunning in a Rodarte gown. Mandy fulfilled her desire for something completely unique and nontraditional by wearing pink on her wedding day. While her ruffled gown (which was embellished with little polka dots and had a gathered floral design around her waistline) was truly one of a kind, so is her new wedding ring.
Mandy showed off her wedding band, which appears to have another rock on it, while shopping in Los Angeles. She accessorized her ring with a comfy gray sweater, jeans, cheetah-print Golden Goose sneakers, and a bright red headband that matched her lipstick. Read on to get a closer look at her wedding band.
19 Pretty Gold Earrings You Can Wear This Holiday and Beyond - Starting at Just $20
We're never not shopping for cool new accessories, and right now we have gold on our minds. This year, upgrade your jewelry collection by treating yourself to a couple pretty new gold pieces that you can wear through the holidays and beyond. From classic hoops to colorful studs and beautiful statement picks, we found it all. Ahead, you can shop our 19 favorite picks of the season, plus they make for great gifts too. Take a look.
Jennifer Lopez's Sexy Outfit Is Just What We Need to Get Into the Holiday Spirit
No, that's not an angel - that's just Jennifer Lopez being her gorgeous self at a recent taping of The Ellen DeGeneres Show. The singer went on the TV show wearing an ethereal outfit consisting of a one-shouldered top and ruffled skirt by Max Mara. Her outfit went perfectly with the decorated Christmas trees on set. She finished off her festive ensemble with white heels, a stack of gold bracelets, and a bold red lip. Read on to see all angles of her outfit and shop similar versions for your closet.
1 Look at Victoria Beckham's "Optical Illusion" Pants, and You'll Want a Pair For Yourself
Victoria Beckham is seeing red this holiday season, and so are we. After having fooled us not once but twice, the British designer pulled yet another trick out of her bag when she wore bright red pants, which made her look like she had infinitely long legs.
"I'm actually really obsessed with these pants from my pre collection," she explained on her Instagram Stories. "Because I've got a really really high shoe under them, and I look like I've got really long legs, which, in actual fact, I don't have. It's an optical illusion."
Simply paired with a striped sweater ($750) from her own collection, her Eva suede clutch ($1,855), black sunglasses, and platform heels, Victoria's red trousers looked incredibly chic, and I would be lying if I said I didn't immediately try to find a pair for myself. Read on to get a closer look at VB's latest ensemble, then shop her exact pants, as well as similar options.
Related: Here's a Closer Look at Victoria Beckham's 14 Engagement Rings - Yes, You Read That Right
This Bollywood Actress Wore Not 1 but 5 Jaw-Dropping Wedding Outfits
Bollywood's golden couple are officially off the market! Deepika Padukone tied the knot with fellow actor Ranveer Singh in the most elaborate Indian wedding we've ever seen. The stunning couple jet-set all the way to Lake Como for their nuptials, and trust me when I say their outfits were straight out of a movie.
The festivities comprised a mehendi ceremony, a prewedding ceremony where the bride's hands and feet are decorated with henna, and two separate wedding ceremonies: a Konkani Phool Muddi for Deepika's faith and an Anand Karaj for Ranveer's. For the mehendi ceremony, Deepika wore a blush-pink traditional outfit by renowned Indian designer Sabyasachi. At their Konkani wedding ceremony, the bride wore a red and gold silk saree from The House of Angadi. Finally, for the Anand Karaj ceremony, Deepika wore a gorgeous crimson lehenga from Sabyasachi that was covered with intricate embroidery and took months to create.
If you're thinking that's when the celebrations ended, you're wrong. Once the happy couple returned from Italy, they were spotted wearing Sabyasachi ensembles while arriving at their home in Mumbai. Since the couple had to invite so many people, they hosted two separate receptions: one in Bengaluru, where Deepika is from, and another in Mumbai.
For the first reception, the actress wore a beautiful gold, silk saree from The House of Angadi, designed by K Radharaman. She then ended her wedding celebrations in Mumbai wearing a breathtaking white, embroidered ensemble that had a long train. Read on to see all of the stunning outfits.
12 Shearling Shoes That Will Keep Your Feet Cozy All Winter Long
Have you ever met someone who doesn't want their feet to be cozy? Us neither. So as fashion girls, we love finding the cutest, most on-trend shoes that are also comfortable. Enter the fur-lined shoe. This trend has been spotted on every silhouette from boots to sneakers and slides; we can't get enough. This Winter, why would you wear anything else?
Something's Missing From the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, and You Already Know What It Is
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The last time I walked into Victoria's Secret and treated myself to red silk coordinates for Valentine's Day, it was because I wanted to feel sexy. That's what I love about the brand: it encourages women to embrace their inner sexiness, and I think that's important. Whether it's buying a new push-up bra or investing in one of the signature VS body scents, a woman should make herself feel desirable by shopping for underthings, if that's what she wants. At Victoria's Secret, there are so many high-quality pieces that cater to a wide range of tastes. Every time I walk into the store, my eyes widen at some sort of luxurious looking lingerie set (I really love shopping for lingerie).
Maybe I made the wrong selection on this aforementioned Valentine's Day. The push-up bra, strappy panties, and satin sash that was somehow supposed to wrap through a loop somewhere, then crisscross around my midriff and tuck into the waist belt (What?) ended up being a $150 look I simply couldn't pull off. I definitely didn't look like Lily Aldridge in this thing, but according to the images on the website, it should've been at least possible to wear correctly. Even though I bought the right cup size and I definitely know my waist measurements, the ensemble just wasn't right for me. It just didn't fit - my confidence level, more than anything.
At this point, I have exactly three unused Victoria's Secret gift cards tucked away in my wallet, and there's a good chance they've expired. It's not because I forgot about them - those glittery pink rectangles stand out way more than my office building entry pass and even my Frozen-themed Disney Visa. And it's not because I don't like Victoria's Secret. But the image the brand has projected lately and the lineup of Angels - all of whom have virtually the same figure - feel a little bit discouraging.
That's not to say I don't look forward to the annual VS runway, or that I don't understand the excitement behind finding out who's opening each section of the show. If you follow celebrity relationships and you love the personalities of all the different models, it's always interesting when one of them is best friends with the performer (Remember Karlie Kloss and Taylor Swift's adorable interaction in 2014?) or if, perhaps, the dude singing on stage is the hot new Angel's ex (flashback to Bella Hadid and The Weeknd). With all the glitz and the confetti that falls on the scene, this spectacle is a form of entertainment, and it's damn fun to watch. But it's impossible to ignore how similar the women all look as they strut on by.
The Prototypical Angel
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I've met a lot of Victoria's Secret models in the flesh, and they really do look exactly like you see in the pictures. They're really that tall; they really have that flawless skin, the hair you want after a visit to the salon but never end up with, and that toned-enough-for-a-six-pack but thin-enough-to-look-capital-S-skinny ab situation. They really don't appear to have any cellulite.
Of course, these women have access to camera-friendly, air-brushed makeup and quality body glitter and cover-up, and I haven't seen them all in a thong, but I've seen a bunch of them wearing little to nothing up close and attended the Victoria's Secret Fashion Shows. I can promise you that my body looks so different from theirs in lingerie, I might as well be another species.
And here's the thing: I'm petite, and while I have athletic legs, I am not particularly curvy. What about the women who are? Do they want anything to do with Victoria's Secret? Do they feel angry at or limited by the photos of the Angels on the retailer's site? Do they roll their eyes at the girls on the runway or feel saddened by the lack of diversity? My guess is that, like me, they do.
Where Are All the Curve Models?
Victoria's Secret is America's largest lingerie company. It's owned by the Les Wexner and family business L Brands, which has a current net worth of $5 billion. It's everywhere - plastered on one of the biggest billboards in Times Square, on your TV screen, and in the pages of the magazines you read.
While the runways at Fashion Week are continuing to become more diverse - at Christian Siriano, Chromat, and Prabal Gurung, to name a select few - there is still no cemented acceptance of difference in the fashion industry, only the possibility of acknowledgment. Many designers make an effort by including just one curve model on the runway. In my opinion, that is absolutely not enough. But at Victoria's Secret, there isn't just one curve model - there are none.
In Victoria's Secret's defense, the brand has made it a point to include women of color and various backgrounds and ethnicities in its casting - both on the runway and in shoots - but they still all seem to fit a certain "look," as far as size is concerned.
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Curve models with large social media platforms have publicly acknowledged, in various ways, that they realize they don't fit the Victoria's Secret mold. It was Ashley Graham who, in 2017, posted a photo of herself on Instagram modeling for Addition Elle, a size-inclusive lingerie brand she works with and designs for, on the exact same day the VS show was being filmed in Shanghai. She wrote, "Got my wings! My #AdditionElle wings! #ThickThighsSaveLives." Curve model Tabria Majors has also re-created Victoria's Secret campaigns in order to "revisit the conversation of average-sized women being represented in mainstream media."
Of course, we can't be positive that Ashley Graham was taking a jab at the brand, but she was certainly comparing another popular lingerie line to the powerhouse that is Victoria's Secret. I've been to an Addition Elle runway show, which includes models of all shapes and sizes, and there's something so comfortable about seeing them debut the new bras and panties. When they walk, their butt cheeks jiggle. A lot of them have gorgeous pear figures, and they're rocking flattering bustiers or camisoles that accentuate and draw attention to body parts of their choice. "Yeah," I thought when I saw them. "That's what I look like in lingerie." And these girls do look just as confident as the likes of Alessandra Ambrosio and Adriana Lima, who are VS vets that strutted their stuff for years.
I'm definitely not the only one in fashion who notices this clear juxtaposition. Director of Vogue Runway Nicole Phelps uploaded a row of diverse runway shots on the day of the 2017 VS show, all of which celebrate diversity in body type, age, and clothing taste (i.e., modest dressing). "In honor of the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, a reminder, courtesy of Chromat and Becca McCharen-Tran, that the battle for true diversity on the runway is ongoing. #SizeDiversity," she wrote.
Is Time Running Out?
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Has Victoria's Secret always been lacking in size diversity? Well, not exactly. Throughout the years, there have been some iconic Angels, such as Naomi Campbell, Heidi Klum, and Tyra Banks, who were more shapely than shockingly thin. But as the years passed and these supermodels hung up their wings - Naomi and Tyra in 2005 and Heidi in 2009 - the media began to embrace an increasingly svelte woman. Victoria's Secret put her on a pedestal by featuring this idealized figure in all its ads and certainly on all its runways. This single-track version of unattainable perfection is what Victoria's Secret continues to publicize today.
That's why sometimes, on days I feel a little more self-conscious than others, walking into a Victoria's Secret can feel daunting. If I do happen to feel sexy, I'll probably march right into the store and see if my gift cards have expired and whether I still have a balance left to use. But it won't be on the same day as the Victoria's Secret runway taping, nor the day the sparkly, mystical extravaganza airs on CBS. Probably not the day after either. That's because, in a way, I feel excluded from that runway - as though that very limited idea of beauty doesn't apply to me. Not one of those girls is 5'1" with athletic thighs and a double A cup. Can you imagine how many other women and girls feel discouraged, too?
A company as big as Victoria's Secret can and should have an answer for the rest of us, and it should start with the spectacle that is the runway show. It didn't happen in LA in 2006, in Miami in 2008, in London in 2014, nor in Paris in 2016. In 2017 it didn't happen in Shanghai, and not in 2018 in New York. The model lineups on those catwalks all looked the same to me. I don't know about my gift cards, but I wonder: what's the expiration date on this same old show where body diversity is never a theme?
5 Slick Sneaker Trends Replacing the "Chunky Dad" - Yep, It's Happening
Afraid that fashion gals are over the whole chunky dad sneaker thing already? Guess what - they might be. But that doesn't mean you'll have to start sacrificing comfort when you step outside. Functional trainers are sticking around, we promise. In fact, we can already pinpoint the five styles that will reign supreme in the new year.
While some of these trends take us back to our childhood days (Velcro, anyone?), the modern hiking boot sneaker feels brand new, combining our love for streetwear with a fresh utilitarian influence that extends to our clothes too. Ahead, read up on the silhouettes and colorways you're about to fall in love with, or jump ahead to the category you already know you want to shop.
16 Stunning Holiday Dresses No One Will Ever Suspect Cost Less Than $100
Topshop is one of our favorite destinations for trendy and affordable clothes, and this year its holiday dress selection is another level of impressive. From pink velvet midis to sexy sheer minis, we have no doubt you'll find your match. Our favorite part: they all cost $100 or less. Ahead, you'll find our 16 favorites that won't break the bank but will make you feel like a million bucks. Take a look.
Are UGG Boots Still in Style? These 15 Outfits Give Us the Answer
In the early 2000s, it was hard to look anywhere without seeing UGG's cozy shearling-lined boots. (How can anyone forget the denim skirt and UGG boot combo?!) If you were wondering if the Californian brand is still relevant, you have nothing to worry about - it most certainly is. Everyone from Zendaya to blogger Rocky Barnes has shown us fresh, modern ways of making the boots street-style-ready. Even my girl Rihanna was spotted in a pair while traveling. Read on to see how to style 'em and buy a pair if you're feeling inspired ahead.